The Reaction To "Game" & Other Past Vile Behaviour - After Enlightenment - Thread

[Droughtmeat]

I'm not following your point here. If women are scared the guy will leave, then you'd think this would cause better behavior on their part, not worse, which is what we see all around us. Christian girls aren't willing to wait for sex?

Yes, maybe the wording was poor. I'm saying the guys aren't willing to wait for sex for 1 to 6 months or maybe even until marriage. Meanwhile pious Christian girls don't limit their "pool" to pious men exclusively.

Therefore, the women even end up with so called "f*ckboys", but won't make exceptions for him either.

Christian girls, at least in my experience, have often times kissed many men, but aren't willing to sleep with just any random guy who isn't looking for something really serious.

I can even remember years ago making out with Christian virgins within an hour of meeting them, but sex before marriage was completely off the table.

 

[Wutang]

Christian girls, at least in my experience, have often times kissed many men, but aren't willing to sleep with just any random guy who isn't looking for something really serious.

I can even remember years ago making out with Christian virgins within an hour of meeting them, but sex before marriage was completely off the table.

Reminds me of this serious Christian girl I knew in high school. I was once at a birthday party where I saw her making out with her boyfriend in the open. These weren't little pecks but full on slobbering on each other. However, she was also super prude when it came to any discussion of sexual matters. I remember a time when I was speaking to her and I brought up the Adult Swim programming block that was on Cartoon Network at the time. Her face instantly reacted in disgust because she had never heard of it but assumed it must have been something pornographic.

 

[Droughtmeat]

Reminds me of this serious Christian girl I knew in high school. I was once at a birthday party where I saw her making out with boyfriend open. These weren't little pecks but full on slobbering on each other. However, she also super prude when it came to any discussion of sexual matters. I remember a time when I was speaking to her and I brought up the Adult Swim programming block that was on Cartoon Network at the time. Her face instantly reacted in disgust because she had never heard of it but assumed it must have been something pornographic.

Yes, the kissing is intense and can go on for hours, literally.
I also agree regarding everything sexual. The ones I've met have some of the best sense of humor and will laugh at the darkest most "racist" jokes regarding all ethnicities. But don't you dare use double entendres with sexual meanings. Their demeanor will completely change or they'll just say "Please, I don't like that." But whenever I apologize it will be back to normal immediately.

 

[Blade Runner]

Christian girls, at least in my experience, have often times kissed many men, but aren't willing to sleep with just any random guy who isn't looking for something really serious.

Yes, the sexual spectrum of acceptability became a movement similar to the overton window shifting left as the "center" decade over decade. A lot of this has to do with the biological reality that we aren't getting married anywhere near the 16-26 year old ages most should be, or at least the 20 yo woman with a 30 yo man sort of thing.

 

[Droughtmeat]

Yes, the sexual spectrum of acceptability became a movement similar to the overton window shifting left as the "center" decade over decade. A lot of this has to do with the biological reality that we aren't getting married anywhere near the 16-26 year old ages most should be, or at least the 20 yo woman with a 30 yo man sort of thing.

Good point. Expecting them to wait until their late 20s or even 30s to kiss, get touched or just get that confirmation that they're sexually desired is a lot to ask for.

 

[Blade Runner]

Good point. Expecting them to wait until their late 20s or even 30s to kiss, get touched or just get that confirmation that they're sexually desired is a lot to ask for.

It's always people and the society that make it up that is either aware of history, biology, reality, etc. When you get way too much influence from wealth/women, it all goes to shit, and ironically women lose a game they can easily win if lead properly.

 

[analyst_green]

This turned out to be much harder than I expected. First, I had to compile a list of the 10 most notable PUAs (in my opinion, my list is heavily influenced by the content I used to read and watch). Then, I tried to dig up information on what they've been up to.

Another guy some of you might know is Good Looking Loser. He ended up getting married and quietly disappeared from his website before covid. That guy was nuts and really tried it all: getting extremely jacked on roids, enhancing his penis size by stretching, Soviet cosmonaut drugs to reduce approach anxiety, aggressively touching women to polarize them... Life was just like a formula to him.

I think different factors are at play here. One is, surely, that their personalities aren't destroyed by constant exposure to men, especially to men who are advanced in regards to flirting and sex. After being with 15 guys she will inevitably have experienced 1 or 2 men who are extremely confident, never lose their "frame" and are very good in bed. These guys will set the bar that those humble men looking for long term romance will struggle to reach.

The thing is the truly pious women will be able to see through the false confidence that hedonistic, player type men project. Especially as women are more emotionally sensitive. The only true confidence can come from serving God, everything else is just putting on a mask to hide our insecurities, which is what fornication does. So the goal for all of us should be to build that kind of rock solid confidence through our faith. This will attract more godly women for sure.

But yes, if a woman has had premarital sex and her husband doesn't live up to it, that dissatisfaction will take its toll on the marriage.

Reminds me of this serious Christian girl I knew in high school. I was once at a birthday party where I saw her making out with her boyfriend in the open. These weren't little pecks but full on slobbering on each other.

I can't believe people do this. Their level of self-control to then refrain from sex must be stratospheric. Or they're lying.

 

[Blade Runner]

So the goal for all of us should be to build that kind of rock solid confidence through our faith. This will attract more godly women for sure.

In times where you don't get young women, this largely makes a wife for life worth it, the way I see it.

In the old days it used to be, as I've said, remember the wife of your youth (so the man wouldn't cheat). Now, it's all inverted as women get tons of men and end with a man that gets nothing but used up goods, and disdain from a wife who's had too much experience.

 

[Blade Runner]

Now, it's all inverted as women get tons of men and end with a man that gets nothing but used up goods, and disdain from a wife who's had too much experience.

Isn't it weird that if you get a wife from a foreign country (that has tradeoffs but costs less, is younger and much hotter, and more feminine), the hags of the west claim she's the gold digger? Last I checked you couldn't get a 6 in America or worse countries without spending millions on lifestyle for that very hag.

 

[Let God Arise]

Isn't it weird that if you get a wife from a foreign country (that has tradeoffs but costs less, is younger and much hotter, and more feminine), the hags of the west claim she's the gold digger? Last I checked you couldn't get a 6 in America or worse countries without spending millions on lifestyle for that very hag.

It’s angry jealousy-coping, because they can’t compete and they also can’t stop you from broadening your search field beyond your borders. Women are highly competitive against each other and will all hate the beautiful woman who dresses classy and stylish. They’ll call her a whore, while dressing for the street, themselves.

 

[stadtaffe]

Another guy some of you might know is Good Looking Loser. He ended up getting married and quietly disappeared from his website before covid. That guy was nuts and really tried it all: getting extremely jacked on roids, enhancing his penis size by stretching, Soviet cosmonaut drugs to reduce approach anxiety, aggressively touching women to polarize them... Life was just like a formula to him.

Was coming to this thread specifically to ask about him, "Good Looking Loser" but the answer is already here. He was fantastic. Apart from his other content, shamelessly talking about steroid use in his podcasts. Although I have so far chosen not to use them myself one could appreciate his blatant honesty about them. Then there was his side business selling kratom. Not sure exactly what that stuff did for anyone.