I think you are an earnest poster and that overall this is well meaning, but you are missing many points here and characterizing things incorrectly on multiple levels. Let me explain.Why would a priest tell men they have no hope? They are not ministers of Satan. You can find good priests answering what a man should do to find a wife. I know that both Fr Josiah Trenham and Fr Peter Heers have addressed this and their answers were similar: "grow closer to Christ" why would they say "don't bother, there's no hope to find a good woman."?
First, I never suggested that a priest tell anyone they have no hope, so I don't know where that came from. I find Mar Mari's example, which is likely similar to other priests who "give good advice" to be important but lacking in the vein of the larger point of my post. That is, if you tell a man, "find a godly wife" or a woman who loves God, and (bear with me to prove this point) there aren't any women that love God or are active in the church, that's not helpful advice. If at some level, or when you've lost an entire group, the rate limiting step, to the temptations of Babylon, you have to address that. Come on, this is just basic stuff. Now, a counter and the bickering could be based on this kind of response: "Well, Blade Runner, you just need to marry the good women who happen to be overweight and older." And then we just have the same issue the forum has complained about ad infinitum, which is that western women that are young or any good as wives at all are so miniscule that the only option, especially for a successful man (and even average men want attractive 20 year olds, lol) is to leave the country.
I look at it as being something that they aren't willing to suffer for - telling the truth - for the good of others. If we are too far gone, then let's just bring on the depopulation and give Glory to God for all things, since part of those all things is going to be leaving decent men (or more) behind with no children or wives. Standing by and doing or saying nothing to women is something I find irresponsible for man, or a larger group of men with supposed sway.If it was profitable for him to chastise secular feminist women (who aren't going to listen to him anyway)
[I'm sad to tell you I think this is exactly how it will go for reasons I've stated elsewhere]
I agree with this. I have shown that your post confuses many things, though, that neglect a larger point: if we don't or can't promote kids and family in our churches, there won't be many left to tailor anything to.Its not always advisable to shout from the rooftops things that are best tailored to the individual.