No offence but this is concern trolling.
None taken.
I don’t really keep track of what Australia says but I don’t really care either way, even he’s trying to get laid under false pretences, it’s very common behavior.
Yep.
Usually when people get bullied they’re asking for it.
I don’t agree with this. Lots of bullying happens at younger and teenage age ranges, and unless the kid is some type of social reject and acting that way, you can’t make the argument they are asking for it. That makes no sense.
You’re suggesting if people hold his hand and try to reason with him he will turn into some kind of humble student and change his behavior. It doesn’t work like that.
No I’m not. I’m suggesting that mockery and attacking him is useless. Let’s say that he was being disingenuous and going against forum guidelines. Telling him not to do it and mocking him would make him double down on his behavior. The fact that some posters think it would work makes me question any real world experience they have. Trying to induce behavioral change, first and foremost requires the person in question to want to change. On that note, if Australia was living in sin, and decided to keep at it,
nothing we can do would help. If, he was say on the fence and seeing the error of his ways, piling on him and mocking him would fail. This is no different than any other addiction or self sabotaging behavior.
Second losers struggle with pride. If you’re trying to get laid because you feel you’re missing out or whatever, some priestly figure telling you you’re going down the wrong path will probably embolden you even more.
That’s what I just stated above. I’d argue everybody struggles with pride though.
The only lesson here for Australia is you’re clearly doing something wrong. This is a humbling moment for him. If Australia believes that other members are “haters” then he needs to ask himself why his behavior triggers them so much.
I think the main reason is people thought he was a fraud. Some of his posts were suspect, and he seemed to have changed from wanting to date casually, then get married once the threads were locked or he was accused of trolling. I didn’t see it as that black and white. I saw him as a guy who was ok with just having a girlfriend and if he happened to marry her so be it, if it didn’t work out he was fine with that too. He clearly wanted more than what a western woman would give him.
On this point, the hypocrisy and ‘advice’ was too much. It reeked of do as so say and not as I do. Some of the same guys attacking him have posted they were in relationships or had girlfriends who they weren’t married to, but Australia can’t pursue that, cause he has to know right away he’s going to marry her or he’s a terrible sinner. But the other guys can, then they get on their high horse. I’m sure the married guys also never touched their wives before marriage either. Some of the posters have even talked about how their relationships with their girlfriends sucked, but here they are attacking a guy who’s trying to do better. People like to dish out advice when they have no business doing so.
Is it because he’s such a cool guy or is it because he’s being a faggot that serves as a punching bag for self-resentment that gets projected onto him? You have to remember men love faggots like Andrew Tate who project “success”so it’s not envy. The things we care about is how they reflect back onto us.
I have no idea how anyone can admire Tate.
