The terminology has been warped and twisted. Looking back, redpill thinking had a net negative effect on my life.
Younger men attach way too much meaning to sexual ‘success’ when engaging in that behavior in the long run leads to soul ruin. Nothing tangible came out of my hook up or plate spinning stage. I consider it a gigantic waste of time now, and instead tell men they should avoid it and focus on finding a good woman to marry. Of course many will disregard that advice completely like I did.
I remember watching a documentary of a rock star many years ago. He broke down in tears from massive depression because he couldn’t find a long term relationship. Back then I thought yeah right, but now I know it was genuine. I never had the extreme experience like that rockstar or Roosh did with women, but the experiences I did have left my soul more empty and jaded.
The problem with the mentality is that men will continue to always look for something better. They never accept the woman as she is and think that they should dump her for someone more beautiful or whatever. Then they get bored and move on. Not only does it damage the man’s soul, but if you do this to a good woman it damages her greatly as well (the sluts are acting this way themselves so it doesn’t matter much)
We have to be practical and for most it isn’t practical to marry the first woman you date or court. Maybe in old times with strong family structure, and society forcing it. So a few real relationships and then seriously court for a wife. But hookups, casual sex? No way. It totally degrades you.
People can call me a hypocrite for stating this while at the same time admitting I did engage in hookups in the past, but I don’t care.
The path to self knowledge isn’t always easy. Sometimes it’s a difficult and dirty path that leads you to the truth.