The Success / Destruction of Modern Men

[ginsu]

The terminology has been warped and twisted. Looking back, redpill thinking had a net negative effect on my life.

Younger men attach way too much meaning to sexual ‘success’ when engaging in that behavior in the long run leads to soul ruin. Nothing tangible came out of my hook up or plate spinning stage. I consider it a gigantic waste of time now, and instead tell men they should avoid it and focus on finding a good woman to marry. Of course many will disregard that advice completely like I did.

I remember watching a documentary of a rock star many years ago. He broke down in tears from massive depression because he couldn’t find a long term relationship. Back then I thought yeah right, but now I know it was genuine. I never had the extreme experience like that rockstar or Roosh did with women, but the experiences I did have left my soul more empty and jaded.

The problem with the mentality is that men will continue to always look for something better. They never accept the woman as she is and think that they should dump her for someone more beautiful or whatever. Then they get bored and move on. Not only does it damage the man’s soul, but if you do this to a good woman it damages her greatly as well (the sluts are acting this way themselves so it doesn’t matter much)

We have to be practical and for most it isn’t practical to marry the first woman you date or court. Maybe in old times with strong family structure, and society forcing it. So a few real relationships and then seriously court for a wife. But hookups, casual sex? No way. It totally degrades you.

People can call me a hypocrite for stating this while at the same time admitting I did engage in hookups in the past, but I don’t care.

The path to self knowledge isn’t always easy. Sometimes it’s a difficult and dirty path that leads you to the truth.

I agree 100% and have unfortunately made the same mistakes. The only option is to genuinely repent and seek god.

 

[Samseau]

I saw this comment on Linkedin and thought it was really good. Just for context, a woman posted something about how the era of men like Andrew Tate is over. She claimed that Tate is the epitome of the modern toxic man who is reluctant to show emotion and always wants to assert dominance. She used some marathon runner who broke into tears after his successful completion thereof as an example of the importance of showing weakness, crying etc.

Then this was one of the comments I was particularly surprised to see on a platform like Linkedin:



Also, props to him because I can see his profile getting deleted for that comment.

The only problem is that it all revolves around the clown Andrew Tate, who is about as masculine as a video game character.

 

[Blade Runner]

The only problem is that it all revolves around the clown Andrew Tate, who is about as masculine as a video game character.

How is that era over when women don't reward the crying marathon runner? lol

Witcoff used to say it all the time, and it's obviously true and straight forward: if women reward men for X, they'll get X. Period.

That stuff is femspeak, which is why so many men have no patience for the platitudes anymore. They act like they can just say things and therefore they are true, like "The era for X is over." Uhh, no Olivia, it isn't. Talk to me when the era of OnlyFans is over, first.