The Hot-Holy Matrix

Yeah but I am not talking about single mums or 40 year old roasties. I am talking about prime aged single women (without children). Most women in the church are either married, single mums or 30+ years old. Next time you go to church ask some of the single young men how it is for them to try and meet a woman at the church and see what they say.
I dont know hey there were men and woman of all ages at church and there are also a ton a children and babies, these children in a decade are going to be 18 and 20 year olds and even right now there are men and woman of all ages in the church, I know there are many guys that complain about the lack of dating opportunities in church but I havent seen it myself in the churches that I have attended.
 
even right now there are men and woman of all ages in the church,
Not saying there aren’t any young women in the church but the ratio matters a lot. If there is only one young single woman for every 10 single men then 9 of those men will have to look outside the church for a wife. Maybe you don’t care because you are already married and it doesn’t affect you,
 
I agree. The issue that makes your point more of a technicality is that most of the west is dead on arrival. That is, few are even good looking beyond the good behavior and other parts. So if you can't even get close to #1 (sexual attraction and youth), you're not going anywhere. We can't deny that we are men and that is just basic biology. Again, jobs, diplomas, too many words, etc don't give me a boner and I can't have sex with them, either.

How important is that though? Isn't that just a desire to satisfy lust?

After a while even the hottest girl would get boring. If she has some potential as a mother and is ugly or even older I'd say that's ok.
 
After a while even the hottest girl would get boring. If she has some potential as a mother and is ugly or even older I'd say that's ok.
That Is keyboard warrior talk. Come back and let us know when you have married an ugly older woman. Easy to suggest another man should do it but not so easy to stomach yourself.
 
That Is keyboard warrior talk. Come back and let us know when you have married an ugly older woman. Easy to suggest another man should do it but not so easy to stomach yourself.
It's actually the opposite of keyboard warrior talk. I'm suggesting a practical solution. Keyboard warrior talk is non stop gesticulating about finding an ideal bride in a foreign country.
 
It's actually the opposite of keyboard warrior talk. I'm suggesting a practical solution. Keyboard warrior talk is non stop gesticulating about finding an ideal bride in a foreign country.
Nobody wants to marry an ugly older woman that’s why it’s keyboard warrior talk. Finding a bride in a foreign country is a practical solution. Have you not seen the millions of western men who are married to imported brides? Or the exist men in Thailand, Vietnam etc married to local women?
 
Nobody wants to marry an ugly older woman that’s why it’s keyboard warrior talk. Finding a bride in a foreign country is a practical solution. Have you not seen the millions of western men who are married to imported brides? Or the exist men in Thailand, Vietnam etc married to local women?
Many of these are either lust covenants or modern secular codependent type relationships.

I think the key is deciding are we looking for a holy union here? Of a woman with strong moral character who is also God fearing or has potential to be so?

Or are we just looking for a decent looking woman who 'isn't that bad' in regards to looks/morality/mental illness even if she isn't Christian.

If you want the latter then yeah, go to Asia. It certainly is probably not as bad (if your concerns are looks and her attitudes towards ideology) but comes with a host of problems as well.

I guess my question is, what's your criteria?
 
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