Her biggest red flag is the bull ring. Nose rings are already bad, but those bull ones are for psychos with daddy issues.
At least she's starting to realize and even admit it.
At least she's starting to realize and even admit it.
Yeah, I hate those disgusting bull rings. Even worse than most tattoos.Her biggest red flag is the bull ring. Nose rings are already bad, but those bull ones are for psychos with daddy issues.
At least she's starting to realize and even admit it.
This is the harsh reality: if you are a 30+ year old white man in the U.S., the chances of you finding and marrying an attractive, pleasant, virginal white Christian woman age 18-23 are not much better than you winning the Powerball. Those women do exist, but they do not marry thirty-something men they have no prior connection to or association with. They marry guys their own age who they met through school or family/friends.
The first thing you need to do if you're a thirty-something guy looking for a wife is to be realistic about your prospects. Sitting around hoping and praying for a virgin unicorn wife is probably not going to yield you any results, the same way that a 37 year-old reformed sl*t desperate for children is very unlikely to find a handsome millionaire of similar age to wife her up. If you're a single thirty-something man, chances are you have your own share of baggage, sins and mistakes in your past, and you'll have to suffer the consequences of your past choices, just like promiscuous women must ultimately do.
That means you must accept the fact that you'll either have to settle for a much less physically desirable younger woman (who is almost assuredly still not a virgin despite her lack of sex appeal), a more attractive woman in her early-thirties who is most definitely not a virgin, or go overseas to a poorer country to seek out a wife (who very well may also not be a virgin, although she will certainly assure you otherwise). And of course, (especially if you remain in the West) you must also be prepared for the possibility of divorce.
This is simply the reality of the situation. It does no good to bemoan it. If you want a wife and children in the current year, those are your choices. If you insist on holding out for the perfect virgin unicorn wife, you are essentially choosing the path of celibacy and singleness, whether you realize it or not. And that is not necessarily the worst thing for some men. But it's important to be honest with yourself, and to recognize and acknowledge harsh truths. Self-delusion will do you no favors, and ironically places you in basically the same category as many of the broken women being maligned in this thread.
The thing is I don’t care about the perfect virgin wife. I’m expecting someone similar to me. Maybe a few boyfriends and a past engagement. A real woman with her own sins. A few past partners but she figured it out, and she wants to do it for real. But I refuse to settle for the town bike. Priesthood before town bike.This is simply the reality of the situation. It does no good to bemoan it. If you want a wife and children in the current year, those are your choices. If you insist on holding out for the perfect virgin unicorn wife, you are essentially choosing the path of celibacy and singleness, whether you realize it or not. And that is not necessarily the worst thing for some men. But it's important to be honest with yourself, and to recognize and acknowledge harsh truths. Self-delusion will do you no favors, and ironically places you in basically the same category as many of the broken women being maligned in this thread.
I’m late 20s and I still feel like this applies. There’s too much age gap shaming.This is the harsh reality: if you are a 30+ year old white man in the U.S., the chances of you finding and marrying an attractive, pleasant, virginal white Christian woman age 18-23 are not much better than you winning the Powerball. Those women do exist, but they do not marry thirty-something men they have no prior connection to or association with. They marry guys their own age who they met through school or family/friends.
The first thing you need to do if you're a thirty-something guy looking for a wife is to be realistic about your prospects. Sitting around hoping and praying for a virgin unicorn wife is probably not going to yield you any results, the same way that a 37 year-old reformed sl*t desperate for children is very unlikely to find a handsome millionaire of similar age to wife her up. If you're a single thirty-something man, chances are you have your own share of baggage, sins and mistakes in your past, and you'll have to suffer the consequences of your past choices, just like promiscuous women must ultimately do.
That means you must accept the fact that you'll either have to settle for a much less physically desirable younger woman (who is almost assuredly still not a virgin despite her lack of sex appeal), a more attractive woman in her early-thirties who is most definitely not a virgin, or go overseas to a poorer country to seek out a wife (who very well may also not be a virgin, although she will certainly assure you otherwise). And of course, (especially if you remain in the West) you must also be prepared for the possibility of divorce.
This is simply the reality of the situation. It does no good to bemoan it. If you want a wife and children in the current year, those are your choices. If you insist on holding out for the perfect virgin unicorn wife, you are essentially choosing the path of celibacy and singleness, whether you realize it or not. And that is not necessarily the worst thing for some men. But it's important to be honest with yourself, and to recognize and acknowledge harsh truths. Self-delusion will do you no favors, and ironically places you in basically the same category as many of the broken women being maligned in this thread.
It absolutely is realistic, but it takes effort and time to become a member of the right community. I don't think it's wise to give up hope.Personally I thinking shooting for below 25 and not fat is a somewhat realistic goal though.
I mostly agree but the part where I disagree is the overseas part. Overseas if you are in the right country finding a young and attractive virgin is still reasonably realistic but you must have money, still be in decent shape and you must speak the local language and live there for a while. For a fat balding 50 year old with little cash to swoop in and find a virgin young beautiful wife in a few months in for example Belarus is unrealistic. But if a man is 40 is physically in good shape, is wealthy (or at least very comfortable financially) and lives in for example Belarus for 3 years and speaks Belarusian or Russian then there is no reason he cannot eventually find a beautiful 18 year old virgin to marry.This is the harsh reality: if you are a 30+ year old white man in the U.S., the chances of you finding and marrying an attractive, pleasant, virginal white Christian woman age 18-23 are not much better than you winning the Powerball. Those women do exist, but they do not marry thirty-something men they have no prior connection to or association with. They marry guys their own age who they met through school or family/friends.
The first thing you need to do if you're a thirty-something guy looking for a wife is to be realistic about your prospects. Sitting around hoping and praying for a virgin unicorn wife is probably not going to yield you any results, the same way that a 37 year-old reformed sl*t desperate for children is very unlikely to find a handsome millionaire of similar age to wife her up. If you're a single thirty-something man, chances are you have your own share of baggage, sins and mistakes in your past, and you'll have to suffer the consequences of your past choices, just like promiscuous women must ultimately do.
That means you must accept the fact that you'll either have to settle for a much less physically desirable younger woman (who is almost assuredly still not a virgin despite her lack of sex appeal), a more attractive woman in her early-thirties who is most definitely not a virgin, or go overseas to a poorer country to seek out a wife (who very well may also not be a virgin, although she will certainly assure you otherwise). And of course, (especially if you remain in the West) you must also be prepared for the possibility of divorce.
This is simply the reality of the situation. It does no good to bemoan it. If you want a wife and children in the current year, those are your choices. If you insist on holding out for the perfect virgin unicorn wife, you are essentially choosing the path of celibacy and singleness, whether you realize it or not. And that is not necessarily the worst thing for some men. But it's important to be honest with yourself, and to recognize and acknowledge harsh truths. Self-delusion will do you no favors, and ironically places you in basically the same category as many of the broken women being maligned in this thread.
Absolutely, a woman who's had a few boyfriends but managed to get herself straightened out is not going to be ruined by any means. A guy who's 30-35, in good shape, and has his life together could definitely find such a virtuous woman in her mid 20s in the US. Otherwise there's the emigration option. Hoping for a pure virgin seems prideful with my past, but I'll certainly take her if I can find such a unicorn.The thing is I don’t care about the perfect virgin wife. I’m expecting someone similar to me. Maybe a few boyfriends and a past engagement. A real woman with her own sins. A few past partners but she figured it out, and she wants to do it for real. But I refuse to settle for the town bike. Priesthood before town bike.
Another side rant. Made the 6 this year. I did it . But on a side note I saw a tiktok going “if a man says he makes six figures that means he makes 100,000 USD, no” WTF!?! Is that not a lot of money anymore? I lost my 20s to get that.
It absolutely is realistic, but it takes effort and time to become a member of the right community. I don't think it's wise to give up hope.
Find a good church and spend time around right-wing Christians. The kind of people that avoid most of the cultural rot. Be sincere, and most importantly trust God. We don't have to move abroad (although that's not a bad option), but we have to put in the work.
Three more nose studs in my department since Christmas - how delightful.Her biggest red flag is the bull ring. Nose rings are already bad, but those bull ones are for psychos with daddy issues.
At least she's starting to realize and even admit it.
I wouldn't go that far but I understand your position. The problem with modern day stuff is that we are all so set up for failure that it's barely realistic to get women early where they could even theoretically have a 1 partner past max (unless she's a 5 or lower), which was the first step in destroying everyone's future and family. There's a reason why at age 30 (which is five years too late minimum) women are stressed but also less humble, less pleasant, and poorer partners. People are talking about it, but it won't matter because pride is their affliction. It's funny because pride and ego are generally thought to be characteristics of men, but in reality, that has inverted too.For me if I do decide to ever get married its virgin or bust lol. Better to become a monk (or even a fornicator) than to marry a non-virgin woman.
Call me dogmatic but a woman is either a virgin or a whore. There is no in-between.
The only exceptions I will make to this is if a woman is a widow or if she was genuinely raped (as opposed to false rape which is the majority of claimed rapes).
Men seem to have no standards any more.
I've actually seen a lot of these nose rings/studs with (evangelical) church girls. Tattoos aren't that uncommon either. I have a feeling it's due to a lot of the evangelical "Christian influencers" like the musicians in Hillsong and Bethel sporting that look which made it acceptable within church circles.Three more nose studs in my department since Christmas - how delightful.
Are you a virgin? If you are I can understand and get it but if no… sticks and logs my friend, sticks and logs.For me if I do decide to ever get married its virgin or bust lol. Better to become a monk (or even a fornicator) than to marry a non-virgin woman.
Call me dogmatic but a woman is either a virgin or a whore. There is no in-between.
The only exceptions I will make to this is if a woman is a widow or if she was genuinely raped (as opposed to false rape which is the majority of claimed rapes).
Men seem to have no standards any more.