You're not wrong, but it is what it is. I'm going to enjoy life with or without a wife and kids.
To be certain, the women and family thing is not the be all/end all. Even among the Christians, while children can be a blessing, they can go in all sorts of directions, and I tend to think that most people (as their primal base is guided by the fallen "evolutionary" world) are just fulfilling this instinct, which of course has to be strong (or we wouldn't be here).
The forum is about trying to make sense of life and perhaps more directly, discerning the "secret will" of the Father as Fr. Moses has pointed out. Once you have become successful, you really do see more of the folly of the world, since on average you got there via smarts and skill (not the case for all of course). The purpose then becomes getting the women you couldn't get previously, getting a legacy or family, or for some realizing the world itself (this world) is absurd but it has meaning because of Jesus Christ has revealed to us and what the Holy Trinity has has planned for those who are faithful.
As I was reminded recently, there is truth in the fact that it is at times better for us not to be granted "what we wish", but again that a lot of times can only be seen in retrospect, and we likely also disregard what was granted that was good, so we are inherently biased. The point is that it's really hard for us to see purpose in things, as we are inclined to want/do things (good and bad), but we're oftentimes mixed up in our instincts.
I'm going on a bit here so forgive me, but I do perceive that some really drastic things will continue to happen or even jump the shark on what has happened recently in history, let's say within the next 5-10 years. Those realities will sober up many of the things about the world that we think, what we should do, what we should plan, or even care about at all. I could be wrong, but I think the odds will be quite high of seeing real life questions, harder than ever, come up.