But the fact that not all the Church Fathers are in agreement over this shows why Holy Tradition fails, and why we should allow the Bible to be it's own interpreter. It's all there in the context.There is nothing in the context that precludes the reading that Peter is making a statement about humanity and not merely the Church he is writing to. So it falls to interpretation. Which is why Sola Scriptura fails and we need the Church and Holy Tradition to guide us to correct interpretation.
So God is unwilling but He's willing. Incoherent.God does not desire that they should perish, but perish they will if they reject Him.
How about God is willing for the heathen to perish but He is unwilling for the Church to perish?