One thing I have thought a lot about is whether there is a need for men to learn strategies for relationships. I don’t mean playing games or manipulating women but rather having some solid tactics and strategies.
I was never into “game” or the PUA world but they taught some things that were used to help men achieve a (unholy) goal. Is there a parallel for Godly relationships and can we share these tactics to help each other achieve a holy purpose (matrimony)?
I guess the type of things I am referring to would be tactics for being charming, getting a woman to see you as a valuable man who has options and won’t wait around for her, not appearing needy, etc. I know many of us are nice, decent men who fall head over heels in love with a woman but does that signal that we are just safe, boring guys without options? Anyway these just my thoughts.
I was never into “game” or the PUA world but they taught some things that were used to help men achieve a (unholy) goal. Is there a parallel for Godly relationships and can we share these tactics to help each other achieve a holy purpose (matrimony)?
I guess the type of things I am referring to would be tactics for being charming, getting a woman to see you as a valuable man who has options and won’t wait around for her, not appearing needy, etc. I know many of us are nice, decent men who fall head over heels in love with a woman but does that signal that we are just safe, boring guys without options? Anyway these just my thoughts.