Except, I don’t think he’s soliciting traditional game advice. I’ll let him speak for himself on that though. From reading his posts, he seems to hate Australia hence the username and wants to find a traditional wife abroad. He shouldn’t be shutdown or talked down to because of that. Guys have gone after him for wanting virgins, but again that’s his choice, despite the feasibility of finding one. I contest it’s highly unlikely, and if he was a friend of mine I’d tell him he should be more realistic in his pursuit, but I’m not going to go after the guy for it. In fact, we have a member of this very forum who succeeded at that, and with a foreign woman no less.
Again, it’s deep seated competitiveness because his success would be another man’s failure. It’s the same reason American women trash the guy with the attractive foreign wife (he’s too much of a loser to find someone here) or even trash the wife herself (she’s just looking for a green card) While there is some truth in those insults, it doesn’t encompass the totality of every guy seeking a wife abroad. Whether he should go overseas or not is another discussion.
As for my posts or his posts, yes I will personally call out hypocrisy, ideas and posts I find flawed, or general snarkiness.
How many guys here fornicate themselves, watch porn, have girlfriends and have sex before marriage, but are shutting him down for ‘fornication’ and ‘not finding a wife’? Total hypocrisy. Then there are members that seem to use drugs, whether legal or illegal, but hey nobody says anything about that. From posts I read I know that’s the case for some members.
There is also an issue of disagreeing with current groupthink here which cause bans and posters portraying themselves as authorities with absolutely nothing to back it up. To my knowledge there isn’t one priest on this forum, but many members sure act like they’re one.
