Furthering that, the concept of being upset that a woman won't "settle" for you instead of bettering yourself to be more suitable to a better mate....
Yes, as others have said, this is not only old, it's logically broken. If all men get better (what's been happening in many ways) ... it gets worse for all men. Yes, that's what hypergamy does, unless checked and women restricted. In which case, women ironically have
better outcomes (not their choice, amazing it's like this).
The "just become the final boss of men, bro" thing is exhausting to hear at this point, frankly.
Yes, it's beyond silly.
Now here's the thing. This man you're imagining who doesn't work on himself and still expects a good and attractive woman to "settle" for him? He is rare, and I assure you he is not on this forum. The overwhelming majority of men my age I have ever met are doing a mighty fine job at cultivating themselves. They have decent to impressive physiques, they are honest and hard working, they earn decent money, they truly do their best. In spite of this, virtually all of them are either incels, or stuck with some demonic shrill whore that very clearly looks down on them and constantly emasculates them.
I'm not sure he's "rare" but the "average" man is certainly plentiful and frustrated.
In fact, my generation is obsessed with acquiring wealth and muscles to the point where it is unhealthy. Half my peers have gone into debt to acquire status symbols and/or are steroid users. Social media is chock full of grindset type material and constant attempts to flaunt whatever wealth or physique you have (or pretend to have).
If you really think about it, it's the only way they can hope to get laid, so they do it.
The issue is much more pronounced on the female side. Men bettering themselves merely pushes out rival men, many of whom are actually deserving of a good family life.
Exactly. Women don't think in objective terms. You can't take women out of their youth/prime and then act like there's a high number for the higher number of guys all the way from 25-45 who are just ascending during that whole period, acquiring the most important characteristic for women also, when they are the oldest in that range.
Women are far more relative in how they evaluate suitors. Plenty of women have limited sexual options but far more men stare down this predicament.
Nailing it left and right. You can even fool women into value by having a hot women stand next to you, or act like your gf. That should tell you all you need to know. You can't give me an erection unless it's an attractive woman, no matter what you do.
The main barrier to age gaps has always been the social stigma, not biology. Not surprisingly, women are naturally attracted to older men who appear masculine and virile.
I also agree with this. The problem is how long it takes and the law being broken, and that ain't changing especially if Trump brings back some economy here. I still find it stupid that any person would balk when I tell them, yeah, I'm only really interested in 25 or younger. What exactly is she doing for me otherwise? It's basic analysis of life.