The Destruction of Modern Women

Not picky and can help a gal jump a social class, still can’t find anyone who fits all requirements. Is it the height, or is there really nobody out there who checks the very simple boxes? Maybe it’s my appearance. I’m overweight for my height. On another thread the Snake diet was mentioned. I might try it. But if that final correction can’t land me a 5 or 6 with what I’m offering maybe it’s Priesthood time.
Yes the west is really that bad. Though I would argue (as would many others on the forum) that overseas is a superior solution to priesthood.
 
On the topic of age gaps - I predict this will become somewhat less of an impediment now in America with Trump's victory as conservative, traditional thinking is increasingly normalized. Of course, a large subset of liberal women will always try to shame older men. But you don't want them anyways. The important thing is the more normal women will follow the prevailing trends. That could happen sooner rather than later. A few trends give me hope:
  • The gradual weakening influence of Jewish mainstream media and Hollywood - the main channels for the brainwashing of young women
  • Trump's cabinet picks have mostly followed the will of his base, unlike the last term where it was filled with RINOs
  • The increasing ridicule of left wing gender ideology on social media
  • Liberal women have exposed themselves online as completely unhinged and tormented souls, and young women are taking notice
  • A mass surge in countersemitism, as seen in the comments sections on the Jootube or X
Ultimately women want to be with men seen as successful, and if traditional values are seen as successful they will follow the men. The main barrier to age gaps has always been the social stigma, not biology. Not surprisingly, women are naturally attracted to older men who appear masculine and virile.

 
Even guys who are 5 or 6, if they are 21-24, aren't going to look at that girl and be attracted to her unless she is calm, demure, and a caretaker type. She isn't. The only way you get to be a loud, motor mouth type is if you are ok to marry a quiet man who just puts up with your shit who isn't all that manly in classic ways. That's fine, but you have to know that. With her attitude and looks, she needs to realize that she compromises hard (she won't) or she's cat lady, which will be happening soon.
It's almost funny (except it's not) what many white men accept if they want to get married and have kids when they're under pressure socially.

The biggest problem is that we have old people who remember the older days when women were still, mostly restricted and they raised generations without any real enforcement or standards. You can talk about Christ and egalitarianism all you want, but if you can't discern the feminine chaos that is far more base than any man's T even, you basically just predestine a major waste of women and their potentiality. The reason, as you all know, I've found that makes this more palatable is that we just had a huge population boom that explains it. It's sad because it seems unnecessary but it's pretty obvious. I think we are finally sending a message that women aren't worth it but that will sacrifice 1.5-2 generations. That means the explorer male that can go to other places is the only hope for extending a family line into the future, if that's your desire.
Having conversations like this with normie boomers is a complete waste as their knowledge and experience is worthless right now in 2024. Come on, they were never properly schooled (didn't need to be) in how women operate potentially when there are no rules. I find it funny how most men who proclaim to sensible, mature, 'upright pillars of society' have succumbed to the relentless s*** testing of their wives over the duration, whilst a much younger cynical guy like me spots this crap a mile off.

It's tragic so many young women have been steered in the opposite direction and there's no one around that they look up to who will put them right and look after them. Younger men with daughters are sooooo weak for one reason or another. As I've probably mentioned before, very bright, attractive women tend to escape the melee because they're usually very discerning, and because they're so clever, most men get eliminated which narrows the choice down for them much more easily.
 
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they know how degrading it is for a woman to be saddled with issue from a distant race and, to boot, be burdened with the destructive single mother stigma. throw in the supposed wonders of female promiscuity for good measure and that pretty much ties the package. that's why the target of these depraved ads is always white women. can you honestly picture a similar sign featuring a brown woman in bed sheets or a female malawian?
 
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Furthering that, the concept of being upset that a woman won't "settle" for you instead of bettering yourself to be more suitable to a better mate....
Yes, as others have said, this is not only old, it's logically broken. If all men get better (what's been happening in many ways) ... it gets worse for all men. Yes, that's what hypergamy does, unless checked and women restricted. In which case, women ironically have better outcomes (not their choice, amazing it's like this).
The "just become the final boss of men, bro" thing is exhausting to hear at this point, frankly.
Yes, it's beyond silly.
Now here's the thing. This man you're imagining who doesn't work on himself and still expects a good and attractive woman to "settle" for him? He is rare, and I assure you he is not on this forum. The overwhelming majority of men my age I have ever met are doing a mighty fine job at cultivating themselves. They have decent to impressive physiques, they are honest and hard working, they earn decent money, they truly do their best. In spite of this, virtually all of them are either incels, or stuck with some demonic shrill whore that very clearly looks down on them and constantly emasculates them.
I'm not sure he's "rare" but the "average" man is certainly plentiful and frustrated.
In fact, my generation is obsessed with acquiring wealth and muscles to the point where it is unhealthy. Half my peers have gone into debt to acquire status symbols and/or are steroid users. Social media is chock full of grindset type material and constant attempts to flaunt whatever wealth or physique you have (or pretend to have).
If you really think about it, it's the only way they can hope to get laid, so they do it.
The issue is much more pronounced on the female side. Men bettering themselves merely pushes out rival men, many of whom are actually deserving of a good family life.
Exactly. Women don't think in objective terms. You can't take women out of their youth/prime and then act like there's a high number for the higher number of guys all the way from 25-45 who are just ascending during that whole period, acquiring the most important characteristic for women also, when they are the oldest in that range.
Women are far more relative in how they evaluate suitors. Plenty of women have limited sexual options but far more men stare down this predicament.
Nailing it left and right. You can even fool women into value by having a hot women stand next to you, or act like your gf. That should tell you all you need to know. You can't give me an erection unless it's an attractive woman, no matter what you do.
The main barrier to age gaps has always been the social stigma, not biology. Not surprisingly, women are naturally attracted to older men who appear masculine and virile.
I also agree with this. The problem is how long it takes and the law being broken, and that ain't changing especially if Trump brings back some economy here. I still find it stupid that any person would balk when I tell them, yeah, I'm only really interested in 25 or younger. What exactly is she doing for me otherwise? It's basic analysis of life.
 
Delete, good luck to you fellas.
Unfortunately, it's got nothing to do with that, it's all numbers. Or God is "punishing" modern men not born in the 1950s for what the guys in the 1960s-80s did. What's more likely?

If there are no fish in the pond, go to another one - it always has been the answer. Or stop fishing, of course. Few will take the latter advice.
 
Unfortunately, it's got nothing to do with that, it's all numbers. Or God is "punishing" modern men not born in the 1950s for what the guys in the 1960s-80s did. What's more likely?

If there are no fish in the pond, go to another one - it always has been the answer. Or stop fishing, of course. Few will take the latter advice.

No it doesnt you're right, luck isn't real. What it has to do with is your actions but it seems many would like to convince themselves otherwise....I can only assume it's a coping mechanism. Oh well
 
In my opinion, there are still some American women worthy of marrying. But it really does take patience, failure, gaining confidence and some effort to meet them. And being aware that most of them are already taken. But the only way to get a wife is to keep trying and being content on your own in the meantime.

You can only analyze this so much. It's going to take going out and meeting lots of women, while finding the right community you want to meet them in.

Trust God and good things will happen. Taking Christianity seriously has made my life a lot better, but it did not happen overnight.
 
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Men collectively could improve 50% overnight and women’s obsession with ranking them and outright excluding the majority of them from sexual and romantic access would not discernibly change...
Yes, there would still be a few men banging most of the women...

The only solution is to let women go (the same can be said for money). I mean all the way let them go. Forget about them. Ignore them. Get on with your life. Men's obsession with women is a social construct, we have been programmed to put pussy up on a pedestal. One must reprogram oneself by becoming self-reliant and not depending on women for anything.

Yes, I know you want to have children but maybe that's not God's plan for you? Go semi-monk mode and see what happens. You can only be with one woman anyways, and if you're a good enough man over a long enough period of time I'm sure that God will see fit to drop a solid 9 right in your lap one day. In the interim, be patient and forget about women. Don't even look at them or say "hi" to them. Learn to have a joyous, prosperous, satisfying life without needing anything from anyone (especially women).
 
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