The Destruction of Modern Women

[Douglas Quaid]

For various reasons, I've been considering this issue for a while and trying to understand aging from a woman's perspective. I should probably stop trying to understand something as complex as what is in a woman's head (given that there is no obvious logic to it) but I cannot help myself since it effects me day to day.

It's tough to understand from a male point of view since our arc of attractiveness is literally the opposite of women after say the age of 30, but imagine if you will being as attractive as you ever will be at around age 18-20. After that it's a downwards spiral. Maybe you could fool people in the modern age with all of the propaganda we receive up to maybe 35.

After that any market value that you might be able to generate just falls off a cliff. You become invisible. Literally invisible to the men that you would want to attract.

Is it any wonder that these older women, especially as they enter peri menopause or menopause, become so mean? They realise the lie they are sold, they feel old and unattractive and even if they have managed to secure a decent man, they cannot help themselves to be insecure most of the time, especially if the man is making something of himself post 40yo which is when most men are starting to really hit their stride.

It's a mess created largely by the lie of feminism and the 'you can have it all' mentality that they have been sold. By the time they hit a certain age, they realise (if not actually logically realising, but on some emotional level) that they have been duped and they are permanently pissed off about it.

If you're a guy who has got his shit together, try giving a woman who is post 50 a nice smile every now and again for no reason. You'll absolutely make their day because mostly they are invisible.

Women peaking at that age is absolutely true. Not just the way they look, but their femininity, voice, etc. All of it is hard to ignore as a man, and makes you want to plant that seed. As bad it sounds, I don't feel any of that for the single women my age. I think the only way to keep feeling that is if you married her young and got older together.

And the opposite is true for women. Generally men get more masculine and more confident into our late 20s and 30s. So we'll get more attention from women of all ages.

 

[Laner]

If you're a guy who has got his shit together, try giving a woman who is post 50 a nice smile every now and again for no reason. You'll absolutely make their day because mostly they are invisible.

Good point. This actually does wonders for women of any age over 35, but you are much more likely to get a warm smile in return from women over 50.

Women with children in cities tend to get all the smiles from the very men the spinsters covet - the over 40 men who are well put together and appear to have money. But it's because these men are usually fathers, and as fathers know, kids are hilarious and a huge joy to have in your life. And as they get older you catch yourself smiling at a toddler for no other reason than the distant memories of those happy moments that are now in the past.

Women peaking at that age is absolutely true. Not just the way they look, but their femininity, voice, etc. All of it is hard to ignore as a man, and makes you want to plant that seed. As bad it sounds, I don't feel any of that for the single women my age. I think the only way to keep feeling that is if you married her young and got older together.

And the opposite is true for women. Generally men get more masculine and more confident into our late 20s and 30s. So we'll get more attention from women of all ages.

Women who get married and have kids young often stay infantile for the rest of their lives. Part of it is by necessity as they have to bring their emotions down to a level that allows young kids the chance to mimic. But it's also joyful and the stress happens in short bursts between the joyful mean. It also makes it easier to be attracted to them, and them to you. If you have ever rescued your wife from the stress of an annoying toddler, to then have the little one laughing and peaceful and back on track, then you know the gentle hum of your wife as her attraction to you radiates.

 

[Mr Freedom]

Sounds like a jaded old trope but it's crazy how modern feminism has destroyed women.

British & American women on average were amongst the most desired & beautiful women in the world in the 1950s

Now they are amongst the bottom in terms of desirability.

 

[Let God Arise]

Sounds like a jaded old trope but it's crazy how modern feminism has destroyed women.

British & American women on average were amongst the most desired & beautiful women in the world in the 1950s

Now they are amongst the bottom in terms of desirability.

Meanwhile, American men are still highly prized globally. Funny, that.

 

[Blade Runner]

Meanwhile, American men are still highly prized globally. Funny, that.

The anglosphere is so bad at this point, it's a joke. But that's what you get when you are full into the depopulation phase of the cycle.

 

[Shaquilleoatmeal]

I have a poll for people here. I’m not gonna make a thread because it would take up space, but here’s the poll:

Is it “racist” for a white man to only want a white woman to have his children, to the point he has ruled out marrying non Caucasian women?

 

[Unending Powerhouse Match]

Is it “racist” for a white man to only want a white woman to have his children, to the point he has ruled out marrying non Caucasian women?

Yes it is, and that's a good thing. The assertion of our culture that racism (which is really just a psyopy way to say "putting your own kind above outsiders") is evil is ridiculous. Nothing immoral about wanting your offspring to look like you.

 

[Let God Arise]

I have a poll for people here. I’m not gonna make a thread because it would take up space, but here’s the poll:

Is it “racist” for a white man to only want a white woman to have his children, to the point he has ruled out marrying non Caucasian women?

No

 

[Blade Runner]

No

I would say "No" as well but the key with all of this nonsense is defining the term. Certain groups of people are better at doing certain things than others. The reason why this is considered "racist" is because the less competent at certain things (which are more highly valued) are not as advanced, and/or the characteristics that increase materialism/ease or standard of life, wanted by all people (not anyone's fault that that's the highest value), are indeed concentrated in certain genotypes, which also are related to phenotype in some ways.

 

[SkiPro]

I have a poll for people here. I’m not gonna make a thread because it would take up space, but here’s the poll:

Is it “racist” for a white man to only want a white woman to have his children, to the point he has ruled out marrying non Caucasian women?

No. It's perfectly normal.

 

[Australia Sucks]

Is it “racist” for a white man to only want a white woman to have his children, to the point he has ruled out marrying non Caucasian women?

I am just curious what do you consider to be white? Do you consider a white Brazilian who looks European, lives in the South of Brazil and is descended primarily from Europeans (e.g. Germans or Italians or Portuguese) to be white? Is an white looking Iranian or a white looking Armenian (both Indo-European peoples) considered white to you? Is a white Indo-European descended Turk considered white to you? There are many cities in Turkey where people have a majority of Indo-European genetics?

I feel if you are at least flexible on what you consider to be white you have a greater pool of women to choose from and thus it becomes easier to find a wife. Although ultimately its up to you what type of woman you want to marry as we each have our own preferences.

 

[Shaquilleoatmeal]

I am just curious what do you consider to be white? Do you consider a white Brazilian who looks European, lives in the South of Brazil and is descended primarily from Europeans (e.g. Germans or Italians or Portuguese) to be white? Is an white looking Iranian or a white looking Armenian (both Indo-European peoples) considered white to you? Is a white Indo-European descended Turk considered white to you? There are many cities in Turkey where people have a majority of Indo-European genetics?

I feel if you are at least flexible on what you consider to be white you have a greater pool of women to choose from and thus it becomes easier to find a wife. Although ultimately its up to you what type of woman you want to marry as we each have our own preferences.

Women in Brazil (the south part) I consideer white. Armenians and Iranians is tough, although I would be open minded since middle eastern people are closer to whites in terms of genetics than other races.

 

[Steady Hands]

 

[Blade Runner]

Do you think the selling of lies was more for just consumption and economic activity, or purposeful? That is, how do women not think or know that guys don't care about them very much after 30 for a serious relationship, on average? Is it just a spoiled frog in the heating pot effect?

 

[FrancisK]

Far be it from me to defend anything that many women think is acceptable these days, I've been bitten by snakes shedding their skin as much as the next guy even recently, but I also think it goes both ways. I don't think a good woman wants a man that just thinks all women are bad just like we wouldn't want some crazy feminist.

To be guarded and more cognitive of red flags yes that's reasonable and smart, something I need to do more of, but I think to just have a blanket negative attitude towards women probably hurts you in the long run. I think it's good to call out the witches but they're not all witches.

 

[Let God Arise]

How to define "white" is a sliding scale that no one can pin down. I am 90% Nordic and 10% Balkan and have white skin but dark hair. I certainly don't look like Thor. Honestly, I've had many blonde beauties in my previous dating life and every one of them was a cheater, a psycho, a narcissist, or a hoe. What's a man to do? The best girlfriends I've had were slightly darker/mixed (Iranian, Italian, Spanish, etc.). In the end, you need to marry who complements you and helps lead you to salvation. This is the Christian way.

 

[Blade Runner]

but I think to just have a blanket negative attitude towards women probably hurts you in the long run

I think the point is that we are looking to find some of the ones least affected by the garbage culture, technology/social media, and modernity. Those aren't that easy to find. I don't think there are that many truly "blanket negative" attitudes, though we post bluntly on the topic often.

 

[analyst_green]

This could easily go into Orthodox section, but it fits this thread because of how much we lament the lack of good women today. This young Greek woman was a well-known TikTok influencer who has now become a nun.

I imagine she got used to constant online ego validation through millions of likes. And she must have realized it's all vanity in the end. If a woman like this can give it all up, repent, and dedicate herself to Christ, than anyone can. Let's hope this becomes part of a broader trend.

 

[Blade Runner]

This could easily go into Orthodox section, but it fits this thread because of how much we lament the lack of good women today. This young Greek woman was a well-known TikTok influencer who has now become a nun.

I imagine she got used to constant online ego validation through millions of likes. And she must have realized it's all vanity in the end. If a woman like this can give it all up, repent, and dedicate herself to Christ, than anyone can. Let's hope this becomes part of a broader trend.

Yes, this is remarkable. Even more remarkable because she looks like she is easily in the 95th percentile in looks for Greece (probably why she had so many followers). Let's pray for her. Wow, 23 too. You'd think she would have married someone at age 20 or 21 if she had that kind of calling. What a story.

but it fits this thread because of how much we lament the lack of good women today.

I have to say it because I'm sure others are thinking it - good woman also not available as a wife.

 

[Wutang]

I have a poll for people here. I’m not gonna make a thread because it would take up space, but here’s the poll:

Is it “racist” for a white man to only want a white woman to have his children, to the point he has ruled out marrying non Caucasian women?

Not at all. It's not that uncommon I hear non-white parents talk about how they want their children to marry within their own ethnicity and the kids a lot of times agree with their parents wishes. If it's okay for them to have this preference without people calling down the r word on them then it should be okay for whites to have their own preferences as well.