The Destruction of Modern Women

[GrecoRoman]

This is the ick factor explained.

This is easily explained. The younger guy is trying to protect his turf. If a bunch of older guys with more resources started dating 20 year olds en masse he’d have an even worse time finding a date. They’d just monopolize them all. It’s my opinion this is the same psychology that makes other guys block you or behave like snakes. They’d rather mess up your chances even if they have no chance themselves.

 

[KulturedKaveman]

This is easily explained. The younger guy is trying to protect his turf. If a bunch of older guys with more resources started dating 20 year olds en masse he’d have an even worse time finding a date. They’d just monopolize them all. It’s my opinion this is the same psychology that makes other guys block you or behave like snakes. They’d rather mess up your chances even if they have no chance themselves.

Ah to be 21 again and go to my first bars. Start chatting up a gal my age and then a guy like 10 15 years elder pulls up and gives me the stink eye. “Oh hey Kaveman, this is my boyfriend, Chad, this is my new friend Kaveman”

 

[Shaquilleoatmeal]

This is easily explained. The younger guy is trying to protect his turf. If a bunch of older guys with more resources started dating 20 year olds en masse he’d have an even worse time finding a date. They’d just monopolize them all. It’s my opinion this is the same psychology that makes other guys block you or behave like snakes. They’d rather mess up your chances even if they have no chance themselves.

it’s funny how he will have no problem with college Chad sleeping around with girls his age but if an older man wants a relationship it’s awful

 

[KulturedKaveman]

it’s funny how he will have no problem with college Chad sleeping around with girls his age but if an older man wants a relationship it’s awful

They’re both chads. If an older man can pull up on a woman and her not get grossed out and go “old bag” I’m sorry, he’s a chad too.

 

[Blade Runner]

Daddy’s money is a factor that I never considered till my sister bought it up.

I've mentioned this at least a dozen times on the forum and I'm sure multiple times on this thread. A lot of women are backstopped in every way, especially if you are upper middle class, like you say, it comes out again in this generation. Amazing.

The younger guy is trying to protect his turf. If a bunch of older guys with more resources started dating 20 year olds en masse he’d have an even worse time finding a date. They’d just monopolize them all. It’s my opinion this is the same psychology that makes other guys block you or behave like snakes. They’d rather mess up your chances even if they have no chance themselves.

You are correct, but they aren't even aware of it (it's just visceral/subconcious), and the funnier part is that women their age won't give most of them the time of day anyway, nullifying any point if he even made it.

I think it's a general rule for the normie, who is largely void of talent or ability to compete (whether his fault or not), throughout time to love bringing others down "just because". Communism and any sort of collectivism without some sort of religious principle or buy in from everyone is always about this. It's also why people who can hack it on their own aren't collectivists, and hate those types, since they are just mad at being incompetent comparatively at least, and are insecure about it.

It's quite clear logically to everyone in the world that you don't get anything because others go down. There's an old Russian saying on this as well, "You don't get to heaven through other people's sins."

 

[PurpleUrkel]

Boomers came from a different economic reality where they can shower “help” on their daughters... heavily subsidized by mom and dad so their income + subsidies make them feel wealthier than they are… hence the loving their career.

Absolutely. My dad left me and my mom when I was two years old and was intermittently absent throughout my entire childhood and adolescence (though he loved me I think he was embarrassed to have bred with my mom and so he often disappeared). When I was around 17 he got remarried to a woman 15 years his junior and they had a girl together when I was 20. Fast forward to today and my Boomer male feminist father built my 30 year old half sister a custom house, pays her dog's vet bills and helps take care of them, bought her a car, paid for her college, and attended all her high school games (even moving her to another state for her senior year to play for a nationally recognized high school program in hopes of obtaining a college scholarship to play sports ball). In contrast, my dad never attended one of my high school football games, never paid a dime of child support (my mother refused to ask for his help), did not pay for my college, and refused to give me a 20K 90-day bridge loan to buy my first house.

I also lost my last girlfriend to her career that she could afford to pursue because her parents paid for all of her private college up through her Doctorate, gave her 80K for a down payment on a house, every 3 or 4 years they gifted her their old cars which were usually BMW's with less than 50K miles on them, and were going to be leaving her a 3 million dollar estate.

Who needs a man, when your parents got you covered.

 

[Sandalwood Peak]

That's a terrible ambassador for old guys. Guy is super defensive. They're literally arguing about nothing. No one can stop you from dating young women. What they can do is make it socially uncomfortable, or taboo enough that it never happens to begin with. At its essence the age gap debate is about something completely different. It's about "evil liberal whites who are in everyone's business, trying to poison all joy in life with their satanic BS". Welcome to the club, I've felt that way for decades. Most whites like to defend these liberal whites but it's moments like this that really spotlight the gravity of these busybody demons. Unfortunately, this busybody disease is hitting SA and Asia hard as well.