I assume the "who wants to tell her" has to do with the guy possibly already having a girlfriend and now testing this other woman out, a male version of monkey branching?
I still find Hoemath's visual on men who are 7s and below as "not people" to be incredibly helpful. This woman is asking "are men not putting in the effort anymore" when in reality she is asking "are attractive, desirable men I want not putting in the effort?" It's such a nice heuristic because I come across a lot of videos or things online where women are addressing "men."
I still find Hoemath's visual on men who are 7s and below as "not people" to be incredibly helpful. This woman is asking "are men not putting in the effort anymore" when in reality she is asking "are attractive, desirable men I want not putting in the effort?" It's such a nice heuristic because I come across a lot of videos or things online where women are addressing "men."