Where do you find one of those? I'm guessing only in America..
The West has fallen so hard that a man cannot reference Taxi Driver in his username anymore. I dislike the part of the username where you can tell I am legally retarded however.
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Not sure where you find that stuff but you might want to think about not going there so much.Nerdy hobbies are full of the lowest of the low attention whor3s. Normalfag hobbies are the ones where you will get segregated for talking about your interests.
This is all great advice. The classics, essentially.
It's a scene in Taxi Driver where Travis Bickle describes himself as "God's lonely man". I just rehashed it while overthinking the username box 2 years ago.
I go where I need to, with a mix of some places that I like. Not a fan of stepping out of said comfort zone because there are only like 4 fun places in my city.
I pray quite a bit since my mother would make me do it daily. I fell off on it, but I very frequently pray. Not necessarily for this, but prayer is essential.
You're welcome. I'm over twice your age and in a happy marriage with a wife and children who adore me. It's easy for me to forget what being a single guy in Clownworld was like. It wasn't easy.
It's harder to pick up through text, but irony is a thing nowadays. I try not to overdo it, but then I say to my father "I want a hot pizza" and then he stops the waiter to say he wants a cold one.
If God wills it.
Genius. It's also why being around (in a country, city, location) for a while longer than most have matters.
Sounds like you need to get organizized..
Yeah the US. I can't speak for the entire country, but there are some places like this in the rural parts of the Western US.
Sounds like you need to get organizized..
Just model Travis and see where that leads you.
He got the girl. He was direct. You should be too. Just don't take her to a porno flick.
Yeah definitely no guarantees. This takes work and patience too. Women absolutely start to notice when you're a regular at church or a place like that coffee shop. They see you interacting with the staff, other people, etc.
Meh... In my horn dog days that would have been seen as an obstacle I'd have tried to overcome.
I didn’t mean it in the travel sense but it’s funny you should say that. When I was in Thailand in particular, I acted like I lived there. There was one coffee place I must of went to 30 times [multiple times a day], shamelessly. You know what happened? Women would open the conversation. “Oh you’re always here”. Obviously I only pick places that have max exposure to young women. Sometimes it would have a shaming element to it, s-test? I don’t even care. That’s the point, I want local people to be comfortable with my presence, I want to invade their space a little bit. I want to be part of their day-to-day narrative. Luckily my presence is a bit overbearing so people are forced to acknowledge it. The one thing I didn’t want to do is put myself at the prerogative of the people, blowing in the wind, acting like I’m on a tight schedule, trying to time max “memories”, jumping at bad propositions. Only thing you get with that is a prostitute. I know all too well that people are fairly useless, no one is going to give you, voluntarily, incredible experiences unless they think there’s a payoff or it’s tit for tat. You kind of have to swindle it out of them. This is my personal trivia, not some secret knowledge, but i think it’s very important to watch how you fit in into the jigsaw puzzle of your surroundings. Too many guys, myself included, behave like they’re on a mission, they’re busy, it’s in and out, be back at the LZ at zero hours. Unless you’re actually someone important or rich then no one is impressed by this behavior. You have to interact with your environment, the greater jungle is your home too as much as it is theirs.
Good post.
As that silly looking Australian guy says, "Location talk, c-nts." Apps mean nothing in general anymore, at best they are very low ROI, I'm sad to say. I hope I can be proven wrong. The truth is that the world is undergoing massive changes and information wars/propaganda, and even in good countries there is still the internet. In such a world, how can you get the attention of women even if you have many desirable traits? It's a real problem, but mostly it's harder for those of us who are trying to maximize chances with our own race. In the west, if you're a euro descendant, it's slim pickens with physical beauty and probably even worse regarding pleasantness or demands.
Yup.
Few people even look out for others. Guys talk about this all the time here but my conclusion now is that most of us don't even consider the few times that people do, since the connections are offers are atrocious (how about this 35 year old woman?) lol.