We already see which is trending, if you want to hold out and not admit you are wrong, that is fine, we will just have to wait and see where things end up. I am confident that multi-cultural "conservatism" is going to lose.Of course it does but you figure it out which many have done, many I personally know. Having kids changes you, it's changes your life and what you find to be important and what you need to get done. Just like you like to keep talking about all the "young men" you know "waking up", well I know more than you and they are getting married and starting families.
If you're looking for perfection you will never be happy and never do anything in life.