You went to other countries in search of a lower bar and the bar still wasn't low enough for you.
People have to realize at this point in history, even the low bars can be difficult ones, and mostly that's because there are very few places that aren't influenced at least in some way by the west or technology, or both (seeing the hope of economic prosperity or wealth), of whatever variety. As such, even if you can get to a Kazakhstan let's say, the tradeoffs will be there in spades.
Let's be honest, most of the unmarried men participating in threads such as these just want to find a "waifu" from remote parts of the world in order to have an excuse for sexual release. They don't go wife-hunting for rational reasons, like uniting families or out of a feeling of obligation towards their own parents who wish to be blessed with grandchildren. Misogynist threads like "Destruction of Modern women" where all western women get demonized exist only because of men subconsciously wanting to vent their frustrations and surpressed desires.
I'm a traditional, orthodox person (always have been) but I was raised in a society that obviously has affected me in various ways. Still, I'm very honest about the general directions in life. All attempts by men with attraction to women are going to be for sanctioned sex, and what goes along with that when rightly directed as well (attraction to person, energy, personality, etc) is family formation.
I don't find it helpful to blame men for women being among the worst in this epoch. It's probably one of the three worst periods for women in all time, arguably #1. Whether any man "deserves" something means nothing, which is why I never make any assertion of claim of the sort. That doesn't stop a swath of men from being horny or frustrated, which is the point.
Masturbation and casual dating or PUA are strictly forbidden (rightly so), thus men apparently only have marital sex as lawful options for sexual release. Now what to do if you can't get a (suitable) wife like so many western men? You have to realize that hookers would be the best and most dignified option if all you want from a woman is pleasure anyway. I'm willing to say as soon as you release pressure with a hooker you will instantly become more attractive to a potential wife anyway. Despite all what women are saying in public they secretly value a man with sexual options (even if it's just prostitutes) much higher than a "loser" who can't get any.
Here you turn it around, so I'm unsure what the totality of your opinion is on the subject. To be fair, most guys only have options with a sort of prostitution. But heck, I call modern dating just drawn out prostitution anyway. You're cynical in this post but I sorta agree with you.
The modern man, even with good looks or other good attributes, still largely doesn't have a complement. In the west, or even with other cultures women that come to the west (a point all of us know well), the degree to which you will get desirable behavior and attributes from a woman is crazy low. It's not hard to see why guys eschew marriage or "date" women to get sex in some capacity, regardless of it not being the "right" thing to do. The options at this point so frequently are marry a hambeast and/or someone who spends your money without a care in the world, or both. It's really bad and blaming men in any capacity, when so many are locked out, is just the wrong way to look at things, in my opinion.