I agree largely with your points, but am curious about this one.
While a family and being an esteemed member of the community would have been nice, I took a different path. Worked, travelled, and perhaps enjoyed a bit too much hedonism in my 20s, but set myself up financially fairly well - but at the expense of setting down roots beyond some very solid male friendships. With MF relations and the polarized state of the west as it is, not to mentioned divorce rape laws, I'm honestly starting to think it may not happen for me. Regardless...
I always had a decent nose for finances, loved a deal, as well as financial efficiency and optimization. In Canada it just doesn't seem to make sense.
Eg, a cookie cutter 3 br home an hour outside of Toronto is a million dollars. The sort of home that 1 generation ago would have been bought by a plumber on one salary. It rents for maybe 3k/mth. Even if you put down 200k DP, at 6% interest on a mortgage, you're throwing away 48k just on interest. 36k to rent, or 48K + tying up 200k of your money, + all the other fees that go into ownership.
We never really had a 2008 here, and the signs are that it was merely pushed forward, while interest rates and home buyer incentives marched ahead inflating prices. Homes could literally halve in price, and still be more expensive compared to the US in terms of rents garnered, incomes, or other financial metrics.
The idea that "it's never wrong to buy" and "homes only go up" is what got the US to it's 2008, Canada here, and Japan to where it was in 1990.
If you're only paying 60% of the entire monthly operating cost for your place, does it not make more sense to rent?