We all have our own way of processing and dealing with things. I know how my mind works and I know the likelihood that my biological children would think much the same way.
I am getting close to 50. Meaning my childhood and college years were amazing. This used to actually be a real nice country. My parents went so far above and beyond for me. Things didn't really go down hill until after 9/11 and I was an adult on my own by then. So, I hold absolutely no animosity towards my parents, as do few others my age, because we had great opportunities.
But the opportunities in the USA are gone. COL is out of control. Satanic demons like Elon Musk fire hard working/highly educated Americans and replace them with slave labor. And if my parents had me today, in a country like this, and didn't have a clear path for me, like I hope to do, I would have great animosity towards them. I would be furious with them for creating me into this hell on earth. This keeps me up many nights, how do I create a path for children I may just never have. I still can't answer it, but at least I am not disappointing my own children.
I am not saying I am right, and you are wrong or vice-versa. I am saying this is how my brain operates, I am a super big picture guy, and I believe my own children would likely be the same. And I want to avoid that major disappointment and mistake at all costs. I guess I am just super K-select.