I've mentioned this on the forum in the past, that men in the West have lost our social spaces. At least the Muslims and the Asians still have their "men's only" clubs, spaces, cafes, etc. Upper crusty society used to have such men's only social or country clubs, where men would hang out, play cards, read the paper, drink tea, and so on. Golf clubs and the super rich still have elements of these things, but what's left for the everyday man? Almost nothing. Strip clubs and bars? Fugettaboutit. Even pro sportsball locker rooms have now been invaded by women reporters. I think this is why some men get duped into joining masonic lodges: because it (at least was) men's only, but I think that's changed. Think of Fred Flintstone heading off to his Water Buffalo lodge meetings. One could argue that church is a meet-up place for men, but really...? Most western churches are totally feminised and you can't exactly engage in "locker room" chat at church. I think this is another reason why men gravitate to Islam: for the "brotherhood" factor, which Christianity in the West has lost, and there are no clear "brotherhood establishments" left for us.