Great write-up. Each of the characters is going through conflict in their life, but it's Timothy Hutton's character storyline that is the most interesting of them all. His character is on the brink of marriage, and like you said, feels that his life is about to be a slow deterioration until he meets his death.I watched Saltburn but I don't feel like writing about it.
So instead I'll write about something else I saw recently called 'Beautiful girls' about a piano player who goes back to his hometown for a highschool reunion and catches up with old friends who are all somewhat stagnant in their lives.
The main character is at a crossroads in his life trying to decide whether to settle with his long term partner or not. Making this decision difficult of course is the titular (no pun intended) beautiful girls who are distractions as well as a neverending muse for the fantasies of the male imagination. This aspect of commitment avoiding fantasy is represented in one way by the teenage Natalie Portman. This character represents the idea of the perfect woman (I know this sounds creepy). But because she's so young and out of reach as a consequence of her age, she has something that no other woman has - which is that she's literally unattainable and then an object for the main character to project his idealized fantasy scenario onto. In addition to this, she's also very precocious for her age which again makes the main character think of an ideal future when she's of age and they can be together. Unlike age appropriate women, she has purity but also nothing but potential. All of this spikes the emotions in a more potent way than his actual potential future wife, where the future just looks like a period of ever decreasing enjoyment. The infatuation with the teenage girl also comes across 'wrong' as I type this but I understood this to be not a sexual fantasy but a purely innocent case of idealism and a representation of how the main character was indulging in this limbo like retreat from his real life.
The other type of 'beautiful girl' obsession is represented through the infatuation caused by magazines and pictures of models. In one speech one loserish character talks about how beauty can give you the energy to get through the day meanwhile his actual relationship has crumbled apart and he's not taken seriously by an attractive woman he tries hopelessly to seduce. There was an odd resonance to his speech about his masturbatory fantasies for pin up models and the strength they gave him to endure the hardships in life. Yet the reality he does not accept is that he's choosing to live in his mind rather than in reality. A real relationship is going to be messy and fraught with drama and tension in a way that imagining a beautiful model never will.
This movie shows a kind of small town reality. None of the characters have met their potential in life or become what they want to be. They all seem unsure where to go next. There's this sense of not having made up one's mind in the movie. But alongside the group of buddies still have fun together with drinking and videogames or singalongs at the local pub. It reminds me of what actually hanging out and drinking with my friends in my hometown felt like. Sure there's a lot of bigger issues to push to the back of one's mind (often with the aid of alcohol) but there can also be camaradarie in doing that.
The girl he's about to marry is only a "7" and is completely average...and that's not good enough for him. His hypocrisy comes through when he lambasts his friend for having supermodels pinned to his bedroom wall, but he isn't satisfied with what he's got either. Hence the detour from his impending marriage to indulge in a fantasy with a young girl he's much too old for.
Their so-called relationship, while innocent, is something that never appears in American movies. So the interactions with her are unique as this is unchartered territory in the film world: the reactions from her friends and his, his jealousy towards a boy her own age...I found it all very interesting to watch. And Natalie Portman is excellent in her role as the subject of his affection.
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