I've seen an American woman with somewhat traditional values marry a quite traditional foreign, non-white man, yes. I've also seen a less traditional American woman marry a somewhat conservative foreign man. In both of these cases, the guy wasn't bottom of the barrel. Both of them are close to top tier in terms of wealth, status, looks, physique, style, etc. One is a doctor with his own practice and a related business he started. The other is a tech executive and his parents are part of the government in his country.
That makes sense. Neither of the men I mention above were the most conservative/trad - but much more than the typical Western guy. The typical Western guy, like the typical Western girl, wants to "have fun" and stretch it out indefinitely to make sure his woman fits his perfect idealized vision before he even thinks about marriage. Foreign men are more likely to talk about a serious future within a few dates, if not on the first date.
The second guy I mentioned has very conservative parents who wanted him to marry a woman from his country and were pressuring him. But he said he was attracted to white women, he married a white American woman, and his parents learned to accept her.
Again this is why you can’t have a logical discussion with women because they are emotional not logical.
A typical type conversation on these types of topics Between men and women:
Man: “Statistics from a 2018 study from the department of social sciences of the University of Harvard show that 95% of women do xyz”
Woman: “But me and my friends don’t do that!”
What you and your friends personally do is statistically irrelevant when the population of USA is 300 - 400 million.
Again there are scores of statistics which which marriages between Americans and foreigners (and the same for all anglosphere countries) are gender wise very lopsided with American men and foreign women being far more common than the inverse.
And again there are whole massive industries catered towards anglosphere men meeting foreign women (Russian marriage agencies, marriage tours in Latin America, Thailand and Colombia sex industries etc) but very little in the way of the opposite catering for anglosphere women to meet foreign men (maybe female sex tourism in the Gambia and Jamaica?) and even inside America (or other western countries) there are no mass market industries (speed dating, marriage agencies, specialised dating apps, specialised matchmaking agencies etc) catering towards anglosphere women dating foreign men.
The fact is the average American (and anglosphere woman) woman is a fat, poorly dressed opinionated narcissistic feminist and foreign men don’t really want them except for quick and easy sex.
The fact that the situation for you and your friends is different is statistically irrelevant.
According to Grok the marriages between American born citizens and foreigners is 55% of the time the male is American.
So the imbalance doesn’t appear that big at first glance but if you dig deeper (hard to get accurate statistics) and use common sense you will see the marriages between “American” women and foreign men are actually non Anglo women marrying within their own culture. E.g a Mexican woman who was born in USA to a Mexican father and a Mexican mother (statistics still count her as being American) will go back to Mexico and marry some Mexican guy her family introduces her to and bring the guy back to USA etc.
Statistically the chances of say an Anglo heritage American (or British or Australian) woman marrying a Russian or South African or Colombian man etc are very slim.
What happens in your small social circle (which is not a representative sample of the whole population due to various reasons) is irrelevant statistically to what happens in society on a larger scale.
