The Destruction of Modern Women

But according to the data, white women from anywhere are universally prized and pursued by men for dating and marriage, particularly blonde-haired, blue-eyed white women. As a blonde-haired, blue-eyed white woman, my experience has aligned with that.
As a typical woman you are twisting the argument. You are actually misunderstanding what I am saying. You are conflating white women with western women. There are plenty of non "western" white women (the Slavic countries, Albania, Iran, Turkey, white Morrocans and white Algerians, white Latinas, etc).

For example when dating inside their own country western men would often prefer a white woman with blonde hair and blue eyes etc because the cultural rot affects all women in the west so the man may as well go for the woman he finds the most physically attractive.

But nobody is going as a passport bro to a western country to marry a Western woman. If you see a wealthy Japanese guy or a wealthy Indian guy etc who wants to go to another country to find a white woman to marry he is likely going to choose a country like Russia or Poland etc rather than go to USA or Australia or Canada.

Its culturally not a thing for foreign men to look for a western woman to marry. There is no industry promoting marriages between western women and foreign men the same way that there is an industry promoting marriage between western men and foreign women.

And you see this as well in terms of expat populations in foreign countries. If you go to a country like Thailand or Russia, etc you are 10 times more likely to meet a mixed couple that is western man + local woman then the opposite couple of western woman + local men.

In Russia how likely do you think it is to meet a Russian man married to an American woman compared to the opposite?

How likely is it in Thailand to meet a Thai man married to a western woman compared to the opposite?

Do you see my point that western women are not desirable outside their own country. Even in their own country a lot of men only tolerate them due to lack of better options. If most guys in the west could afford to be passport bros they would.

Foreign men go to countries like Russia or Ukraine (before the war) or Romania, etc to find a white woman. You aren't going to see a wealthy Korean guy travel to Canada or USA or England looking for a white woman to marry.

Also another point that you are missing is that most western women even if white lose a lot of attractiveness points due to obesity, dressing poorly etc. While analaysing meta data from apps like Tinder or hinge etc the data might show white women are the most attractive it doesn't show the whole story.

For example an Asian man who might profess to preferring white women when asked in a survey question when he is actually presented with the choice of a typical fat slobby dressed American woman compared to a thin Japanese girl will likely choose the thin Japanese girl. If however you presented the same man with the choice between a Japanese girl and a Ukrainian girl the same man would likely choose the Ukrainian girl.

There is a lot of holes in the data you are talking about and you aren't analyzing it correctly or holistically.
 
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As a blonde-haired, blue-eyed white woman, my experience has aligned with that.
You are also likely thin and young (or youngish) which means statistically you are in the top tier of western white women just by those two factors alone. In USA for example the median female age is around 39 and the average BMI for American women is 29.8 just below the cut off of 30 which is considered to be the standard for obesity. Therefore statistically the average American female is fat and middle aged. You are probably young and thin so of course you will be getting a lot of attention.
 
The large population centers (NY, LA) have been decimated in terms of the percentage of good marriageable women. It makes sense because they are filled with career women living alone, using dating apps, and hooking up with several men. In the US my observation is the smaller pockets are still viable, but as you age out of the life arc of meeting a partner you just don’t meet them anymore. The surrounding areas and culture matter a lot.
 
But according to the data, white women from anywhere are universally prized and pursued by men for dating and marriage,
Just to further my point in the posts above, I spent around a year in total traveling through Latin America (Peru, Colombia, Chile and Mexico) and I met exactly one couple where there was a western woman (a young blonde, attractive thin American girl) dating a local Latino man. All the other mixed couples I met were foreign men dating a local (Latina) woman. Nobody wants western women.
 
Being in the South, most people are overweight and many are morbidly obese. Many young people are horrifically morbidly obese. And yet so many of them are in relationships! I don't get it. I just don't. Recently I noticed two young people seemingly develop a relationship, and the woman, who is young 20s, has to be pushing 350, the guy is probably 250, but not an unattractive fellow, he has your typical masculine rural farmboy looks, and the woman is, well, just gigantically obese. Why? What do these men see in these women that they want to be with a woman that fat? A lot of both fat and ugly women have marriages, multiple kids, and I bet many of them were fat and ugly the entire time. It's not like there aren't any women who are attractive, although there's precious few, and with media, it's not like these guys have never seen attractive women, but whenever normal people kvetch about not finding relationships, there's the other extreme opposite of morbidly obese people getting along just fine. I wish I could just get some answers.
 
there's the other extreme opposite of morbidly obese people getting along just fine.
You mean morbidly obese women getting along just fine. When was the last time you saw a morbidly obese man paired up with an attractive woman (excluding the few guys who are very rich or high status). Men keep lowering there standards in response to the declining quality of women. Meanwhile women keep raising their standards.
 
Being in the South, most people are overweight and many are morbidly obese. Many young people are horrifically morbidly obese. And yet so many of them are in relationships! I don't get it. I just don't. Recently I noticed two young people seemingly develop a relationship, and the woman, who is young 20s, has to be pushing 350, the guy is probably 250, but not an unattractive fellow, he has your typical masculine rural farmboy looks, and the woman is, well, just gigantically obese. Why? What do these men see in these women that they want to be with a woman that fat? A lot of both fat and ugly women have marriages, multiple kids, and I bet many of them were fat and ugly the entire time. It's not like there aren't any women who are attractive, although there's precious few, and with media, it's not like these guys have never seen attractive women, but whenever normal people kvetch about not finding relationships, there's the other extreme opposite of morbidly obese people getting along just fine. I wish I could just get some answers.

I think it’s supply / demand and simping. Many guys would rather have something anything rather than be alone. A ‘hot’ woman may not even be a prize either because many are highly promiscuous because they get so much attention. That’s why the culture matters a lot, a cute or attractive woman in a conservative culture would be shamed if she acted out but here sluttiness is celebrated. So if we do the math, how many attractive women are marriageable? As in no kids, thin, not banging/hooking up with exes or random men, religious (for real not faking it) pleasant? It’s like you said a precious few. It sucks, but that’s the way it is. That’s why I think men should be happy with solitude and realize without leaving finding a good woman will be at the very at least a lot of work. For the married men in good marriages, great for them.
 
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I feel bad for the guys that marry a woman who's thin and hot when she's young, then get fat as she gets older. That's why it's important to pay attention to what their mother looks like.
Always pay attention to the mother. General disposition is inherited as well. It is possible for a girl to rebel against a bad disposition of her mother, but there will be residual stuff to deal with.

I'm convinced a person's personality shapes their physical traits as well, especially as you age.
 
Being in the South, most people are overweight and many are morbidly obese. Many young people are horrifically morbidly obese. And yet so many of them are in relationships! I don't get it. I just don't. Recently I noticed two young people seemingly develop a relationship, and the woman, who is young 20s, has to be pushing 350, the guy is probably 250, but not an unattractive fellow, he has your typical masculine rural farmboy looks, and the woman is, well, just gigantically obese. Why? What do these men see in these women that they want to be with a woman that fat? A lot of both fat and ugly women have marriages, multiple kids, and I bet many of them were fat and ugly the entire time. It's not like there aren't any women who are attractive, although there's precious few, and with media, it's not like these guys have never seen attractive women, but whenever normal people kvetch about not finding relationships, there's the other extreme opposite of morbidly obese people getting along just fine. I wish I could just get some answers.
I dont know much about southern culture, and Im sure each southern state and area has its own distinct flavor of beliefs, culture, and way of life but it could be many things. If vanity levels and standards were slightly lowered, caucasian and european birthrates wouldnt be in such a decline. That seems to be what has happened where you describe.

To the men in these places, large girls might be all that's available. At the end of the day, despite their unhealthy appearance, if they are loyal and have other qualities that would make them good wives or mothers, that's likely all that matters to single men in those areas.
 
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