Yes this is a very feminine way of arguing. Women will always go to an example of that one hyper specific case that proves you wrong when you're arguing with them whilst completely ignoring the wider issue.Yes, this is leftist/emotional thinking instead of the reality of the world and practical thinking, which accounts for 99% of examples.
"Hey look, I can point out this one exception!"
As we know, these prove the rule, not the other way around.
If you say to a woman that women are not generally capable of leadership they will be like: "well actually my friend's sister leads a book club and she's actually very good at it, so you're wrong..."
It's a sorry state of affairs when men are so feminized that they also argue like women.