No I'm going to pass for the time being, even if I believe you as being sincere with the way things have gone in this thread I just don't want to deal with what is going to come of it, if that makes me petty then so be it actions have consequences. I only brought it up because people were saying that nobody can offer help beyond the common sentiment which is absolutely not true. I definitely have a lot of valuable first hand experience and guidance to offer but I also have some hard reality truths to share which go against the common hopes in this thread and I'm really not interested in having to fight over every word I say trying to prove that my intentions are good. Maybe in the future when the conversation is less contentious and my urge to try and help every brother here that I can overcomes my pettiness.