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Not everyone is like you, there would be no doubts triggered by the actions and words of an apostate.
You are a loser and you leave the One True Church defeated by the devil's arguments in your head. This is definitely not God's providence, it's the will of the devil for you. Go ahead, be an apostate. You can become "a leader" in a Roman Catholic parish all you want, it won't save you.

Don't use the word "loser," which is just a pointless insult. Just call him faithless, which is exactly what Christ would have done.
 
Not everyone is like you, there would be no doubts triggered by the actions and words of an apostate.
You are a loser and you leave the One True Church defeated by the devil's arguments in your head. This is definitely not God's providence, it's the will of the devil for you. Go ahead, be an apostate. You can become "a leader" in a Roman Catholic parish all you want, it won't save you.

Man, you are so hateful. You have no idea what you're assuming about a stranger on the internet.

Congrats on becoming the first member I'll be ignoring.
 
I'm considering converting back to Catholicism.
Fr. Moses' message is to not convert just to a singular parish or canonical jurisdiction, but to follow Christ until the death no matter how narrow the truth gets, with the presupposition that Orthodox Christianity is the truth.

Today is the Sunday of the Samaritan woman, and Christ says in the Gospel "salvation is of the Jews" - the Church is the new Israel, and St. Paul warns the Romans that they could be cut off of the "tree" if they become arrogant, so make of that what you will.

One major difference between post schism Latins and the Orthodox is the view on grace. Fr. Seraphim Rose (he was an atheist until he began to continually seek the truth as a monastic, no money, no wife, but lots of grace and a brilliant mind) says in God's Revelation to The Human Heart that the focus on completion of obligations and externals in Latin theology is a replacement of the Holy Spirit - in other words the Bishops lost the grace of the Holy Spirit when they schismed and lied against Constantinople with lies and an actual forgery called the Donation of Constantine. Latins don't believe you experience God, they believe you experience "created grace" and Fr. Seraphim's anaylsis of this is that Rome is a religion of the mind only now, though God in His providence either draws back His lost sheep into the Orthodox fold, or as Fr. Seraphim says, gives them grace in spite of being outside the Church, and we leave judgement to the merciful God. Yes, we recognize that the world is horrible and the schism was horrifying, but it happened over centuries, and the laity of the west more or less let it happen to their own selves... this is the point Fr. Moses is getting at. And another put it perfectly with scripture "The kingdom of heaven is taken with force by those who are violent" that is, those who don't stop seeking, even when they feel like an atheist - And I believe you that you've tried very hard and yet feel like one. The worst thing we, who are mortal, can do on the paths to our deaths is give up, and even worse, notice that we are becoming prideful, but not ask God continually to save us from the foot of pride.

Martin Luther knew of Orthodoxy, yet he chose himself because of prelest, also, he was a big sinner but that's a different case. The Lutherans have "confession" but in a similar way, they eerily as a "church" recognize the total lack of grace by not doing any absolution, even though Christ promised His one Church that the apostolic ministers had power to bind and loose and be a conduit for the Holy Spirit to heal us. Christ is willing and even able to save all as the scriptures say, if only we don't give up, that's the caveat, and Judges 7:2, that's why many perish. I think that even the righteous praying for the dead is God's providence, He knew who would pray, wouldn't He? God knows our paths, and even if someone pulled a gun on you, God could jam the trigger if He knew He could save you, wouldn't He? But that doesn't mean all will be saved at all, despite Him desiring very much so.

I wish I knew your name, but I'm saying Lord have mercy for you regardless, because I know how hard it can get. We ALL need divine grace. I can't do anything on my own, brother. I know my memory is bad because I'm going through a very harsh time, and I know Orthodoxy is true, so even when I feel the closest I've ever been to feeling atheist, I know God is real, I just know I've tasted His beloved grace - and He is not the God of confusion. Furthermore, if He is real, He has a plan for us all, so who am I to step aside? But maybe, if He sees He can redeem evil to good, He lets us become lost for a little while. But the tomb is empty, brother, no doubt about it, and the world is against us, no doubt about it, but what mortal can stand against Christ and His love for us? None. Please, whatever you do, don't give up. And take a hike every so often, know thyself.

If you ever feel better about it, always remember to set reading the scriptures and gospels, and the lives of saints, every day, as a priority.
 
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I'm a new convert so I still have a lot of questions. I think my priest is very busy at the moment so I'll ask this one here. What is the correct way to pray for your heterodox family members, both living and deceased? What prayers should I pray for my living heterodox relatives? Is it allowed to pray for deceased heterodox Christians? I think I heard that it's not allowed but you can give alms in their name. I'd highly appreciate some clarification on this, if someone has the time. This might be worth its own thread, I don't know.
 
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I'm a new convert so I still have a lot of questions. I think my priest is very busy at the moment so I'll ask this one here. What is the correct way to pray for your heterodox family members, both living and deceased? What prayers should I pray for my living heterodox relatives? Is it allowed to pray for deceased heterodox Christians? I think I heard that it's not allowed but you can give alms in their name. I'd highly appreciate some clarification on this, if someone has the time. This might be worth its own thread, I don't know.
You can pray for them in your own prayers and you absolutely should!

The misunderstanding probably comes from the fact that Orthodox churches do not commemorate non Orthodox in the Liturgy. You know the slips of paper that people write names on? You should only write Orthodox names on those. In your private prayers you can pray for anyone however you wish, for example you can say "Lord Jesus Christ have mercy on Thy servant [name]" or "Lord Jesus Christ repose Thy servant [name]" for the deceased
 
I don't consider this big enough to be in the news section, yet I wanted to share this:


Orthodox patriarchate removed from Ukraine statement after Turkey protests​

The organisers of the Ukraine peace summit, held earlier this month in Switzerland, have removed the Ecumenical Patriarchate of the Eastern Orthodox Church from the list of signatories following protests from Turkey.

Despite Patriarch Bartholomew attending the summit, which took place on 15-16 June, only as an observer, his signature on the communique sparked outrage in Turkey several days after the conclusion of the conference.

Numerous opposition publications labelled the incident as "scandalous", claiming it violated Turkish sovereignty and the Lausanne Treaty, even while Turkish Foreign Minister Hakan Fidan was in attendance.

As ecumenical patriarch, Bartholomew is considered by many as the head of the Orthodox Church. The patriarchate is based in Istanbul, where it was founded in the fourth century, when the city was known as Constantinople.

However, Ankara does not recognise the patriarchate's "ecumenical" title under the Lausanne Treaty, which recognised the sovereignty and the boundaries of the modern state of Turkey.

Never thought I'd be cheering on Turkey to stand up to the clown puppet Patriarch in Constantinople. This guy spends more time in politics than actually tending to the Church.
 
I don't consider this big enough to be in the news section, yet I wanted to share this:


Orthodox patriarchate removed from Ukraine statement after Turkey protests​



Never thought I'd be cheering on Turkey to stand up to the clown puppet Patriarch in Constantinople. This guy spends more time in politics than actually tending to the Church.
God certainly works in mysterious ways. When the Jews, who had the Law and the Truth, wanted to kill Christ, God worked through the pagan Pontius Pilate to point out their hypocrisy and iniquity.
 
Not great, if true. The assistant kept enough video and audio recordings that it will be difficult for Met. Hilarion to survive this. Also, to my mind, this is not just about sexual misconduct; it's a wider revelation that a Metropolitan, bishop and very renowned ambassador of Orthodoxy lives a life of luxury, indulgence, hypocrisy, manipulation, pride and lies.


Lord have mercy.

If this is true, then let’s just hope and pray for his repentance
 
Not great, if true. The assistant kept enough video and audio recordings that it will be difficult for Met. Hilarion to survive this. Also, to my mind, this is not just about sexual misconduct; it's a wider revelation that a Metropolitan, bishop and very renowned ambassador of Orthodoxy lives a life of luxury, indulgence, hypocrisy, manipulation, pride and lies.


Sounds like BS to me. The person making the accusations is already a proven thief, so for him to make accusations in defense is par for the course.

Satan can enter anyone and turn a normally loyal man into a jealous backstabber. It's pretty scary tbh.

As for the $2.5 million dollar villa - is that actually Hilarion's or does it belong to the Church of Moscow? He says he plans to convert it into a monastery someday so I suspect it's actually just Church property.

The Church buying important assets is just a way of managing the wealth of the Church into future projects as well as creating a cash flow portfolio. Pretty standard fare. All profits are used for charity or the Church itself.
 
Not great, if true. The assistant kept enough video and audio recordings that it will be difficult for Met. Hilarion to survive this. Also, to my mind, this is not just about sexual misconduct; it's a wider revelation that a Metropolitan, bishop and very renowned ambassador of Orthodoxy lives a life of luxury, indulgence, hypocrisy, manipulation, pride and lies.

We live in a world where AI can replicate voice. I wouldn't be so quick to believe a thief.
 
We live in a world where AI can replicate voice. I wouldn't be so quick to believe a thief.
It's so interesting. Voice recordings are totally worthless now, because even if they are real, any accused with a brain can just say it's AI and you can't really prove that it's not, because AI has gotten scarily good at imitating voices. People think it still sounds robotic like it did a year or two ago, but it has advanced very quickly.

Either way, it's best not to spread these types of accusations. If it's a lie, then you're partaking in the slander. Clergymen especially get slandered very often.
 
It's so interesting. Voice recordings are totally worthless now, because even if they are real, any accused with a brain can just say it's AI and you can't really prove that it's not, because AI has gotten scarily good at imitating voices. People think it still sounds robotic like it did a year or two ago, but it has advanced very quickly.

Either way, it's best not to spread these types of accusations. If it's a lie, then you're partaking in the slander. Clergymen especially get slandered very often.
Yep and Hungary is getting a lot of push back for being willing to engage with Putin. So theres a lot of political motive to pull stuff like this. I'm definitely not going to come to any conclusions at this stage.
 
Hey bredren

I moved to a new city and the closest community is Rum-Orthodox and apparently half Arab, while the Romanian community is about 70 minutes away.
I'd really like to check out the Antiochians, but is it recommendable to change ethnic community like that? How different do they do things anyway? I understand they have the same basic rite, but is there anything for me to look out for?

I've only ever been to Romanian and one Russian service.
 
Hey bredren

I moved to a new city and the closest community is Rum-Orthodox and apparently half Arab, while the Romanian community is about 70 minutes away.
I'd really like to check out the Antiochians, but is it recommendable to change ethnic community like that? How different do they do things anyway? I understand they have the same basic rite, but is there anything for me to look out for?

I've only ever been to Romanian and one Russian service.
I came into Orthodoxy through the Antiochians. I found them to be very warm and welcoming. The Antiochians are also very mission-oriented and at least where I was, half the congregation was converts.
 
I'm considering converting back to Catholicism.

Reasons in a nutshell: non-English services/immigrant clubs (Or Spanish where it should be offered where I am), lack of congregants/younger folks in general, similar levels of corruption and hypocrisy (BIG TIME, especially the Greeks), lack of funding/available options locally and worldwide, etc. These aren't the only reasons.

I mean I could go on and on and argue back and forth for days but at the end of it all, whatever you guys point out as negatives about Catholics the same can be said for Ortho. And I know most on here are Ortho so this is a bubble.

Catholics take the most heat because it's the largest denomination worldwide. I'm really just sick of the bullshit.

I'm not interested in having a semantic or logical debate about all this. This is a matter of the heart and intuition.

Jesus said things very simply in ways that children could understand them.

When we die, we will see what the ultimate Truth is because it's objectively out there.

I don't think Ortho is invalid or lacking Grace or anything like that. Of course many Ortho say this about Cath but it really depends on the Parish in my opinion. Not all Parishes are equal. Don't lump all Caths in with clown churches you see on Youtube. And remember there are Ortho clown churches too.

I would like to see what kind of advice I'm given regarding this to show me that I'm wrong. Just curious what yall are gonna a say.

"Go to Antiochian" or something like this. It's not that easy. English isn't the only issue here. I'm just tired of it.

In my heart of hearts I just don't see how Ortho is the correct path for me. I tried really hard for two years taking it very seriously as I should, because it is. I get it.

A lot just isn't right and I really cannot make it work personally. Something is off. Again, I'm not saying Ortho is wrong or anything like that. I'm just speaking from my own individual standpoint.

I know, it's probably me. I need to read some complex theology and turn my brain into a pretzel and become severely confused. Eventually I'll get it I'm sure! Maybe I should listen to some Jay Dyer comedy raps. /s

"There's only one church". Yeah, I get that. But it depends on what we mean by that and it gets very tricky. I see it as a spectrum.

I'm not looking to have a debate here. Moreso just venting and like I said curious what the responses will be.
Did you go through the catechism process and get baptized?
 
How did it end up going?
To my shame, I haven't been yet. My grandpa's diabetes acted up badly and the quagmire surrounding it it basically took up both weekends. I'll try to force myself to go on Sunday. I guess I'm also somewhat nervous about going to a new parish, particularly one that isn't Romanian and also episcopal. You can't even get the priest's contact online, which is how I used to ease into it beforehand in the past.

A new colleague of mine is Lutheran though, and we debated Church history and theology two weeks ago. He's beens sick since, but returned today and told me that he thought about our conversation for a long time while staying in bed and that he now wants to find out more about Orthodoxy, because he couldn't deny the holes in Protestant ecclesiology. I'll be over there in an hour, maybe I'll convince him to join next Sunday, to make it binding.

Might end up having to visit my grandparents though. We'll see. Prayers are welcome.
 
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