Is secular dating/game over after online dating apps?

Just because women are having children that does not mean they are good quality women. There are plenty of ghetto single mothers with 3 children from 3 different fathers.

70% of women in U.S.A. are either overweight or obese. So most of them are already disqualified off the bat.

Out of the remaining 30% that are not overweight or obese how many are divorced and or single mothers?

In the U.S.A. around 21% of all mothers are single mothers which translates to around 12% of the female population being single mothers.

Around 18% of women in the U.S.A. are on anti-depressants and that is not even counting all the the other mental health issues.

Add on top of this the aging demographic in U.S.A.

The average female in U.S.A. is 39.7 years old well past the age of fertility (after 35 is geriatric pregnancy).

This is a huge contrast to countries like Kosovo or Iran which have a very young population demographic.

You can see when you filter out women who are fat, single mothers, divorced, old, have mental health problems, etc you already eliminated probably 90% of the female population and I am not even considering if they are married or not.

And we haven't even talked about basic traits such as physical attractiveness, promiscuity, submissiveness, etc. By the time you add in these types of criteria you have basically eliminated 99% of women irrespective of whether they are married or not. Literally less than 1% of women in Anglosphere countries are wife material.

You and Scorpion must have a very low hurdle for what is considered to be a quality woman.
There are certainly a lot of fatties. However, I do see skinny, cute women in public. I think it is true that about 1/4 of women are good quality, but they tend to get snatched up and married at a young age.

A young man (20 yr old) at my church got engaged this past week to a pretty, slender virgin. He is an apprentice electrician, so he will be able to support a family. This kind of thing still happens. This is not the only case in my church, although it's the only one I know of this week.
 
There are certainly a lot of fatties. However, I do see skinny, cute women in public. I think it is true that about 1/4 of women are good quality, but they tend to get snatched up and married at a young age.

A young man (20 yr old) at my church got engaged this past week to a pretty, slender virgin. He is an apprentice electrician, so he will be able to support a family. This kind of thing still happens. This is not the only case in my church, although it's the only one I know of this week.

I find it odd that you know she is a virgin.
 
I think it is true that about 1/4 of women are good quality, but they tend to get snatched up and married at a young age.
I provided some statistics against this argument but you haven't provided any evidence to validate your 25% of women are good quality argument. Instead you just retorted back with an exceptional to the rule based on your personal experience. This is the sort of argument tactics that women typically use. If you want to claim 1/4 of women are good quality what is that based on?

And Samseau down-voted my post but he wasn't able to refute any of the evidence I provided.
 
In the anglosphere things have detiorated so much that 7s are literally receiving DMs on Instagram from professional athletes and minor celebrities.
In reality they are receiving DM's from bots and fillipino virtual assistants who manage their social media profiles. Busy succesfull men are paying a few hundred a month to have their dating app and social media put on auto pilot so they dont have to waste hours everyday talking to women in text or on the phone. The only women who get actual attention from these athletes and celebrities are the ones that make it to the date in person every contact before that is handled by virtual assistants. Of course the average women doesnt know that and they will still put that feather in their hat as a trophy having exchanged text messages with succesfull men.
 
The only women who get actual attention from these athletes and celebrities are the ones that make it to the date in person every contact before that is handled by virtual assistants. Of course the average women doesnt know that and they will still put that feather in their hat as a trophy having exchanged text messages with succesfull men.
That is true but the fact that athletes and celebrities are even willing to sleep with 7s tells you how distorted the situation is.
 
I provided some statistics against this argument but you haven't provided any evidence to validate your 25% of women are good quality argument. Instead you just retorted back with an exceptional to the rule based on your personal experience. This is the sort of argument tactics that women typically use. If you want to claim 1/4 of women are good quality what is that based on?

And Samseau down-voted my post but he wasn't able to refute any of the evidence I provided.

Unlike you, I already gave you evidence: the White birthrates. Given how many White women are childless, and yet the White birthrate is around 1.5 in America, then it follows that there is a minority of women who are having decent or large families. A minority of women producing most of the children, which would indicate around 25%.

50% of White women are childless. The other 50% most of them have 1 child. This means there is a minority of the 50% of mothers who are having most of the children. Given that half of marriages end in divorce, that leaves us with 25%.

All of the fatties and women on anti-depressants fall under the wide umbrella of the other 75%. Learn how to math.
 
I think it is true that about 1/4 of women are good quality, but they tend to get snatched up and married at a young age.
Yes, like scorpion said, most get scooped up soon. Interestingly, this doesn't happen in a lot of other countries where they are as traditional, but the economy is weak. The problem with the west, then, again, is if you don't meet a girl through church or some religious connection (highly regional since it still is a feminist go to college culture) or when in college (and get married, uncommon), you'll have guys working for a decade, becoming much better overall, and no one is left - and I bring this up all the time - because no one is in general trying to hook a "made man" up with a 22-25 year old. I don't blame a younger girl in the US for not necessarily wanting that, but if she doesn't she better get married to a good guy around her age and stick with him - most don't do that, though. This is the reason why the west has such a crisis. There are tons of dudes that crowd, there are actually lots of 30s into 40s men that are highly valued, but they are only thought to be for the washed up girls (30s) who also crowd the entire system of matching out, and the shrieks are left and right. I've lived this, and that's why overseas is the only option, because a 22-25 year old woman will absolutely not only date or marry and older man, she might actually be looking for him in a culture that has absolutely no issue with it. You can't even find them socially in the anglosphere anymore, even if you wanted them.
In reality they are receiving DM's from bots and fillipino virtual assistants who manage their social media profiles. Busy succesfull men are paying a few hundred a month to have their dating app and social media put on auto pilot so they dont have to waste hours everyday talking to women in text or on the phone.
That's correct, funny too, since so few realize it.

Dang, I gotta get to Uruguay, Argentina, Kazakhstan, Russia, or Belarus. We'll see what happens in 2025-2026 in terms of this viability geopolitically. It's gonna get crazy.
 
Unlike you, I already gave you evidence: the White birthrates.
I already rebutted this. Just because women are having children it doesn't mean they are quality women.

According to your logic a single mother living in a trailer park who has 5 children from 5 different men is considered a quality woman? Do you not see how what you are saying is absurd?

I would say in Anglosphere countries maybe around 15 - 25% of men are decent quality men whereas around 1.5 - 2.5% of women are quality women. Literally a 10x discrepancy. The average quality of humans has declined a lot over the past 100 years for various reasons but in my opinion the decline has been much more severe on the female side.

I would say the most basic criteria of a quality woman would be that they are young (25 or under), thin (not overweight or obese), not on anti-depressants or otherwise have severe health or mental health problems and a low notch count (5 or less) and not a single mother. This is just a basic filter we aren't even talking about how attractive they are, if they are submissive, etc. Just the very basic criteria would filter out likely 90 - 95% of women.
 
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I would say the most basic criteria of a quality woman would be that they are young (25 or under), thin (not overweight or obese), not on anti-depressants or otherwise have severe health or mental health problems and a low notch count (5 or less) and not a single mother. This is just a basic filter we aren't even talking about how attractive they are, if they are submissive, etc. Just the very basic criteria would filter out likely 90 - 95% of women.
I'm curious how you would define a "basic criteria of quality" for a man.

I'm also curious how your definition would differ from that of women, in both their expressed and revealed preferences.
 
I would say in Anglosphere countries maybe around 15 - 25% of men are decent quality men whereas around 1.5 - 2.5% of women are quality women. Literally a 10x discrepancy. The average quality of humans has declined a lot over the past 100 years for various reasons but in my opinion the decline has been much more severe on the female side.
Yes, Australia agrees with me in this respect, since I've said basically this is the case. We have 2-3% of women even attractive or quality, and even that is dependent highly on their age (youth). I think I also stated in the past that there are 10 fold more guys who are above average than girls. The problem is that people have egos, there are TONS of people, and crowding is tremendous in both women and men (lots of average to below average guys and really old women).
I'm curious how you would define a "basic criteria of quality" for a man.
It should be interesting. I think he'll do a good job.
I'm also curious how your definition would differ from that of women, in both their expressed and revealed preferences
In the anglosphere, interestingly, these turn out to be the same thing, women are so ridiculous. The idea of "dating down" is so funny when you hear these career women and oldies talking about it; it's just another shriek and hamster fest.
 
In answer to OP, it does seem like dating apps encouraged young men to looksmaxx(?) because they are competing against the top percent of men in their area. We have now learned looks matter more to women than to men. Upon reflection, this should have been obvious, women have always done more than men in terms of trying to look good. They spend upwards to an hour getting ready to go out. I don't know this for sure, but I think the more done up a woman is, maybe the more value she places on how a man looks. With that in mind, your average guy who barely takes care of his health and hygiene will only qualify for the lowest of the low dregs of womankind. The apps probably make it even more obvious to women which men take care of themselves and which don't. It's a meat market and men are bringing their 60% lean ground beef with pork mixture up against steak.

Women also know they can get away with less emphasis on their own looks due to the apps. Men will still show interest. I'm sure it helps to see fat women with lean and attractive husbands. Heck, even the mere possibility of being a pump and dump by a man who's out whaling is enough incentive for them to stay the way they are. Do any attractive women go whaling for disgusting men at the end of the night? Never.

At least if men are looksmaxxing and becoming the best version of themselves they still end up as the best version of themselves, even if they don't end up with a compatible woman. I suspect a lot of guys are either sucking it up and accepting things are fundamentally unfair, or they are checking out. I suspect low-T men are checking out in droves because their libido isn't high enough to push them to overcome whatever challenge exists in order for them to score a woman. I also suspect we will continue to see a rise in low-T men checking out as our polluted society keeps disrupting the endocrine system and more and more men suffer from low-T.
 
In answer to OP, it does seem like dating apps encouraged young men to looksmaxx(?) because they are competing against the top percent of men in their area. We have now learned looks matter more to women than to men.
Online dating apps have opened peoples eyes on how women see 80% of men below average in terms of looks. I wonder if it has always been the case, and thus controlled whether consciously or unconsciously by societies. Or is it now happening because the market is so saturated.
Men are fine to copulate with a thin woman with an average face in online dating. For women, not so much.
 
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Online dating apps have opened peoples eyes on how women see 80% of men below average in terms of looks. I wonder if it has always been the case, and thus controlled whether consciously or unconsciously by societies. Or is it now happening because the market is so saturated.
Men are fine to copulate with a thin woman with an average face in online dating. For women, not so much.
Perhaps more consciously than we are aware. I think of old romantic stories, like what Jane Austen wrote, where women fall in love with a single, powerful and handsome man, usually rejecting what her family is offering her, which are reasonable. I think of Madame Bovary, where the tragic Ms. Bovary falls victim to feminine romance, rejecting her good husband for a bad boy and ultimately selfishly causing her own untimely death, all the while pining for a man. Then I think of any romance where a princess gets married off to a man and she's reluctant or refuses to do it because of some made up thing, usually the would-be husband is a psychopath, and all of her elders are counseling her to go through with the marriage. I think society has long known it's that now we have real data to prove it.
 
We have now learned looks matter more to women than to men.

I wonder if it has always been the case, and thus controlled whether consciously or unconsciously by societies.

The feminine is chaos, so there always has been some degree of rebellion, but mostly your examples are just notable anecdotes, not trends or most women by any means. I have explained what is going on, and it may even have been the case with your anecdotes if the families had money.

That is, women are taken care of and don't have to worry about resources. I've been saying this a lot recently and I have proved it's true. IF a baseline is provided, hypergamy goes into hyperdrive. If not, they will seek a man to provide resources, that's how important resources are. I prove it by Russia, or countries with very good looking women, and Roosh proved it with his comment on the busted dudes test. That would NEVER happen if resources weren't hard to come by. Nowadays, they aren't for women, but those times are almost over. It can last a little longer, but not much. It does prove my point of view, however. It really does come down to this: Do women need men? If the answer is yes, you'll see very low quality women and a very small percentage of even attractive looking ones. Does this describe the west? To a T.
 
Online dating apps have opened peoples eyes on how women see 80% of men below average in terms of looks. I wonder if it has always been the case, and thus controlled whether consciously or unconsciously by societies.
Historically, men haven't faced much sexual selection pressure based on their looks. While it's certainly never been a bad thing for a man to be handsome, it was always much more important for a man to be smart, strong, physically robust/healthy, high status, resourceful, respected/well-regarded by other men, etc... Good looks were generally only selected for insofar as they correlated with these other traits. When life was much harder in the pre-industrial era, women greatly appreciated men for their skills, knowledge, labor, wealth and physical protection, none of which have anything to do with being handsome.

In contrast, throughout history women have - in every society we know of - been sexually selected primarily for youth and beauty (with some minor selections for submissiveness, feminine character traits/personality and intelligence).
 
I'm curious how you would define a "basic criteria of quality" for a man.
I would say reasonably healthy (not on anti-depressants, etc) and not overweight or obese, has sufficient assets and or income to support a family to a reasonable standard of living (the man being in the top 40% of the male population in terms of either assets or income is sufficient). That is pretty much it. Of course there are other factors that matter but they are not basic criteria.

What Anglosphere women are typically looking for as a minimum/basic criteria when they want a husband or boyfriend is a guy that is at least 6 foot tall, not obese and earns 6 figures.


According to the female delusion calculator a man who is at least 6 foot tall, not obese and earns at least $100,000 per annum is only 1.5% of the male population of the USA. And that is not even filtering for age and if they are married or unmarried. So you can see the level of female delusion occurring. If you add the additional criteria of excluding married men and men over the age of 65 (most Anglosphere women don't want an old man) then it drops down to just 0.4% of the male population of the USA.
 
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Ah, yes... Women

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They've been released from the shackles of being forced to stay at home. They can now pay their own way.

But they still aren't stepping up to give me 3 months of their boss babe salary in the form of a shiny rock, followed by a lifetime of indentured servitude.
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So where is my ring?!

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"There's no one for you, because you're too good"

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That would NEVER happen if resources weren't hard to come by.
That is true. And now its getting to the point where due to globalization a girl who is an 8 or a 9 in any country in the world still has a lot of options as she has access to attention from wealthy men from all over the world (Instagram, dating apps, etc).

For example if you think as an average foreigner you can rock up to Colombia or Brazil or Argentina for a 6 month vacation and bag an 8 you are about 10 years too late. It is not going to happen without local connections and long term expat living.

However for now there are still some countries left in the world where 7s are still accessible to an average foreigner although that window is rapidly closing also. At most you will have another 20 years to take advantage of it.
 
According to the female delusion calculator a man who is at least 6 foot tall, not obese and earns at least $100,000 per annum is only 1.5% of the male population of the USA. And that is not even filtering for age and if they are married or unmarried. So you can see the level of female delusion occurring. If you add the additional criteria of excluding married men and men over the age of 65 (most Anglosphere women don't want an old man) then it drops down to just 0.4% of the male population of the USA.
I think it may be slightly more black pill than the actual stats, but let's say it's wrong by .5% and the number of guys is actually 2% with those top qualities. It's still absurd since nearly every girl says she wants this, and there are barely 1-2% of girls who are 7s or up.

The bigger issue overall that we talk about is that too many 30+ year old women are being interviewed and asked questions, which are already girls guys want basically little to nothing to do with. It's even worse: I have relatives that are over 40 and female and they talk about guys having money or being somewhat around their age. A 40 something, or even a 50 something man in decent shape with money is going to even look at a 40 year old woman? lol!
For example if you think as an average foreigner you can rock up to Colombia or Brazil or Argentina for a 6 month vacation and bag an 8 you are about 10 years too late. It is not going to happen without local connections and long term expat living.
Yes, I can attest to this. I recall going to Colombia, as an example, at the middle of last decade. At that time, and I had spoken to a former rvf member who was there in 2010 or so, I could tell that it was GREAT 5 years earlier (and earlier than that of course) but it had been relatively invaded and too traveled by the world, by tourists, etc. (Medellin specifically). Fast forward to now and the country is even worse, it's hard to imagine, though there are spots here and there. It's also much more dangerous and has a much worse future in the next 5-10. The best you're going to do in most of SA is just have fun, but that's not what guys are looking for here. Argentina or Uruguay might be an exception, by the way, or possibly the south of Brazil, but that country is a mess too overall.
 
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