Given that Nordwand already posted a somewhat cheesy 80s track in this thread, I now feel a little less cheesy about this one:
(rest of the post to be read while listening, increasing the cheesiness factor)
It actually made me think again about wanting to reconnect with my father to whatever degree possible, differences aside. I think I'd agree with
@An0dyne that a certain lack of affectation towards fathers is definitely connected with the decline of masculinity in the West.
I'm borderline Gen Z, and I think that makes me at least the second generation of sons who grew up with fathers that were not exactly the way we needed, or felt we needed, and that's where that comes from. You obviously also have this far spread cultural JEWISH (it is them, really) attack on the Christian patriarchy in general.
I don't condone everything Jesse Lee Peterson says, but I think "You have to forgive your mother and return to (the) father" is a very important spiritual and psychological truth.
The feminine is a very obvious psychological enemy to conquer because of the way many of us grew up and how the culture works, but I think fully forgiving that and learning to love your father as your own image in the face of the difficulties of life is almost a prerequisite to actually growing up as a man.
When I found Christ, but also the truth about the horrifying nature of life, I got extremely upset with my father for never telling me or preparing me for the dread and the blackpills I was in for. Then again, Boomers and Gen X were really the most violently psy-opped generations of our whole civilization in over 2 thousand years, so you cannot really judge them by that standard. There was no based and redpilled online scene for them to have known better.
Apart from that, your father and forefathers represent everyone in your bloodline that have, to some degree, had to go through the trials and tribulations of mortal life in some way similar to whatever you are going through and will go through.
Hugging your dad, in a way, is hugging all of your male ancestors, who largely managed to take care of your successive ancestors, all the while feeling existential dead, one way or another.
So yes, I think you are really overthinking the frequency thing, that's a very autistic thing to focus on.