I’m in an awful situation. It’s about an ex gf from 10 years ago who I legit wanted to marry. I’d like to win her back or if she’s been spoken for, I’d like to find someone similar so I can find some peace. I’m all ears. I’ve done serious discernment before posting this. This is a community I honestly think might hear out my situation and lend a helping hand. I’m planning on speaking to a subdeacon in my parish about this too.
The situation:
I had a woman who would’ve converted to orthodoxy with me but I stuck with some old pagan beliefs that caused some serious delusions. These delusions drove her away. I denounced those gods, and I resumed my Christian journey, and I got confirmed into the Orthodox Church and they’re all gone now.
I have a game plan on how to approach this. I know where she is in life and us getting back together would be like strapping jetpacks on her place in life. Book of Hosea anyone?
I just am not quite sure how to approach this. I know we dunk on the term oneitis but I’ve decided this old flame is worth reigniting, putting it all on the table, and if rejected, maturely walk away. I’m not the same person I was a decade ago. In fact, I’m the person I should’ve been a decade ago. I’m not sure how to attack this. All help is welcome.
The situation:
I had a woman who would’ve converted to orthodoxy with me but I stuck with some old pagan beliefs that caused some serious delusions. These delusions drove her away. I denounced those gods, and I resumed my Christian journey, and I got confirmed into the Orthodox Church and they’re all gone now.
I have a game plan on how to approach this. I know where she is in life and us getting back together would be like strapping jetpacks on her place in life. Book of Hosea anyone?
I just am not quite sure how to approach this. I know we dunk on the term oneitis but I’ve decided this old flame is worth reigniting, putting it all on the table, and if rejected, maturely walk away. I’m not the same person I was a decade ago. In fact, I’m the person I should’ve been a decade ago. I’m not sure how to attack this. All help is welcome.
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