The difficulty with the family question is that it can lead to your salvation or to idol worship (longevity, lineage, kids). Similarly, not having a family can also be a cause of suffering, but I can see how that can also be used for a man's salvation. I can see it with a woman, but not as much, since the point of the married woman is to submit, and if they don't submit it's also more dangerous for them not being married - since it's so easy by nature for them to be married if they just desire it at a youthful age.
Having said all that, slightly off topic is a question regarding funerals and what people say in general as far as eulogizing the person who has just died. I find it not only strange but funny (since it's sad) that so many people say that "He's in a better place". Is he? How would they know? Didn't he fight with all his might to not go to the other place? This applies to at least half the people I come across, if not more.
Acting like we're very aware at all of the condition of a person (unless he's a saint) at death is one of the weirdest things. We should just remember the best that we can of that person, and hope. We humans have this social and emotional frailty that seems sort of sad to me. Since so few see the world the way we do around here, we're hugely outnumbered too, so it serves little purpose to try to remind people of the more important things, which are not the temporal things of this decaying, passing age.