All of the speculation is irrelevant. Notice how he didn't address my question, being a person who either is a universalist, or wants to believe it. It's quite clear that we lack the ability to understand this topic and it is only out of emotional desire (of loved ones, or perceived "fairness") that the issue even comes up.
If God is truth, then there is no worry. If we must trust God, and be faithful to Him, we know what is to be done.
God's "justice" is impossible for a human to contemplate, for many reasons, because it's not rational or juridical, like we think of it. It is rather a term that is dependent on order, the proper order of things. It's like asking where did God come from? It's a silly question, since we are created, we can't discern that, since it's not part of our reality or understanding. The term "God" is what is used basically for all of these concepts that we are not able to fully understand, and it's that way for a reason.
One more thing, commonly mistaken in our foolishness, is the idea of "love." Love actually is allowing the freedom of being and choosing. People forget this, conveniently. If someone is coerced to do something, does that demonstrate love? Of course not. Similarly with God, and especially one that has gone through everything we have, including death, we are called of our own free will to be with Him or reject Him. How this works out is a bit of a mystery, but one thing is certain, by definition one cannot blame God. If one does as much, he becomes the new God. Or if there is something greater than God that apparently God must obey (such as a principle we claim, like "justice"), it suggests that that in reality is the true God, which is actually then deserving of worship instead.