The Destruction of Modern Women

First thing's first, please forgive me for being so disrespectful to you, Scorpion.
Done.
I think booting me from the entire forum for a week was quite excessive. I don't think it's unreasonable to think that I have earned enough good will that I should be able to expect not to get treated like a troublesome antisocial brat who needs to be expelled upon stepping out of line once as an honest mistake.
I don't view a one-week ban as a particularly excessive penalty. If you can't take a week off from posting on the forum without much of a problem, then that itself is evidence of a problem. And if you still think your punishment was excessive, ask yourself what would have happened on the RVF if you had aggressively insulted Roosh three times in the span of a single post.
Now, it's hardly rare for a member of this forum to make a big post announcing their departure from the forum. Often, it is a very melodramatic womanlike attention-seeking thing. I hope this doesn't read that way. I hope it reads instead like a simple well-meaning goodbye. I've learned a lot from this forum, and I want to make it clear that I have no ill feelings toward anyone here. I think all the men on this forum are good men, even the ones who have at times been less than polite toward me. But I believe I've already gotten all the value I could get from this forum, and I don't think I have particularly good contributions to make. I am a certified autist, and I am a very young man still wet behind the ears, so I really don't think I have anything stored in my head worth sharing that I haven't shared already.
I would recommend that you just relax and not make a big deal about your posting or what people say about you. Remember that the only thing you are judged by here is your words. We don't know the "real" you, only what you tell us with the tone and content of your posting. So just engage with your fellow posters respectfully and try not to take anything personally.
 
It's rare but I've seen it multiple times, I've seen random guys, even some I might call "losers", hit the jackpot and snap up some amazing girls just because they caught them in the right situation,
Timing is everything, something quite common with women, especially in the modern age of major population, tech, screens, and perceived options.
Remember she's interested in you because she wants someone different from her own culture but she still needs you to be accepted by her family so you have to present well, she has to be able to be proud of you because she's taking a huge leap on you.
Yes, you made a lot of good points in those posts.
Honestly all of this is a really long massive conversation, I'm barely scratching the surface.
I'm congratulating your good insight again. Well done.
 
I don't know if i agree with that but that would make sense for perhaps the type of girls who were openly interacting with you in those past situations, they weren't sizing you up for marriage they didn't care what your beliefs were. Regardless your Christianity would be a sticking point in the feasibility of her family accepting you which is as important as anything else if not more in regards to marriage. Every single time a girl in my culture has married outside the culture they always used Christianity as a reason for making it okay. Just telling you what I know to be true, I don't know how much I can speak for other cultures beyond just common old world similarities but being a non Christian is an automatic disqualification in my culture unless you're just scraping the bottom of the barrel.
In any modern society even a more conservative one attractive young women are going to be the least religious demographic in society because they have no incentive to be religious because they are living life on easy mode due to their privilege. A challenging life pushes people towards god while an easy life does the opposite.
 
Just telling you what I know to be true, I don't know how much I can speak for other cultures beyond just common old world similarities but being a non Christian is an automatic disqualification in my culture unless you're just scraping the bottom of the barrel.
I don't think they genuinely care, its just about saving face. If you agreed to publicly convert to their religion they would likely see that as being good enough.
 
In any modern society even a more conservative one attractive young women are going to be the least religious demographic in society because they have no incentive to be religious because they are living life on easy mode due to their privilege. A challenging life pushes people towards god while an easy life does the opposite.

I don't think they genuinely care, its just about saving face. If you agreed to publicly convert to their religion they would likely see that as being good enough.

I don't even know where to start here....

This reminds me as to why I didn't want to get this conversation started in the first place. Sounds like you've got it all figured out, good luck.
 
I don't even know where to start here....

This reminds me as to why I didn't want to get this conversation started in the first place. Sounds like you've got it all figured out, good luck.
So anytime anybody has different viewpoint to yours you then decide to take your bat and ball and go home? Its not a constructive way to have a dialogue. If somebody says something you don't agree with respectfully disagree and explain your reasoning and logic as to why you disagree. This is how discussions advance.
 
Timing is everything, something quite common with women, especially in the modern age of major population, tech, screens, and perceived options.

Yes, you made a lot of good points in those posts.

I'm congratulating your good insight again. Well done.
Good to see this thread moving in a positive direction. Francis is putting out some great advice.

Timing is indeed critical, and through God's providence we can get lucky. Just as some people found tons of work and even got rich during the Great Depression, the individual is not absolutely bound to the general trends of his time. But that's why prayer and obedience is so important to get the timing right. Remember, all we need is to find one woman where all the right factors align.

Many Orthodox have had luck with praying to St. Xenia of Saint Petersburg as she is known for bringing people together. She once told a young virgin to go right away to the cemetery where "her husband was burying his wife". Confused, she went and indeed met a doctor who was burying his wife and ended up marrying him. God spoke through the saint to help the virgin.
 
So anytime anybody has different viewpoint to yours you then decide to take your bat and ball and go home? Its not a constructive way to have a dialogue. If somebody says something you don't agree with respectfully disagree and explain your reasoning and logic as to why you disagree. This is how discussions advance.

Well that's the thing dude, I'm not giving you an opinion I'm directly telling you how it is in my culture. It just isn't what you want to hear so you start saying stupid things like religion doesn't matter as if you would have any idea. I'm not going to waste my time trying to talk you out of that, if you have genuinely convinced yourself that is true then by all means have at it, good luck.
 
Well that's the thing dude, I'm not giving you an opinion I'm directly telling you how it is in my culture.
But we were having a discussion about conservative countries in general not a specific discussion of Chaldean culture. If we were talking only about Chaldeans then your point would be valid as I would have to defer to your in depth knowledge but as it stands you are making a straw man argument by extrapolating Chaldean culture onto every other conservative Christian culture.
 
But we were having a discussion about conservative countries in general not a specific discussion of Chaldean culture. If we were talking only about Chaldeans then your point would be valid as I would have to defer to your in depth knowledge but as it stands you are making a straw man argument by extrapolating Chaldean culture onto every other conservative Christian culture.

I was indeed very specifically talking about my culture and using that as the example, I directly mentioned it several times. Here is a post you yourself quoted to then try and say religion doesn't matter:

"Just telling you what I know to be true, I don't know how much I can speak for other cultures beyond just common old world similarities but being a non Christian is an automatic disqualification in my culture"



I'm not going to talk out of my ass and pretend like I know what I'm saying just because I met a random girl here or there that did this or that or because I read about it online.....you need to let that attitude go it obviously has not served you well thus far. It would benefit you to understand things beyond that, even if again it perhaps isn't what you want to hear.

I'm curious, what is your culture?
 
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We all knew that to attractive women, average looking and below average looking men are literally invisible or seen as being sub human. As in that they don't notice your presence or that they could walk into a shop and be served by an average looking dude and 5 minutes later would not be able to identify the dude in a police line up because they were paying zero attention. Its been discussed on the forum and by guys like Hoemath.

I have known this for a long time but I only recently came to the realization that average looking and below average looking women are also invisible to other women. Women only really pay attention to other women who are attractive with the rest being invisible.

In Australia its happened to me multiple times that when I meet women from countries where women are generally attractive (Argentina, Colombia, Spain, Netherlands, etc) and after a lengthy conversation I somehow brought up the topic that women from there country were a lot more attractive and that women in Australia on average are ugly and they are always like "no, that is not true there are a lot of beautiful women in Australia". Its as if they walk past 9 ugly women on the street and only notice the tenth girl that is beautiful and think Australia is full of beautiful women. Its like they literally do not register the existenc of those 9 ugly women they walk past before they see the 1 beautiful woman.

Literally women in Australia are so ugly that sometimes you have to walk around the center of Sydney for 20 minutes to even see one girl that is a 7. I am not even exaggerating. The only place that has a decent concentration of attractive women in Australia are the popular beaches that attract crowds of tourists and backpackers.
 
Why did I get a one week one ban? It was never properly explained to me.
 
There’s a lot of focus on the gendered dating market and social media as attention-seeking for women, and rightfully so, but there needs to be more on the ways the legal system is bending over backwards for women’s words, instead of stronger evidence:



I am a reluctant financial supporter of Candace so I can see all her content. It’s like weeding, getting rid of the regular wrong/overblown takes and her narcissism, but she’s more or less right about Weinstein - the actual evidence in the court cases was appallingly lackluster and bad.

The guy hates us, having offering to pour millions into an anti-Trump film to avoid the #MeToo avalanche coming for him. I am fully cognizant of how bad he was politically.

But that same system convicting an ogre like him with bad/no convincing evidence is the same system that screws fathers/divorcing husbands in family court, or preferences almost anything a woman says over a man’s ability to avoid being accused, arrested, convicted or imprisoned unless it’s justified.
 
But that's why prayer and obedience is so important to get the timing right. Remember, all we need is to find one woman where all the right factors align.
That is correct, the problem is the timing is far more critical for women and it is important in men because so few cultures (and it has been this way for decades now, and will continue at least 1-2 more) will be ok with particular pairings and/or age gaps.

But, please know that I don't understand the almost (seemingly to me) insecure need for so many men to have "companionship".
 
There’s a lot of focus on the gendered dating market and social media as attention-seeking for women, and rightfully so, but there needs to be more on the ways the legal system is bending over backwards for women’s words, instead of stronger evidence:



I am a reluctant financial supporter of Candace so I can see all her content. It’s like weeding, getting rid of the regular wrong/overblown takes and her narcissism, but she’s more or less right about Weinstein - the actual evidence in the court cases was appallingly lackluster and bad.

The guy hates us, having offering to pour millions into an anti-Trump film to avoid the #MeToo avalanche coming for him. I am fully cognizant of how bad he was politically.

But that same system convicting an ogre like him with bad/no convincing evidence is the same system that screws fathers/divorcing husbands in family court, or preferences almost anything a woman says over a man’s ability to avoid being accused, arrested, convicted or imprisoned unless it’s justified.


Harvey is the same ogre that BUILT that system back in the 80's and 90's with his political support and messaging. No sympathy for him.
 
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