The Destruction of Modern Women

That was more lighting in a bottle than a guaranteed recipe for success. The RVF took off at a time when traveling abroad for broads was all the rage. There is no guarantee that permitting that kind of thread here will grow this forum, especially since it doesn't have the same target audience as early RVF did.
So how do you explain the passport bro movement then? that is enjoying explosive growth.
 
People will claim it’s sex tourism.
The reality is the movement has hundreds of thousands of people which have mix of goals. It includes sex tourists/whore mongers, people looking for girlfriends, and people looking for wives. A lot of those passport bro movement guys have already gotten married.

This forums view that we should not have data sheets because some might use the information for the purpose of sex tourism is like saying you should not have knives in a kitchen in case somebody uses one of the knives to stab somebody else.
 
1 in 5 men under 25 are NEETs (not in employment, education, or training) and not looking for work either. Even in my parish I know a couple of NEETs. I'd say that's a pretty worrying sign.


How do these men support themselves? They must do some kind of work, even if it's just Rideshare/Doordash. Or selling drugs under the table. Where do they gain an income?

For men not to work, the effects are extremely negative and noticeable within a few years. With women avoiding families, the effect takes longer to manifest but the outcome is the same. Similar to an ant colony without a queen.

I've always assumed the NEET thing was about men who are not gainfully employed, not about working in general. Men who do not work have no way to eat or go homeless, and 25% of men are not homeless.

Remember, God doesn't care if one is "gainfully" employed or not. Paul made tents and Jesus was a carpenter. Peter was a fisherman. Simple, day to day work is enough to satisfy God's requirement to work.

It is women who want a million nice things, and want their men to make thousands of times more than what men made in the past, but God did not design women to be this way.
 
The reality is the movement has hundreds of thousands of people which have mix of goals. It includes sex tourists/whore mongers, people looking for girlfriends, and people looking for wives. A lot of those passport bro movement guys have already gotten married.

This forums view that we should not have data sheets because some might use the information for the purpose of sex tourism is like saying you should not have knives in a kitchen in case somebody uses one of the knives to stab somebody else.

Again, no one is preventing anyone from making data sheets. We have a thread titled, "Finding a wife abroad," and anyone can share their travel experiences if they want to. The rules here are not to promote sex tourism. Wife hunting is acceptable.

This is the 3rd time I've explained this to you, but you'd rather have a victim mindset.
 
How do these men support themselves? They must do some kind of work, even if it's just Rideshare/Doordash. Or selling drugs under the table. Where do they gain an income?

For men not to work, the effects are extremely negative and noticeable within a few years. With women avoiding families, the effect takes longer to manifest but the outcome is the same. Similar to an ant colony without a queen.

I've always assumed the NEET thing was about men who are not gainfully employed, not about working in general. Men who do not work have no way to eat or go homeless, and 25% of men are not homeless.

Remember, God doesn't care if one is "gainfully" employed or not. Paul made tents and Jesus was a carpenter. Peter was a fisherman. Simple, day to day work is enough to satisfy God's requirement to work.

It is women who want a million nice things, and want their men to make thousands of times more than what men made in the past, but God did not design women to be this way.
I'd imagine most of the NEETs are supported by their parents and live with them, as are the ones I've met. I'm not sure if they do any part time work, but if they do it's not enough to support themselves. Some of them had good jobs before like software engineering so may have some savings left.

These are not men living a glamorous lifestyle. They don't travel, they don't buy new cars or in many cases have cars at all, pretty much they spend nothing aside from the basics.

I've spent long stretches unemployed and it really sucks and starts to wear on you.
 
Most women choose to be single because they refuse to make even the smallest of compromises with men.
This is why resources cannot be easily/readily available to them. Look at S. Korea as a great example of what happens in fem chaos, and that's even an otherwise homogeneous and seemingly unified country with a weirdo would-be attacker at the northern border.
There is no guarantee that permitting that kind of thread here will grow this forum, especially since it doesn't have the same target audience as early RVF did.
No guarantee, but like this thread an option to make things more interesting.
It is women who want a million nice things, and want their men to make thousands of times more than what men made in the past, but God did not design women to be this way.
And yet God allowed all of this to happen, with the tech. I'm not blaming anyone but humans, I just find it interesting how frequently we brush past some pretty stark realities about this world.
We have a thread titled, "Finding a wife abroad," and anyone can share their travel experiences if they want to.
An important reminder.
 
This is why resources cannot be easily/readily available to them. Look at S. Korea as a great example of what happens in fem chaos, and that's even an otherwise homogeneous and seemingly unified country with a weirdo would-be attacker at the northern border.

I think the easiest way to deal with this in modern society is just to reduce or remove the income tax for married couples with children. Each child under 18 reduces the tax burden by 1/3, with 3 children being zero tax. Meanwhile childless unmarried women over 40 should pay 50-100% more tax.

There is an easy solution here with tax policy.

We'd also need to completely overhaul divorce laws. There is a modern solution that can apply ancient wisdom with women. Someday, it must happen. If not in our lifetimes then in successive generations, and the best gift we can give even if we die childless ourselves is to pass on this knowledge.

And yet God allowed all of this to happen, with the tech. I'm not blaming anyone but humans, I just find it interesting how frequently we brush past some pretty stark realities about this world.

God lets us stumble so that we may increase our faith. Like the prodigal son who loses everything, ultimately he regains his soul and lives by turning back to God (which is represented by the father). If he didn't stumble, he wouldn't have regained his faith.

Likewise for God it is worthwhile that we suffer from our free will if it means we ultimately learn to love and reunite with God.

For this reason many Saints prayed for war and hardship, so that they could stumble and learn to increase their faith.
 
I've always assumed the NEET thing was about men who are not gainfully employed, not about working in general. Men who do not work have no way to eat or go homeless, and 25% of men are not homeless.
A massive percentage of them live with their parents and do not pay any household expenses and probably work intermittently for pocket money. For example they might work for 3 months at McDonalds and save up some money (because they live for free with their parents) and then the other 9 months they can sit at home and play video games. And according to the stats when they are asked during that 9 month period they are unemployed.
 
The rules here are not to promote sex tourism.
Here we get to the heart of the matter that this is open to interpretation and a handful of vocal members on the forum view everything as sex tourism. If you so much as kiss the girl before marriage then you are a sex tourist according to them despite those hypocrites having a long personal history of their own fornication.

There needs to be greater clarity from the forum mods about what constitutes promotion of sex tourism. To my mind as long as nobody is explicitly talking about fornication (or sexual experiences) or how to meet women specifically only for the purpose of fornication etc then its not promotion of sex tourism.
 
Just to give an example of this in real life I recently cold approached this very attractive girl who was Indian (she was one of those rare Indian women that are attractive). She did not look obviously Indian and she told me many people ask if she is South American.

She was born in Australia to Indian parents. She was 23.

She had an "artsy" lifestyle and did freelance work in the movie production process
or some such. Her life was focused on her work and she basically told me she had a friends with benefits who was a black Brazilian guy she met off hinge which she meets up with every two weeks for sex and she wasn't interested in any relationship because she is "too busy for that". She told me when she turns 28 she will look for an Indian man to marry and she said her parents will introduce her to various men and she can choose the one she likes. She was a Punjabi Sikh. Can you imagine how ran through this girl probably already is? I am sure her notch count is already double digit and by the time she turns 28 it will probably be at 50+ and I pity the poor Indian simp who ends up marrying this harlot.
Do young women you cold approach often tell you their entire life story, including detailed biographical information, the particulars of their sex life and their long-term strategy for marriage?

I'm not calling you a liar, but this scenario is quite odd in my experience, and reads more like boilerplate womanhating fan fiction from an incel forum than an actual real-life interaction. You will need to provide further details of this encounter explaining why a young woman who (presumably) rejected your cold approach also felt comfortable enough to share such intimate details about her life with you, a total stranger.

If your explanation is not judged as credible by myself and your fellow forum members, you will receive a warning.
 
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Do young women you cold approach often tell you their entire life story, including detailed biographical information, the particulars of their sex life and their long-term strategy for marriage?

I'm not calling you a liar, but this scenario is quite odd in my experience, and reads more like boilerplate womanhating fan fiction from an incel forum than an actual real-life interaction. You will need to provide further details of this encounter explaining why a young woman who (presumably) rejected your cold approach also felt comfortable enough to share such intimate details about her life with you, a total stranger.

If your explanation is not judged as credible by myself and your fellow forum members, you will receive a warning.
I was sitting on the park bench next to her and we had a good hour long conversation while she was waiting for her date to show up (I did not know that when the conversation started obviously).

We talked about a range of different topics including travel, her work, my Indian acquaintances in Australia, how many times she had been to India and if she spoke Hindi and Punjabi my own ethnic background, why I don't social media, etc. She was very talkative and outgoing around 10 or 15 minutes into the conversation I asked her if she had a boyfriend and she said no. I then asked for her number and she told me no because she was dating somebody. I then asked how long she had known this guy for and she said only 2 months and they had only been on a few dates so I then I inquired further if they were not committed why she wouldn't accept my invitation for a date. She said she is not looking for anything serious doesn't have time for that etc and only sees this guy once every two weeks for companionship. She literally used the word companionship. I then asked if they were friends with benefits and she said yes. I asked her how she met this guy and she told me she met him from Hinge and I poked fun at her how her generation would not be able to cope without modern technology and social media etc.

At some point during the long conversation I asked her if she ever planned on getting married and she told me about the whole arranged marriage thing etc. I asked her what she thought of arranged marriages and she said she wasn't opposed and it seemed to have worked out well for her parents. Plus she told me when she is older she would be presented with various suitors chosen by her parents and she would pick from those. I pointed out that it worked out well for them because they did not have western mentality and it might not work out so well for her because she grew up in Australia and had a western mentality.

And to answer your first question no its not common for women to tell me their whole life story but she was one of those talkative open book type of people plus my game is pretty decent and I come across as non threatening and know the right questions to ask so there will be a small percentage of women who really open up. If you talk to hundreds of women a year there might be 3 or 4 that open up and tell you their whole life story. But no it certainly does not happen every day.

I am happy to provide more specific details if you have further questions.
 
I recently approached a Brazilian woman who literally turned out to be a prostitute (she told me via a whatsapp message the next day that she is a prostitute). That was literally the first time in Australia I had approached a woman who later admitted to being a literal prostitute.

You have to remember I live in Sydney. That is like living in New York or London. The level of degeneracy here is extremely high.
 
Nip it in the bud!

We need to stop that kind of rot from infesting this forum!

It will spread till there is nothing left!
I posted an actual example of a real life interaction with a modern woman instead of a generic complaint and I get this in response. There is no pleasing some people. If you don't like the thread just click the ignore button.
 
I met a group of Spanish women today. They were a bunch of complete and utter cunts but that seems to be the norm with Spanish women. Although to be fair I have only met one Spanish woman in my entire who wasn't a complete and utter cunt but she was the daughter of an international businessman and had lived in multiple countries and spent more of her life in foreign countries than Spain so she didn't seem to have the typical Spanish mindset.
 
I was sitting on the park bench next to her and we had a good hour long conversation while she was waiting for her date to show up (I did not know that when the conversation started obviously).

We talked about a range of different topics including travel, her work, my Indian acquaintances in Australia, how many times she had been to India and if she spoke Hindi and Punjabi my own ethnic background, why I don't social media, etc. She was very talkative and outgoing around 10 or 15 minutes into the conversation I asked her if she had a boyfriend and she said no. I then asked for her number and she told me no because she was dating somebody. I then asked how long she had known this guy for and she said only 2 months and they had only been on a few dates so I then I inquired further if they were not committed why she wouldn't accept my invitation for a date. She said she is not looking for anything serious doesn't have time for that etc and only sees this guy once every two weeks for companionship. She literally used the word companionship. I then asked if they were friends with benefits and she said yes. I asked her how she met this guy and she told me she met him from Hinge and I poked fun at her how her generation would not be able to cope without modern technology and social media etc.

At some point during the long conversation I asked her if she ever planned on getting married and she told me about the whole arranged marriage thing etc. I asked her what she thought of arranged marriages and she said she wasn't opposed and it seemed to have worked out well for her parents. Plus she told me when she is older she would be presented with various suitors chosen by her parents and she would pick from those. I pointed out that it worked out well for them because they did not have western mentality and it might not work out so well for her because she grew up in Australia and had a western mentality.

And to answer your first question no its not common for women to tell me their whole life story but she was one of those talkative open book type of people plus my game is pretty decent and I come across as non threatening and know the right questions to ask so there will be a small percentage of women who really open up. If you talk to hundreds of women a year there might be 3 or 4 that open up and tell you their whole life story. But no it certainly does not happen every day.

I am happy to provide more specific details if you have further questions.

You yourself don't have a problem with sex before marriage, I'm not judging I'm no saint just making a point. The girl turned you down because she isn't looking for multiple partners. You're Indian yourself apparently so you know how the arranged marriage stuff works, that shouldn't be any kind of surprise. You also didn't get married young either.

What did this girl do exactly that makes her so terrible in comparison to yourself? Because she turned you down? You were interested in her you even kept pushing after she turned you down more than once explaining she was dating someone, if she hadn't turned you down and taken you up on your offer and then was dating multiple guys would you have then called her a nice girl? Then coming on here to tell us about this nice girl you met instead of this "ran through" girl because she turned you down? Even talking about the other guys race while you were an Indian guy trying to pick up girls in Eastern Europe.

Sounds a lot like your adventures overseas where you were frustrated you couldn't pick up any "dates" and called the guys they are with losers in comparison to yourself. You left the west to get away from western women but then became upset that they didn't act like western women.

Assuming the story is real there is definitely a bit of hypocrisy in your assessment of this girl don't you think? The more you talk it sounds like your issue isn't with the behavior of western women it's that western women don't behave that way for you specifically.
 
The easiest way to meet women is through shared interests, especially if it has to with church or a Bible study.

I've tried walking up to random women and it's usually not worth it my opinion. The only times I was actually interested is if they have something with them to talk about, like a Bible or maybe a dog. Or if I've already noticed them before in a coffee shop or someplace similar.
 
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