I'm in Georgia, originally in Tbilisi, now in a smaller town. Would rather not say which since Georgia is basically one big village already and I'm the only westerner in this town so it'd make my identity even more obvious.
Finding a traditional wife abroad
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I'm in Georgia, originally in Tbilisi, now in a smaller town. Would rather not say which since Georgia is basically one big village already and I'm the only westerner in this town so it'd make my identity even more obvious.
Thanks was just interested in general location. Its amazing what a culture and country dedicated to being religious can bring about.
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How is Iceland not the most inbred country on the map? They used to have an app to determine whether a potential mate was related.
There is a good book written by an Orthodox monk called "Christ the Eternal Tao", which I can recommend. God revealed Himself to the whole world in various ways but only completely through Abraham-Isaac-Jacob....through Jesus Christ. I believe St. Paul said in his epistle to the Romans that we will be judged by the Light that was given us. However nice that sounds, that puts a huge onus on Christians, particularly the Orthodox, who have the fullness of the Faith.
This is a key point which a lot of guys on this forum do not want to admit because it hurts their egos.
I'm happy for you mate but that last paragraph is just not how the world works anymore unfortunately.
What countries are you looking at if you don't mind me asking?
I feel like the following countries may have potential and be worth investigating for me (in no particular order):
-Belarus
-Ukraine (once the war ends)
-Russia (once the war ends)
-Poland
-Moldova
-Romania
-Armenia
-Georgia
Potentially other countries could be added to the list later but for now I think its a decent starting list to investigate (boots on the ground).
Ladies,
I'm just a humble man with humble needs.
Are you a traditional woman that values loyalty, heart, and God above all? You are?
Great, because life can be as simple as that. See you soon.
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I'm just a humble man with humble needs.
Are you a traditional woman that values loyalty, heart, and God above all? You are?
Great, because life can be as simple as that. See you soon.
View attachment Humble.mp4
Posting here to not derail the Russia thread. I just wanted to stress the importance of making male friends. This "skill" will do more for you than anything else. Once you get the approval and support of a male group, thread women will embrace you and there will be no "shame" or doubt on her part. Plus, you'll naturally have a good time.
And let's be honest, you won't get your ass kicked.
Definitely an additional benefit
“Conservative” white woman hating on passport bros.
I could care less about the opinion of such females. After having now experienced what it's like to have a Serbian girlfriend, I can honestly say I will never go back to a western(ized) woman.
She actually has a career, yet she still cooks, cleans, asks genuine questions, never stresses me out. Her sisters and the majority of her friends are still in relationships with their high school sweethearts. Thus, there are no friends encouraging her to be promiscuous etc.
I'm not saying I'm going to be with her forever, but I'm surely not going anywhere near westernized women again in pursuit of love.
We've discussed this before. Due to the language requirements, Serbs/Yugoslavs aren't an option for pretty much all foreigners. But I'm just saying that once you enter the non feminist world, you find women you really enjoy being around. Whether that's in Russia, Slovakia, somewhere in Asia or LATAM doesn't matter.
She actually has a career, yet she still cooks, cleans, asks genuine questions, never stresses me out. Her sisters and the majority of her friends are still in relationships with their high school sweethearts. Thus, there are no friends encouraging her to be promiscuous etc.
I'm not saying I'm going to be with her forever, but I'm surely not going anywhere near westernized women again in pursuit of love.
We've discussed this before. Due to the language requirements, Serbs/Yugoslavs aren't an option for pretty much all foreigners. But I'm just saying that once you enter the non feminist world, you find women you really enjoy being around. Whether that's in Russia, Slovakia, somewhere in Asia or LATAM doesn't matter.
Its not just the language barrier though. Balkanites are very racist and rarely date outside their race even if they speak fluent English or you speak their language fluently. How did you resolve this (racism) issue? Also did you meet the Serbian girl in Serbia? Are you staying with her in Serbia? Usually if you move a traditional girl to a western country she gets poisoned quickly.
That's why I said requirement, not barrier. They generally speak solid English, but when it comes to intimate relationships they want to speak their language and want you to be able to talk to their parents and family members.
As for the "racism" issue. Their preference for their own is definitely real. I'd say in terms of preference when it comes to women they like their own first and foremost and then other Christian Yugoslavs.
But I just feel so integrated that I don't feel too many limitations when it comes to dating. I genuinely enjoy talking to those women.
To be honest, in my experience when a girl chooses to speak English instead of Serbian it actually ruins everything for me personally.
Yes, I met her in Serbia, but I'm not there full time. She has no interest in moving to the west, despite nice job offers she has received.
How good is your Serbian, do you speak it better than the locals speak English? Did you already speak another Slavic language?
In places like Novi Sad or Belgrade, I have the impression it's hard to learn Serbian because everyone speaks decent English so you have to be really motivated.
Same deal with, for example, learning Romanian in Bucharest or Greek in Athens. Every urban young person these days speaks decent English in EE. Aside from the Russian speaking countries.
I agree with your assessment. In Belgrade it depends on who I'm with. If I'm hanging out with just one friend who either works in the US market or spent a year or so in an English speaking country, then we'll usually speak English. However, if we hang out in groups or when I go to bars or restaurants, we'll always speak Serbian.
In Novi Sad I usually speak Serbian exclusively, just like in Niš. Some people ask me if we can speak English, because they would like to practice.
And, yes, Russians surely are the exception when it comes to English proficiency. Even among the younger ones many know 5 to 10 English words at best.
Haven't heard been there but I heard that outside of Moscow and St Petersburg, English is basically non-existent. But France, Italy and especially Spain can also be really tough for English speakers too. You can meet big city dwellers in their 20s there who don't speak a single word.