Didn't they used to teach diction in school? I could have used some of that training, but was instead a victim of the upstate New York accent for many years. I know I have to talk slower in order to not slur too many words when I talk, and speaking with a confident tone doesn't come natural to me (avoiding that rising inflection thing). I also struggle to not sound monotone and dry. And, furthermore, when I've heard recordings of myself I feel like I sound like I'm always ready to say something smart or sarcastic.
Agreed, but I feel like I sound like I have this "I don't take anything seriously" tone in my voice I can't do anything about. I am an awfully cynical, sarcastic, and dry-humored person so maybe it has become me.Sarcasm is this country's 2nd language.
Always keep your bathroom ventilated never have a dryer on in a confined space in your house as this will create mold growth which can stifle muscle growth and it can even cause your kids to be shorter in adult life than they would be if not being affected by this crappy mould or whatever else this inhibits. Best to get a wood heater and have a window open on a crack.
This stuff can also happen in hot climates where things go swampy around your place.
That's why it might be frosty outside but I always keep a window on a crack instead of insulating ourselves completely, also helps a bit from dying from carbon monoxide poisoning.
Insulation is great just make sure there's enough for you to breath from.
True, I checked out Zillow while I was there…1000 sq Ft homes with minimal yard on the lakes start around $600k+ (2000sq Ft homes quickly go well over a mil.). Go away from the lake just 1 mile or 2 into the woods/farmland and a 2000 sq Ft home with an acre goes for a very low $200k-$300k. I have a friend that has a home/small farm in this region and we talked a while about the local economy, NY taxes and how all the jobs are pretty much tied to tourism industry (so they struggle financially basically) and construction/home repair for the millionaire homes on lakes. Seems the homes in the rural backroads around northern sections of the finger lakes (locals) do better as perhaps they have more job opportunities in Rochester and Syracuse.Finger Lakes region is hard to make a determination as it was gentrified a while ago and the super rich are the ones who own the mansions that ring the lakes.
I have definitely seen for a number of years that younger soy boy men can have a gayish voice even though I know they are straight. I first observed this over 10 years ago, so many of these men are already in their mid 30s, and may have already had professional success and are making good money.True, I checked out Zillow while I was there…1000 sq Ft homes with minimal yard on the lakes start around $600k+ (2000sq Ft homes quickly go well over a mil.). Go away from the lake just 1 mile or 2 into the woods/farmland and a 2000 sq Ft home with an acre goes for a very low $200k-$300k. I have a friend that has a home/small farm in this region and we talked a while about the local economy, NY taxes and how all the jobs are pretty much tied to tourism industry (so they struggle financially basically) and construction/home repair for the millionaire homes on lakes. Seems the homes in the rural backroads around northern sections of the finger lakes (locals) do better as perhaps they have more job opportunities in Rochester and Syracuse.
But I digress, still not sure why all the “upspeak” and gay talk by men I heard while there.
I noticed that even for job interviews people rarely wear suits anymore unless it’s for an office job. Even just as little as 20 years ago you could see heaps of guys rocking up to job interviews even for places like Target wearing a suit.I don't know if this is a weird thing, nor a recent thing, but I've been watching some older movies (50s) and it recently struck me how elegant and formal everyone is always dressed. While those days have been gone since the boomers came of age, I wonder if we'll ever go back to that as a society. Are we now forever doomed to the sloppy or sexy look? Elegance seems rare, and you're either in really good shape or not in shape at all. I wonder if anyone has done a cultural study on a correlation between the decline of a civilization and the way the masses dress.
I know I'm stretching it since they changed the word gay in other translations, but you maybe this was a hint that the rich would be kinda gay in this era?Finger Lakes region is hard to make a determination as it was gentrified a while ago and the super rich are the ones who own the mansions that ring the lakes.
Funnily enough, my more successful interviews were always when I wore a suit. It seems we aren't the only ones to miss it.I noticed that even for job interviews people rarely wear suits anymore unless it’s for an office job. Even just as little as 20 years ago you could see heaps of guys rocking up to job interviews even for places like Target wearing a suit.
Very true. It works for women too. My ex worked at one of those big, luxury department stores in a high end mall. When I'd come to pick her up from work I'd often see obese women spending big money on expensive clothes, make up, jewelry, and hand bags. It always boggled my mind because it was almost literally putting make up a pig, as the expression goes. A girl who lifts weights, does some yoga, and eats right would have looked 1000x better than any of them in a simple t-shirt and jeans with no make up, but that's a lot harder than just pulling out that credit card.I shall also mention, a lot of soy boys and young men these days look like clowns or kids playing dress-up when they try to wear good clothes. I know they say the clothes make the man, but no amount of good clothing will make overweight, soft, round-faced, neck-bearded babyfaces look masculine and elegant.
I recently took a vacation to upstate NY (FingerLakes tourist region).
Moat tourists are from NYC and NJ in the Finger Lakes and Ithaca region.Is this a symptom of the social engineering of living in an extremely liberal state perhaps?
I just woke up from a dream I can remember, which is rare. I was in some town where I was staying, not sure why. There was a store with a lunch counter that I would go to, and this time I got to the store and went in.
I walked past a bathroom and noticed someone had stunk it up. I figured they must not have a fan in there. Then I went a little farther and realized they had ripped out the lunch counter area entirely. I was looking around then noticing the changes and saw they had actually just moved the lunch counter and it was now down at the end of the store area.
Here's the kicker. As I was walking through the store, there was a country song playing, with a woman singing about how her youngest kid was now getting older and out of the house, and how happy she was that she would have more freedom to get out and do things.
I barely noticed the song as I was looking around at the store and the changes to the lunch counter. Then the chorus came on and the hook lyric was "the last child on my knee". I thought that was a catchy hook like country songs often have. Then I woke up.
I still had the chorus running in my head as I woke up, and realized it wasn't a song I've ever heard. I just looked it up and sure enough there's no song like that.
It's amazing the amount of detail and background story that can get built into dreams. My dream included a completely new country song with a catchy tune and lyrics, just as background filler where it wasn't even what the dream was about.
I'm often surprised at the storylines my dreams contain. My mind starts spinning out all these settings, situations, story lines, and even lines of thought where drowsy daydreams start turning into full sleeping dreams. All with full sound and visuals, emotions, drama, surprise plot twists, etc. Storylines with all kinds of fictional settings, not just variations on my real life.
I call it my dream generator, which seems to start producing tons of content like my own internal AI as soon as I start to doze off, most of which I barely remember for a second when I wake up. I wish I could harness this and make them into movies. Or hit country songs!