The Destruction of Modern Women

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I assume the "who wants to tell her" has to do with the guy possibly already having a girlfriend and now testing this other woman out, a male version of monkey branching?

I still find Hoemath's visual on men who are 7s and below as "not people" to be incredibly helpful. This woman is asking "are men not putting in the effort anymore" when in reality she is asking "are attractive, desirable men I want not putting in the effort?" It's such a nice heuristic because I come across a lot of videos or things online where women are addressing "men."

 

[eradicator]

I assume the "who wants to tell her" has to do with the guy possibly already having a girlfriend and now testing this other woman out, a male version of monkey branching?

I still find Hoemath's visual on men who are 7s and below as "not people" to be incredibly helpful. This woman is asking "are men not putting in the effort anymore" when in reality she is asking "are attractive, desirable men I want not putting in the effort?" It's such a nice heuristic because I come across a lot of videos or things online where women are addressing "men."

I’m pretty sure the “who wants to tell her” , refers to that she is no longer in the 18 to 25 range of desirable women. Or heck, you can make the argument that women under 30 or even under 35 can still be pretty hot, and will not have a shortage of men actively pursuing them.

In this case, the man she is pursuing, she’s pretty far down on his roster, for obvious reasons. He considered her as an option for casual sex, so long as he has to put zero effort into the meet ups. That’s her reality.