The Destruction of Modern Women



This post is gold. So many people want to sugarcoat marriage as fine.

Even on this forum people deep down believe “marital rape” should be illegal (Which comes from feminism). It’s quite disgusting how so called Christians can accept taxes or sodomites but when hearing about husbands forcing themselves upon their wives will be fine with the Jewish government stepping in.
 
One thing I've noticed is a lot of these evangelical churches have some horrible people. These tradcon women are either phonies or insufferable and have delusional standards. I've seen some of these women turn down Godly men that are 6'3+, own their own homes and have the money to get a tradwife. Basically everything these "trad" women are saying they want. Sometimes these women will even try to embarrass a guy for asking them out or make up stories about them. And the out of touch older men/pastors at these churches enable all of this nonsense.

You can certainly find nice women at church too, but it's not nearly as simple as these cuckservative older guys are making it seem. In my experience the odds are pretty similar to the secular world. Some of the nicest, most humble women I've met are actually secular. I'd rather ask them out than some psycho wannabe "tradwife" that grew up in the church. The right woman will want to follow your lead anyway and would end up going to church with you. They don't need to have grown up going to church.

The modern world really is a clown show. Not just with dating, but also work, the housing market, our culture in general, etc.
 
The modern world really is a clown show. Not just with dating, but also work, the housing market, our culture in general, etc.
I think you left out forum members who have this “shut up and stop complaining” mindset. The entire “no doom posting” rule is an excuse they use in order to avoid addressing modern grievances, and it’s compounded with the little “thumbs up” to each others.

Edit: I should add being 100% negative is bad but it’s understandable in this declining world. I suppose a healthy balance is difficult.
 
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I think you left out forum members who have this “shut up and stop complaining” mindset. The entire “no doom posting” rule is an excuse they use in order to avoid addressing modern grievances, and it’s compounded with the little “thumbs up” to each others.

Edit: I should add being 100% negative is bad but it’s understandable in this declining world. I suppose a healthy balance is difficult.
Yeah definitely. I'm not giving up or anything, but I've learned over the last few years that it's better to avoid at least 90% of people, men included. And that churches are just as insane as the secular world.

I'm also getting smarter at which women to talk to, but the only way to learn is trial and error.
 
Yeah definitely. I'm not giving up or anything, but I've learned over the last few years that it's better to avoid at least 90% of people, men included. And that churches are just as insane as the secular world.

I'm also getting smarter at which women to talk to, but the only way to learn is trial and error.
God gives us opportunities for spiritual growth through the people with whom we interact and we are saved corporately, not individually.
 
One thing I've noticed is a lot of these evangelical churches have some horrible people. These tradcon women are either phonies or insufferable and have delusional standards. I've seen some of these women turn down Godly men that are 6'3+, own their own homes and have the money to get a tradwife. Basically everything these "trad" women are saying they want. Sometimes these women will even try to embarrass a guy for asking them out or make up stories about them. And the out of touch older men/pastors at these churches enable all of this nonsense.

You can certainly find nice women at church too, but it's not nearly as simple as these cuckservative older guys are making it seem. In my experience the odds are pretty similar to the secular world. Some of the nicest, most humble women I've met are actually secular. I'd rather ask them out than some psycho wannabe "tradwife" that grew up in the church. The right woman will want to follow your lead anyway and would end up going to church with you. They don't need to have grown up going to church.

The modern world really is a clown show. Not just with dating, but also work, the housing market, our culture in general, etc.

I tend to agree. I will watch young women at church with the wonder if they would make a good future wife for my son. Many actions in their teens will be amplified in their 20s when they feel the whole world at their feet. Perhaps marriage was meant to stop this craziness, but culture has made them the normal rather than the exception.

Also finding a good woman who is not a Christian is just an opportunity to lead her. My wife wasn't a Christian when we met but is now on the path and is much happier for it. I would guess that it would be easier to lead a good woman to Christ than it would be for you to try and lead a Christian woman back who has wandered astray.
 
Also finding a good woman who is not a Christian is just an opportunity to lead her. My wife wasn't a Christian when we met but is now on the path and is much happier for it. I would guess that it would be easier to lead a good woman to Christ than it would be for you to try and lead a Christian woman back who has wandered astray.
You found her outside the west though, no? Or was she a recent immigrant?
 
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