One thing I've noticed is a lot of these evangelical churches have some horrible people. These tradcon women are either phonies or insufferable and have delusional standards. I've seen some of these women turn down Godly men that are 6'3+, own their own homes and have the money to get a tradwife. Basically everything these "trad" women are saying they want. Sometimes these women will even try to embarrass a guy for asking them out or make up stories about them. And the out of touch older men/pastors at these churches enable all of this nonsense.
You can certainly find nice women at church too, but it's not nearly as simple as these cuckservative older guys are making it seem. In my experience the odds are pretty similar to the secular world. Some of the nicest, most humble women I've met are actually secular. I'd rather ask them out than some psycho wannabe "tradwife" that grew up in the church. The right woman will want to follow your lead anyway and would end up going to church with you. They don't need to have grown up going to church.
The modern world really is a clown show. Not just with dating, but also work, the housing market, our culture in general, etc.
