It's my view that the doctrine of predestination is something that needs to be acknowledged yet it can't be spoken of too little. Whether someone is far away from God, seeking God, or resting in a relationship with Him, they ought focus their mind on repentance and clinging to Christ. In heaven the redeemed can talk about the elect and the reprobates; in this world men and women shouldn't focus on what God has hidden. No one truly knows who the elect are until they reach heaven.
Scripture teaches that God is sovereign, and that faith is a gift, but it also teaches that God appeals to our reason and our will or agency to choose life.
I call heaven and earth to record this day against you that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing. Therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live. (Deuteronomy)
Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool. (Isaiah)
Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
(Ezekial)