Relocating to Southeast Asia

Tons of western women working/volunteering in various ministries/NGOs.

Sounds great.

I wish it were true, I am skeptical. But you have to know who you are, and it doesn't matter for me, as I won't be going there regardless. If I do, somebody slap me, because it would be to see how 3rd world it is and see the WGF in action, which I'd rather not be tempted.
 
Sounds great.

And as far as language barrier when dealing with locals, is it okay? I met a few Filipino man here in the States and it is hard to understand what they're saying. And they're supposedly here for many years. Do I need to check my ears or they speak a broken English?
There is definitely a language barrier, unless you strictly hang out with upper middle class and above folks. Even then the accent can take a while to get used to, but for just getting around its fine. Just slow down and lower your expectations. Don't be in a hurry or on a tight timeline/schedule and it'll be great!
 
Sounds great.

And as far as language barrier when dealing with locals, is it okay? I met a few Filipino man here in the States and it is hard to understand what they're saying. And they're supposedly here for many years. Do I need to check my ears or they speak a broken English?
Another myth perpetuated, the vast majority of Filipinos have terrible english, you have no idea. You really think , they are getting down and dirty, with their own kind, in English?!!, absolutely not.. they are speaking in their local dialect or tagalog, there's over 100 different dialects. No problem, for guys like, me , I can understand the vast majority of Tagalog, and can speak to a conversational level. And it may not always be because they cannot speak it decently. But again you must know the culture. They are extremely embarassed to speak english incorrectly, or grammatically incorrect, it's very common for Filipinos to bully each other from a young age for speaking English incorrectly. So they will not dare have a legitimate conversation with a foreigner, in the case of losing face, unless they are confident in their ability. That's reality, 80-90% will not have a conversation with you, may as well be in Vietnam, or Thailand or wherever, it's no different. Yes you can find some that will speak english though
 
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