At least we live in a low-property tax state. Property taxes aren't that bad here.If your buddy's house costs $1m, it means he is paying annual property taxes on a million dollar home (that's tens of thousands of dollars every year for the same house he owns today) and if he wants to move, he will need over a million dollars to afford a larger home, will probably need to finance the purchase (see above) and will probably owe taxes on the "gain" lol
Yeah, it's not a "real" win. It does benefit people slightly in the sense that your debt becomes worth less. But ultimately your house is a drain on your finances, it's an expense and not something that provides cashflow.The only person rising housing prices makes sense for is someone like me who plans on exiting the US and moving to a place where $400,000 can buy you a mansion with a pool and daily chef and maid service. And I'm not happy about the rising prices.
I mean, don't get me wrong, owning a house when prices are rapidly rising is better than just being stuck paying rent, but it's a hedge or a way of coping with a bad situation; it's not a positive thing for anyone except banks and governments.
TL;DR if your friends house is worth a million dollars he is not any wealthier than he is today; probably less so.
By contrast it sounds like both you and I are real estate investors; if you have debt becoming worth less on a cash-flowing asset, you are set up to do pretty well.