Positivity, Good News Only Thread

I've attended 3 funerals in the past 5 months. I'm being trained on how to conduct funerals. This sounds weird, but I'm coming to enjoy funerals because one can give a lot of comfort to those of the deceased and people really appreciate it. I understand why clergy do not have the same expressions of sadness, death is but a part of God's great design and we will meet our loved ones again someday. Seeing death frequently complete changes your view of it.
 
I had a peculiar philosophy teacher at high school. Lapsed Catholic graduating in theology, but very liberal when he talks about politics. Hated his job as much as he loved it, and would break character as a teacher all the time, with very real talks. There's something to admire in a school teacher in Brazil gaining minimum wage, on a garbage city, and just going along.

His classes on the philosophy of death were very interesting. I still remember them to this day. More because of his view of it, which he claims to "reflect on every day."
There's more to it, but it's a long story. I'll probably have a chat with him eventually about theology type stuff, if he is still around. And thank him for shamelessly giving me a 10 on my last semester just to not have to write more tests (I did literally nothing).
 
I visited a church in another town today. I communed and the sermon hit me. God blessed me with the tears that I asked for, during the liturgy, and even after when talking with someone dear. A hieromonk and nun were visiting as well for the patronal feast. Just seeing and being around the monk's simplicity and childlikeness, while yet being elderly, pierced to my soul and gave me a strange happiness; as I observed many things, even the way he walked. Today, someone who I pray for unexpectedly asked for forgiveness.
 
I've attended 3 funerals in the past 5 months. I'm being trained on how to conduct funerals. This sounds weird, but I'm coming to enjoy funerals because one can give a lot of comfort to those of the deceased and people really appreciate it. I understand why clergy do not have the same expressions of sadness, death is but a part of God's great design and we will meet our loved ones again someday. Seeing death frequently complete changes your view of it.

I hate funerals. I think the worst part is comforting a crying friend. There is nothing you can say to make them feel better and only time will calm them. If possible, I rather not go.
 
I hate funerals. I think the worst part is comforting a crying friend. There is nothing you can say to make them feel better and only time will calm them. If possible, I rather not go.
I only went to one, and that was for a grandmother or aunt that I did not talk to much, outside of when I went to her city (a few times). No one cried much, if at all. I don't know if that was just my family or something, but I remember her being an old lady who never did much in the first place, outside of calmly waiting the Lord while watching Catholic cable TV at home on an old people chair. No kids or husband from what I could tell, but she was a big part of the house.

Overall I liked it. It was sort of a family meetup for a side of my family I don't talk to. Cemeteries are a place I never really went much to, so that was something interesting as well.
I was never the go to guy for comforting someone, however.
 
I hate funerals. I think the worst part is comforting a crying friend. There is nothing you can say to make them feel better and only time will calm them. If possible, I rather not go.
A friend of mine died young, I was a wreck at his memorial. Two friends came and didn't really comfort me at all, but they just sat next to me and acknowledged my pain. They didn't know the guy half as well as me -- they came for me, and now we will be friends until death.
 
I've attended 3 funerals in the past 5 months. I'm being trained on how to conduct funerals. This sounds weird, but I'm coming to enjoy funerals because one can give a lot of comfort to those of the deceased and people really appreciate it. I understand why clergy do not have the same expressions of sadness, death is but a part of God's great design and we will meet our loved ones again someday. Seeing death frequently complete changes your view of it.
Well spoken. I relate fully.

Some time ago I was at a funeral where they ended the mass with "In Paradisum" by Faure/



It ends with the words.

Chorus angelorum te suscipiat, et cum Lazaro quondam paupere æternam habeas requiem.

May choirs of angels receive you and with Lazarus, once a poor man, may you have eternal rest.

Thinking about it again, gives me goosebumps. It touches something profound for me.
The eternal kingdom is very different from what we often see on earth.

Wishing our deceased to be with Lazarus. The beggar sitting at the rich mans door. May them be together.

Beautiful.

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Orthodox funerals are beautiful. The whole focus of the worship service is on God, not the one who had passed. There are other Orthodox that can explain this better as I've only attended a few services.

We bless and serve a traditional wheat-berry/nut/honey dish called koliva. It is decorated with a cross of almonds and powdered sugar and with a burning candle in the center. It is a reminder that a grain of wheat is buried in the ground before it can grow. We sing the traditional and moving hymn "Memory Eternal", may the deceased be remembered eternally, in the mind of God.
 
I've been unemployed for 5 1/2 months, applying frequently, getting only about 6 interviews during these months despite my resume being good... but I got a job offer for labor/installation job now! During this time of unemployment there have been two times where an anonymous envelope was in a crack of the outside of my car with cash that gave me the ability to cook food and get gas. A friend from my parish has bought me a gym membership and said he'll keep on paying for it, so it's motivated me to spend more time there :)
 
I got a small salary increase (to $120k). My company treats me well and the coworkers are great.

Not long ago I was not making much money and most of my savings were wasted surviving the pandemic (months without working).
Now I feel financially secure. Making good money and not spending much. Trying to find hobbies.
 
I keep a gratitude journal where I write down one thing every day i for which I am grateful. This has been a blessing in itself:

Even though I write it down in the evening, this practice has made me more aware of blessings throughout the day. For instance I could write about having a comfortable home or I could write about the feel of the warm sun on my face as a cool breeze passes by, or, having a loving family, or just pausing to listen to the musical songbird out my window.

This habit encourages me to reflect back on the day to find something positive and happy, even when I don't feel it.

It's so easy to forget our blessings while we're having a bad day or major crises. This journal of memories of good things, good times, will be a comfort.
 
We tend to focus on the negative here... and its no wonder why... we've watched in amazement as clown world has quickly devolved into the absurd. It was tolerable and slightly amusing when men wanted to marry other men. It was even more amusing when some of them soon wanted to get divorced... but the amusing has slid into the absurdity of mentally ill men pretending to be women and beating up women in combat sports.
We know its not sustainable and I think we are at the edge. Whether it be the economic/monetary systems, the green energy/climate change fraud or the DEI fiasco... I think we are about to start seeing these far left hardcore liberal ideals get pimp slapped back into reality... and I want to celebrate that here.

To start - it was only a matter of time before a current university "education" and degree became worthless to prospective employers.

Elite higher education in America — long unquestioned as globally preeminent — is facing a perfect storm.
Fewer applicants, higher costs, impoverished students, collapsing standards, and increasingly politicized and mediocre faculty reflect a collapse of the university system.
The country is waking up to the reality that a bachelor’s degree no longer equates with graduates being broadly educated and analytical. Just as often, they are stereotyped as pampered, largely ignorant, and gratuitously opinionated.
No wonder polls show a drastic loss of public respect for higher education and, specifically, a growing lack of confidence in the professoriate.
Each year, there are far fewer students entering college. Despite a U.S. population 40 million larger than 20 years ago, fertility rates have fallen in two decades by some 500,000 births per year.
Meanwhile, from 1980 to 2020, room, board, and tuition increased by 170%.
Skyrocketing costs cannot be explained by inflation alone, given that campuses have lightened faculty teaching loads while expanding administrative staff. At Stanford, there is nearly one staffer or administrative position for every student on campus.
At the same time, to vie for a shrinking number of students, colleges began offering costly in loco parentis counselling, Club Med-style dorms and accommodations, and extracurricular activities.
As applicants grew scarcer and expenses went up, universities began offering “full-service” student-aid packages, heavily reliant on government-subsidized student loans. The collective indebtedness of over 40 million student borrowers is nearing $2 trillion.
Worse still, an entire new array of therapeutic majors and minors appeared in the social sciences. Most of these gender/race/environmental courses did not emphasize analytical, mathematical, or oral and written skills. Such course work did not impress employers.
Faculty hiring had become increasingly non-meritocratic based on diversity/equity/inclusion criteria. New faculty hires have sought to institutionalize self-serving DEI and recalibrate higher education to prepare a new generation for self-perpetuating radical ideologies.
At the more elite campuses, racial quotas vastly curtailed the number of Asian and white students. But that racialist social engineering project required dropping the SAT requirement and comparative ranking of high school grade point averages.
As less well-prepared students entered college, faculty either inflated grades (80% are A/A- now at Yale), watered down their course requirements, or added new soft-ball classes. To do otherwise while attempting to retain old standards earned targeted faculty charges of racism and worse.
Another way to square the circle of rising costs and fewer and poorer students was to attract foreign students. They pay the full costs of college, especially those on generous stipends from the Middle East and China. Nearly a million foreign nationals, the majority from illiberal regimes, are now here on full scholarships.
While here, many see their newfound freedoms as invitations to attack America. Once here, they too often romanticize the very autocratic governments and illiberal values of their homelands that they seemingly sought to escape by coming to America.
Most foreign students assume they are exempt from the consequences of violating campus rules or laws in general. After all, they pay the full cost of their education and thus partially subsidize those who do not.
Almost half of all those enrolled in college never graduate. Those who do, on average, require six years to do so.
All these realities explain why teenagers increasingly opt for trade schools, vocational education, and community colleges. They prefer to enter the work force largely debt-free and in demand as skilled, sought-after tradespeople.
Most feel that if the old general education curriculum has been destroyed at weaponized universities, then there is no great loss in skipping the traditional BA degree. A far better selection of demanding and well-taught classes can be found online at a lower cost.
The result is a disaster for both higher education and a wake-up call for the country at large.
Entire generations are now suffering from prolonged adolescence as they drag out college to consume their early and mid-twenties. The unfortunate result for the country is a radical delay in marriage, childbearing, and home ownership — all the time-honoured catalysts for adulthood and the responsibilities that come with it.
Politicized faculty, infantilized students, and mediocre classes have combined to erode the prestige of college degrees, even at once elite colleges. A degree from Columbia no longer guarantees either maturity or preeminent knowledge but is just as likely a warning to employers of a noisy, poorly educated graduate more eager to complain to Human Resources than to enhance a company’s productivity.
Yet it may not be all that unfortunate that much of higher education is going the way of malls, movie theatres, and CDs. The country needs far more skilled physical labour and less prolonged adolescence and debt.
STEM courses, professional schools, and traditional campuses are better insulated from mediocrity and should survive. Otherwise, millions more starting adulthood at 18 debt-free and fewer encumbered, ignorant, and entitled at 25 is not a bad thing for the country.

— Victor Davis Hanson is a distinguished fellow of the Center for American Greatness. He is a classicist and historian at the Hoover Institution, Stanford University, and the author of “The Second World Wars: How the First Global Conflict Was Fought and Won,” from Basic Books.



Behind door number two we have British Columbia back peddling on its short lived experiment on decriminalizing hard drugs. It turns out that drugs being illegal might actually be for good reason. Its comical how the CBC presenter frames this story and explains things in such an elementary way but Ive been seeing a lot of that from the media and authorities lately.


 
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