When you're a kid it's easy to be happy and carefree. You have school, which is like a ready made mini society that you can feel a part of regardless of your status, and which gives you a sense of direction. You have your friends and plenty of time to play and be carefree and silly. And you have your young age, which makes it easy to stumble through without worrying too much about mistakes or responsibilities. Most people's happiest years were their childhood and youth years.
But when you're well into adulthood, it's very different. You have responsibilities and financial considerations (and possibly difficulties), you might have kids of your own to deal with (which can be a pleasure as well as a burden). You've got to work, usually at a job that isn't that satisfying, maybe long hours that make it hard to really make the best of your free time. And most other people in the same situation have their own concerns, making the possibility of having good times quite limited.
It may or may not be possible to recapture the level of happiness from childhood when you're well into adulthood. But what I'd like to ask is, how can you capture as much of that feeling as possible? I don't mean being like a kid again, I just mean living a joyful, happy, fun adult life. There's nothing wrong with responsibilities and so on, but surely there's a way to have great phases in life once you're an adult.
I'm thinking staying fit, healthy and youthful and being reasonably wealthy would make it possible, as well as living in a culture that is generally happy. Also, hanging out with younger people (if they'll accept you).
What do you think?
But when you're well into adulthood, it's very different. You have responsibilities and financial considerations (and possibly difficulties), you might have kids of your own to deal with (which can be a pleasure as well as a burden). You've got to work, usually at a job that isn't that satisfying, maybe long hours that make it hard to really make the best of your free time. And most other people in the same situation have their own concerns, making the possibility of having good times quite limited.
It may or may not be possible to recapture the level of happiness from childhood when you're well into adulthood. But what I'd like to ask is, how can you capture as much of that feeling as possible? I don't mean being like a kid again, I just mean living a joyful, happy, fun adult life. There's nothing wrong with responsibilities and so on, but surely there's a way to have great phases in life once you're an adult.
I'm thinking staying fit, healthy and youthful and being reasonably wealthy would make it possible, as well as living in a culture that is generally happy. Also, hanging out with younger people (if they'll accept you).
What do you think?