There are a few problems with all of this back and forth, and sadly, all are explained by my theory of ecology. I'm unsure why it doesn't get more traction, perhaps it is too complex or controversial for those who have faith in God (as I do). The essence of what's going on is population boom, and for whatever reason (there are many), the reversal to the mean is coming, and there's nothing we can do about it at this point. All the credit expansion, government programs, usury, etc led to this moment, not at all hindered by the technological "progress" we had in all things efficiency, and in medicine. Now that that game is played out, but "they" still haven't killed off a large portion of all the world's population, we see the game morphing into godlessness, lack of tradition, drugs, promoting women and lying to them, and gaslighting with propaganda to the max. For a lot of us, there might have been an out, but the working takes so long, and the accumulation phase so important, we had to consider many other things than women, who largely didn't want to pair early in their 20s due to the above switch/game that was played on them.
Now we're here. You can marry a fatty or someone of low SMV, but you have the catch 22 of justifying that after all the years of work, when only 1% of women anymore are actually above average in attractiveness - women who will not be all that pleasant and will cost you even more $ and beyond. I personally choose the higher risk of not having children to try to get with women of better behavior and genes, and that means ... overseas.