female sentiment on the forum regarding gays and lesbians

stadtaffe said:
In the last weeks I did have one thought, a small insight into it which has probably been said elsewhere.

With the attack on the nuclear family, demotion of the man as head of it and his replacement with the government and the woman, and a general atomisation, there is demand, as you put it for companionship for women to fill up the void - enter the small dogs and the poofs.

Actually re single liberal women, I couldn't believe when I heard that their vote for Kamala is significant just because they care so much about abortion.

I just wanted to hear from women who had some level of aversion to the poofs.

My ex did not, and as mentioned in another thread I had to enact measures to make sure we were away from the poofs once we had a child, as she really was blind to there being any issue or threat with them.

I could probably fill up a thousand words or more about why I feel so strongly negative towards poofs, although it is of a personal nature to put it all on a public forum, relating to various experiences from my childhood through to adulthood, and the biblical teachings only strengthen what I naturally feel anyway.

But as mentioned in my other thread, on my 3rd date with this women a lot younger than me and actually fitting all my rarefied criteria, she let it drop that she was attending a gay wedding, she's good friends with one of the grooms. Anyway, my heart dropped I just thought "oh no not again".. All the positive traits she had unfortunately had a dark shadow cast over them from that point on.

But it's what I said above - an aspect of single liberal woman is often devotion to a career in the same way that a man is. Then once she has created a void and unbalance in her life but delaying children etc, the poofs can help fill that void unfortunately. Maybe they like to discuss the men they are into with a man who is into other men.
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I was looking into the straight woman/gay man friendship stereotype and actual research studies have been done on this phenomenon. From what I have read (and I'll post sources below) there are two different types of women who seek/keep friendships with gay men. They are either: 1) very pretty or 2) not at all pretty. Group 1 seeks non-sexual male companionship; group 2 uses gay men to boost their self-esteem.

After the man’s sexual orientation was revealed, women (particularly attractive ones) who were paired with a gay man reported greater anticipated comfort, which was mediated by their reduced worry about his sexual intentions (Study 1). Further, once women discovered that they were interacting with a gay man, they displayed more intimate engagement behaviors with him (Study 2).
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The relation between women's body esteem and friendships with gay men - PubMed

Women who associate with gay men are often portrayed as physically unattractive and lacking in both self-confidence and attention from straight men. However, many women report enhanced self-esteem and feelings of attractiveness as a result of attention from their gay friends. It is well...
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We tested two hypotheses: (a) women with gay male friends have poor body esteem and are rejected by heterosexual men, and (b) more contact with gay men is positively related to body esteem. Participants were 154 heterosexual women, who completed measures of their friendships with gay men, straight men and women, body esteem, relationship involvement and break-ups. Results supported the hypothesis that women's body esteem, specifically feelings of sexual attractiveness, is positively associated with friendships with gay men.
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