This doesn´t make much sense. It reeks of elitism. And some kind of sense of superiority. They are more pure. What a crock of shit! We are better than you, so you stay out.
I do that to my cat and dog, you know. Keep them out of the house. The dog doesn´t even attempt to enter anymore. The fucking cat always tries to eat our food. The fucker eats bread. Which cat eats bread? FFS. The dog knows how to hunt rabbits. When I arrive home, there´s a dead rabbit in the garden. Living on a farm sure has its perks...
It´s not a western thing. It´s as if you are learning Russian and decide to speak Russian with each other. In the west, you have the Catholic Church. Inside the Catholic Church, you have really conservative groups. Why not attend those? SSPX, or Opus. Maybe inside prots there´s conservative groups.
If a woman can divorce 3 times. She is nothing more than a whore. Nothing will change my mind. This is not a religious discussion.I'm open to creating a new thread as I'm sure the Orthodox teaching will shine the light of truth in any debate, but this topic is not a red herring to the topic at hand. Roman Catholics presuming to have a superior teaching on divorce and remarriage is what keeps many Roman Catholics in papalism. They see how the protestants have divided endlessly and have liberalized, and so that seems like a dead end. Then they look to the Orthodox and see almost everything they want, but they've convinced themselves that the Orthodox have "caved in" and "liberalized" on questions of divorce and remarriage and contraception, and so they believe that the Orthodox Church is in error and not worthy of converting to.
I've seen it happen many times that once a Roman Catholic realizes that he or she had grave misconceptions about Orthodox teaching on these two topics, they immediately decide to embrace Orthodoxy. I would even be so bold as to say that the vast majority of "trads" I know would seek to become Orthodox tomorrow if they realized that what they were taught about history/tradition regarding 1) divorce and remarriage and 2) contraception, and about how the Orthodox Church treats these matters, is false. They rightly perceive that things are not right with Rome, but they feel boxed in and trapped with nowhere else to go because they've been convinced that the Orthodox have "caved in" and "liberalized" on divorce and remarriage and contraception, so the Orthodox Church is not an option for them.
It might sound really strange to non-Roman Catholics, but trad RCs have largely fetishized these two topics (divorce/remarriage and contraception), and the perceived superiority of the RC position on these topics for them is what keeps them RCs and keeps them distrusting of Orthodoxy.
The problem is german and english. Because they started the protestant movement. The anglican church is based on a debauched king. Who wanted to bang and marry whores. As if this can be an example to anyone. But he knew the cath was the right example. And structured molded the anglicans around cath church.I thought this was only a protestant objection. I think we modern people are highly offended that someone could be better in terms of holiness. Equality rings in our minds. But, in reality, it's ok. It's just like with Mary, the Theotokos. We should be happy for her, if anything. It's ok, the entire structure around Christ is like that. These holy people are there to help us, pray for us, inspire us. They are there through God's grace. And I don't mind being protected from myself from things I am not yet ready for. This tradition and warning is even in scripture about those who partake in the Eucharist unworthily and unknowingly drinking condemnation on themselves.
We, in the West, are now noticing something severely dysfunctional in its ethos. The problem is deep, and it's embedded from centuries ago.
There is a West that looks like the East, but it's over a millennia ago. This is the West I'm trying to connect to.
Perhaps you're right. It just strikes me as a red herring. "Orthodox get things wrong" even if true, does not invalidate any criticisms of Roman Catholicism. Its a distraction.I'm open to creating a new thread as I'm sure the Orthodox teaching will shine the light of truth in any debate, but this topic is not a red herring to the topic at hand. Roman Catholics presuming to have a superior teaching on divorce and remarriage is what keeps many Roman Catholics in papalism. They see how the protestants have divided endlessly and have liberalized, and so that seems like a dead end. Then they look to the Orthodox and see almost everything they want, but they've convinced themselves that the Orthodox have "caved in" and "liberalized" on questions of divorce and remarriage and contraception, and so they believe that the Orthodox Church is in error and not worthy of converting to.
I've seen it happen many times that once a Roman Catholic realizes that he or she had grave misconceptions about Orthodox teaching on these two topics, they immediately decide to embrace Orthodoxy. I would even be so bold as to say that the vast majority of "trads" I know would seek to become Orthodox tomorrow if they realized that what they were taught about history/tradition regarding 1) divorce and remarriage and 2) contraception, and about how the Orthodox Church treats these matters, is false. They rightly perceive that things are not right with Rome, but they feel boxed in and trapped with nowhere else to go because they've been convinced that the Orthodox have "caved in" and "liberalized" on divorce and remarriage and contraception, so the Orthodox Church is not an option for them.
It might sound really strange to non-Roman Catholics, but trad RCs have largely fetishized these two topics (divorce/remarriage and contraception), and the perceived superiority of the RC position on these topics for them is what keeps them RCs and keeps them distrusting of Orthodoxy.
A woman who has been married 3 times. Is a whore. I see now the sudden interest from prot in ortho. Your relation with woman is strange. She should be virgin and marry one time. And always be faithful. That´s it. My wife is cath. And no way in hell would I put her near a church that allowed divorces. At least the prots have good economies. But the orthos. It´s the worse of two worlds.Perhaps you're right. It just strikes me as a red herring. "Orthodox get things wrong" even if true, does not invalidate any criticisms of Roman Catholicism. Its a distraction.
Also I'd say permitting remarriage if the priest thinks it is beneficial is less ergegious than blessing faggot couples. But that's just me.
No no. The priest has to shut is mouth and mantain the unity of marriage. Because he cannot separate what God united. Only God can do it.Also I'd say permitting remarriage if the priest thinks it is beneficial is less ergegious than blessing faggot couples. But that's just me.
It´s as you are telling me to eat russian food. I don´t see enough differences. To make someone change. Ortho has some novelty into it.
Sure it wouldn´t. Dude was just Iranian and Armenian descent. His father I think was muslim. Actually Iranian girls. Are pretty hot. What was the dude doing in Poland. If he wanted he could have just asked his father friends for a chick. There was something deep between Roosh and his father. A lot of things didn´t made sense.
It seems like you basically don’t know anything about Orthodoxy.
This makes no sense to me, that it would be better to bang hot Iranian chicks than to seek the Church of Christ
Bad faith mischaracterizationNo no. The priest has to shut is mouth and mantain the unity of marriage. Because he cannot separate what God united. Only God can do it.
Your church allows divorces too. They just call them annulments to make it sound better, and they are way more lax about it than the Orthodox Church. We Orthodox like to call a circle a circle and a square a square.A woman who has been married 3 times. Is a whore. I see now the sudden interest from prot in ortho. Your relation with woman is strange. She should be virgin and marry one time. And always be faithful. That´s it. My wife is cath. And no way in hell would I put her near a church that allowed divorces. At least the prots have good economies. But the orthos. It´s the worse of two worlds.
The problem is german and english. Because they started the protestant movement.
Ortho is like russian food. Now I will go and eat in a russian restaurant?
I got a new phone that can summarize web pages for me, so I asked it to summarize this page. Here's what came out:
• The poster, a genealogist, expresses a desire for reconciliation between Catholics and Orthodox Christians, acknowledging their shared brotherhood in Christ despite differences. They criticize certain Catholics who seek to join the Orthodox Church solely for personal salvation rather than bearing the cross of their own Church. While they believe in the superiority of the Orthodox position, they emphasize the importance of staying within one's Church and working to improve it, unless spiritual detriment is experienced due to changes within the Church.
• They predict the continued decline of the Catholic Church and Protestant denominations due to doctrinal errors and structural problems, citing the Orthodox model as the most stable and enduring. However, they affirm that all organizations based on the name of Jesus Christ are under divine jurisdiction and will be sustained by God's mercy despite human shortcomings.
• The poster asserts that the Orthodox Church, as the elder sibling of Christianity, will not abandon other Christian denominations despite conflicts and challenges, emphasizing the importance of unity and support within the Christian family.
I can see this is yet another fruitless Orthodox circle jerk thread.
Recognizing your own bias and lack of good-faith research would prevent divisive threads like this.
I rarely see Catholics start threads like this here, or on other platforms.
Strawmanning Catholic positions isn't charitable. This whole thread reeks of pride. The truth speaks for itself.
This is a common attack that Roman Catholics level at the Orthodox. It's misinformed and ignorant of Church history, however.
The universal church of the First Millennium (both East and West) "allowed" divorce and remarriage, which is why the Orthodox Church also allows divorce and remarriage today. If Roman Catholics "trads" are going to try to claim to be the same Church as the Church of the First Millennium, then this is a self-own on their part.
Where do we see this? Look at the Canons of St. Basil the Great (from the 300s). They explicitly allow for divorce and remarriage in the cases of adultery, abandonment, and grave violence. These canons of St. Basil (one of the greatest saints in the history of the Church) still form the basis of Orthodox canon law on this question. Why? Because these canons were accepted as canonical at the Council of Trullo (691 AD) and the 7th Ecumenical Council (which accepts Trullo as canonical) in 787. Roman Catholics, and their unfortunately ignorant historical scholarly work, seem to have no knowledge of this at all.
Not only this, but "Eastern Catholics" (those who pretend to be Orthodox but who are in communion with Rome) were "allowed" divorce and remarriage by the Roman popes until their canon law was revised in the early 1900s. This is well documented by Melkite Catholic bishops like Elias Zoghby.
Moreover, the post-1054 invention of annulments is a pure innovation (ie, anti-traditional), and it's a highly legalistic and pharisaical way of allowing divorce and remarriage in spirit, but not in letter. It also comes with its own problems and inconsistencies, for example the Roman Catholic canon law for annulments allows them in extremely vague cases like "psychological immaturity of the person at the time of marriage." Almost anyone can claim they were "immature" in their early 20s or at any time in their life (which is why this specific canon is the most often cited canon in the vast majority of annulment cases worldwide). You can have a married couple of 20 years with 10 kids who just "oops! I was actually immature when we were married so we were never actually married this whole time!" happen. This is not just a hypothetical scenario--it's the real lived experience unfortunately of thousands of Roman Catholics in the post Vatican II era. When we have such vague canons surrounding the validity of marriage, can we really ever say that we "know" we are married if we're Roman Catholic? If an annulment tribunal can rule (and has ruled in millions of cases worldwide) that my marriage never happened, can I really ever know that I'm objectively married if I'm Roman Catholic?
Not only this, but Christ Our Lord "allows" divorce and remarriage in the Book of Matthew for the case of adultery--and virtually all Church fathers accept this interpretation. I guess Roman Catholics know better than Christ? We know that popes have often thought they knew better than the consensus of the Church Fathers (eg, Mary's Immaculate Conception), but better than Christ Himself as well, huh?
These "trads" not only don't have a traditional position, they also have to reject their own modern pope (in Amoris Laetitia) in order to retain this illusion that their Church's perfect immaculate doctrine doesn't allow divorce and remarriage. This is obviously not a superior position to that of the Orthodox Church and its great saints and doctors (eg, Saint Basil the Great and all of those council fathers who accepted his canons). Not a single saint of the early Church criticized St. Basil for his allowance of divorce and remarriage, but modern Roman Catholic "trads" think they know better than not only their own pope, but also these great early saints.
Only when the Roman Church separated itself from the universal church after the First Millennium, separated itself from its own roots, and forgot its early saints and councils (eg, every RC can tell you about Vatican II but most/all have no idea what any of the early ecumenical councils were about), only in this context could these bizarre "trad" doctrines of "divorce cannot exist, but we have annulments bro" come to exist and be presumed superior.
Again, the vast majority of the Church Fathers believed that this verse allowed for remarriage in the case of adultery. Your extremely narrow "trad" interpretation doesn't make any sense: so you can divorce for adultery only, but you can't divorce for any other reason? So a woman who is beat up every day by her husband and put in physical danger can't divorce?
How can you "commit adultery" unless you are married? If we have an "except for adultery" clause given to us by Christ, then the person would no longer be married, and therefore wouldn't commit adultery. Either way, you have disproved pre-Francis Roman Catholic doctrine which stated that divorce doesn't exist at all, and the only thing that can separate spouses is death (with the legalistic/pharisaic technicality of having hundreds of thousands of annulments per year for backup when this doesn't work out).
You accuse protestants of making up doctrines over a thousand years after the Apostles handed to us the faith once delivered to the saints. Unfortunately, the RCC has done the same thing multiple times (papal infallibility, divorce doesn't exist at all, all priests must be celibate, papal indulgences to get out of purgatory, the immaculate conception of Mary, etc). Just look at the Dictatus Papae (mainstream papal teaching from just after the 1054 schism). It's very clear that the Roman Church departed significantly from the universal Church of the First Millenium after the Schism of 1054. The Dictatus Papae is disowned/contradicted by all Roman Catholics today (including "trads" like sedevecantists and SSPX) even though it was the mainstream papal teaching from 1070-1170. Again, most Roman Catholics have no knowledge of this at all, and none of the RC apologists even try to deal with my previous claims about divorce and remarriage being accepted by the Canons of St. Basil the Great, the Canons of the Council of Trullo, and the Canons of the 7th Ecumenical Council (approved by Rome).
All of this being said, we should be grateful to the Roman Catholic "trads" on this forum who make their own church look completely divided and incoherent with traditional Christianity. The only people who can take these "trad" doctrines seriously are those who are already heavily indoctrinated into it. For all others on this forum we can just see more and more clearly how false the Roman church now is, and how dangerous heresy can be. I don't want this to be a bashing of Roman Catholics (who already have enough stress with the state of their Church), however, I only wanted to respond by clarifying and defending a point that many Roman Catholics have bashed the Orthodox for on this thread.
Most Roman Catholic "trads" would probably become Orthodox overnight if they had their misunderstandings related to 1) divorce and remarriage, and 2) contraception cleared up. I feel like these 2 issues are basically the last remaining threads that keep people holding on to "trad" Rome over Orthodoxy. And for Roman Catholics both of these threads are only possible due to ignorance of history (in the case of divorce/remarriage) and misunderstandings about how Orthodox come to know what is true (in the case of contraception).
SeaEagle and Genealogist are giving a poor interpretation of scripture. Here's what they are missing:
Adultery is not merely cheating on one's spouse. How do we know this? Because the Christ said so:
(Matt 5:28)
Therefore, since Christ revealed that the Lord will judge us for "adultery of the heart," which is more than merely cheating on one's spouse, it follows there are many ways one can commit adultery of the heart. Such as:
- Beating one's spouse
- Refusing sex
- Abandonment
- Cam-whoring your spouse for cash
- (insert common sense here)
As the Lord states, it's not what goes into the mouth that corrupts, but what comes out - for what comes out reveals the desires of the heart.
All of the early Church fathers, like Basil the Great, understood this, which is why it is absurd to say Christ only meant adultery for divorce. Christ obviously meant more than mere cheating, which is why he mentions adultery of the heart, which is consistent with his other teachings on the desires of the heart.
don´t. I´ve stopped in the divorce part. And only started reading it because of Samseau. For Roosh it was probably just another fad.
Nope. Not true. They didn´t allow it to kings.Your church allows divorces too. They just call them annulments to make it sound better, and they are way more lax about it than the Orthodox Church. We Orthodox like to call a circle a circle and a square a square.
You are also forgetting that there are sometimes legitimate reasons for divorce as Jesus said Himself, including infidelity of mind, body, or soul.
And Roosh seems to be on drugs. He looks awful. He suffered a lot of pressure and cave in. He was really lost. Even though he didn´t kill or steal anyone, There's been too much criticism of him. Like he was a big-time sinner. He exaggerated by banging whores. But come on. Snap out of it. And the idea that everybody has to become some kind of monks. It wasn´t the death of sister only. But the end of an era. PUA had gone. Trump had gone. Now christian. And from this something else would come. But he was already old and worn out. To pull his next thing. Also maintaning the forum didn´t made any utilitarian sense to him. Costs outweighed benefits. If he wasn´t selling books. Why keep this.
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But westerners converting into ortho. It seems like you're forcing something. It´s not a western thing. It´s as if you are learning Russian and decide to speak Russian with each other. In the west, you have the Catholic Church. Inside the Catholic Church, you have really conservative groups. Why not attend those? SSPX, or Opus. Maybe inside prots there´s conservative groups. I have a friend from SSPX, and if you told him, a woman could marry three times. He would spit on you. Guy is a fanatic. But I like to talk with him. Every six months. SSPX is french. OPUS is spanish.
I apologize if my post above was reactive, but this paragraph shows that you took mass media headlines as fact and didn't read Fiducia Supplicans or the followup statement.That today, the Papacy has degenerated into child abuse (very small compared to the Roman Church as a whole, but still) sex scandals, and now LGBT acceptance, comes as no surprise to Orthodox. The Roman Church has been reckless for centuries and we all suffer for it.