Women that talk like this aren't even worth a response. It's clear they are in rebellion against God and man. If you sacrifice for a woman that won't submit, she will take everything she can from you. It's best to just walk away/ignore.
The Destruction of Modern Women
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Although to be fair there is a practical argument for men and women keeping their last names separate. From a bureaucracy perspective its extra work as when it comes to official documents there is sometimes situations where you have to provide documentation regarding proof of name change etc. I have seen cases where to avoid this the woman and man both keep their surnames the same after marriage but the children take on the father's surname, which I think is reasonable.
That first guy's response at 20 seconds, excellent job. Someone get him an account here please.
They’re just retarded… can we say that here? If they don’t have kids I can bring travel and no rent to the table. They act like the guy commenting has absolutely nothing to offer. These are the same gals who complain on TikTok about cost of living 3 seconds later.
There’s also psychological projection. They’re probably all bitter and don’t bring anything to the table either.
Yes, I've talked about this for the better part of 8 years around here, at least. I can enumerate exactly what I bring and why someone would want that. Even if a woman claimed she could do X, Y or Z the problem is her actually doing it for you.
What you'll hear often is that a man might "control" a woman with money, etc. What this always leaves out (due to women just wanting to spend without need or worry, typically) is that if you want the man's money and support "for free" you are subject in some fashion to his conditions, since it's his money. For married persons this isn't really, or ideally shouldn't be the case, but what % of women are judicious with spending? 5%? It's always so funny when guys like Dave Ramsey talk about "marriage" "faith" and "sharing". He might as well have come from the twilight zone with wives from his era, compared to women now and the law that "governs" us all.
I think one (several) of the issues I have in particular with finding someone that would be a proper match is generally getting a more quiet or reserved girl. Especially as I'm older now, I can have fun for stretches and don't mind some fun or energetic talk with coffee or booze, etc. The "but" is that I find, generally speaking, that women just talk way too much and want to either do things all the time or will try to disallow you from doing things that you like (away from her). While I get that women need reasonable attention, I find the modern day stuff to just be so out of balance, like so many things; it just seems like a constant chore, and a bore.
The way to account for this is to get to know the friends and especially families of eligible girls. If there is a wider network with solid faith and marriages, the odds will be much greater. Sure, there is still a chance of her going off the rails but if 90% of her close circles are solid it will certainly give a decent man a far better starting point.
Yes, what has been lost, and this also is included in the "marrying early" aspect is what surrounds them, which confirms our knowledge and any hypotheses. I recall seeing an interview of a girl even in NJ or NY, who was jewish I think. When asked, she said she got married because all of her friends were (she was late 20s). Tried and true - when you know, you know.
Exactly. Just as in the same way men are subject to women’s conditions if we want sex “for free” get women are so hypocritical and don’t realise the implicit double standards where one I bring seen as okay but the other isn’t.
People’s social circles are much smaller these days so couples spend a lot more time together.
Forty years ago it might have been more normal for example in married couple for the guy to go one night during the week and play poker with his male friends and the woman would go to her female friends house and drink wine and gossip etc. now people in general have fewer friends and relatives (cousins, nieces, nephews, etc) and they this fill that time vacuum by spending more time with their girlfriend/boyfriend.
It’s also modern women are just super annoying in general. If you could find a quiet, young virgin traditional conservative girl their mere presence is intoxicating and more enjoyable than anything else but these women are like finding a needle in a haystack.
Yes, it's a double whammy. Most of the whispering, telling, or flat out yelling that modern women do in their brunches, dinner and drinks, etc. is destructive to other women, particularly single women who might otherwise link up with a guy (they sabotage her). I've even seen women who were married for a long time with many kids fall prey to other divorced women's nonsense and then divorce their husbands, essentially. Sad.
I’ll pay for our vacations and housings on me. I split the bills with previous girlfriends. As I’ve gotten more into traditionalism and orthodoxy, no girlfriend or wife of mine is paying bills. But the frivolous spending - yeah she’s got to do that on her own.
Everyone would prefer this. The deal is that the society promoted them to make money and that by definition takes men's earnings and authority away. Just how it is.
Except they all make peanuts and complain, the last couple years have been a complete reversal of fortune. A lot of couples I know are 50/50ing it and family thinks I’m insane just letting a partner live in my house