Wife Hunting Abroad - Data Sheets Thread
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@Wutang <Obama voice>Let me be clear...that was a "laughing with you" haram react. </Obama voice>
I can't see why others are compelled to troll the thread and constantly post nothing related to it. I've been an objective analyzer of Australia Sucks ideas and posts, and I don't beleive he posts in bad faith. Just sayin'
Men are wired to scorn and expel perceived losers because that mindset is dangerously infectious and jeopardizes the main goal, which is victory.
Pity is a woman's domain.
However, man should be careful not to forget mercy in his quest for success because it is God's requirement.
But, sometimes, the line between being merciful and foolishly letting others exploit us is thin and not easily recognized.
Anyway, being an outsider in a men's group was always a hard task...
(just for reference, I'm not suggesting that anyone here is a loser)
Because some guys here seem to have no life. I can understand the ridicule in the other thread with the poster promoting prostitution as a gain in society. Not only is that theological wrong (no matter what Thomas Aquinas said), but it would just be another nail in the coffin towards societal decay. Everything keeps becoming more liberal. Gay marriage, gender bs, drug legalization, etc. of course prostitution is next on that agenda.
Australia doesn’t seem like a bad dude, and he should be helped. I’ll state this even if he is/was being disingenuous in his motives, what does the mockery or stupidity posted towards him accomplish?
Some of the posters who trolled him are the same ones who are quick to find fault and sins in others. It’s this hypocrisy and holier than thou attitude that drives people away, not towards the church. It’s completely cowardly as well. But I expect nothing less from guys who probably converted after a PUA phase and that community was mostly social rejects.
You guys need to take a good look in the mirror, you weren’t acting with charity at all.
I tried to help him and I didn't judge him, he blew me off because I wasn't telling him what he wanted to hear. You're taking up for the wrong guy here, his intentions are not good and enabling him does not help him which is specifically what he is seeking.
Don't worry. These guys just ignore anyone they don't agree with.
There's zero debate to have here. Only rebuke.
I mean the guy started a duplicate thread because he didn't like getting push back for his nonsense in the other, tried to ban people from it like a 6 year old in a tree house and is sperging out about datasheets. It's not like he didn't bring it on himself
It baffles me also.
In my eyes Australia despite being an agnostic, acted like a true Christian and bears his cross. He sacrificed his money, time, and comforts to travel across the world and share his experiences. And what did he get for his efforts and sacrifices? ridicules and insults, rather than gratitude.
While the Christians here acted more like Chews and Muslims who are only emboldened when they are numerically superior compared to their opponents. They descend like hyenas upon Australia, who bravely stands his ground despite being attacked from all sides.
I see that despite Australia's noble intentions, his threads got locked or got sent into troll's lounge like this one. Since this thread is already categorized as troll, I should just go all in.
Australia Sucks: A Journey of Words
In the labyrinth of life, he wandered, Australia Sucks, seeker of truth, A name echoing through digital realms.
From pickup lines to pixels, he wove his tale, A dance with destiny, a quest for connection, Seducing syllables, courting consonants, His keyboard a canvas, inked with desire.
He roamed foreign lands, passport inked, Chasing meaning, chasing women, His words a compass, guiding his steps, Through South America’s sultry nights, And Eastern Europe’s enigmatic skies.
Virginity, his creed— A fusion of biology and tradition, A rejection of Western decay, He stood firm, a sentinel of old ways.
Yet, controversy clung to his name, Agnosticism whispered in the shadows, Autism, PUA—accusations hurled, As Australia danced on the precipice.
Then, a metamorphosis—unseen, profound, He turned from the path of passion, To the Roman Catholic Church he knelt, Condemning past words, seeking redemption.
And so, Australia became a paradox, A mosaic of contradictions, a human tale, A poet, a wanderer, a seeker of grace, Australia Sucks—etched in pixels and ink.
By DoraemonAI
I'd hardly say anyone acted like a Jew here except those pushing prostitution as a net good for society.
And if you'd define sex tourism as Christian behavior... I have no idea....
He's not, but, he hasn't broken any rules if he's seeking a woman with the intent to marry. He may be lying - but that sin is on him, not the forum.
The forum provides good advice to all, even for those who wish to misuse it. Love thy enemy.
"God sends the rain down on the just and unjust."
I do not think Australia is a sex tourist, at worst he is a love tourist. From his posts before he did not give any indications that he only wanted sex, in fact he spent many resources to travel far away in search of a suitable woman for marriage.
I disliked the fact that many Christians think Australia is a profligate bad guy and ganged up on him. There are many people including me who are still in the process of finding our future spouse, and we can learn from guys like Australia who is doing the legwork to collect information relevant to finding a good woman.
I am not the first to describe it as sex tourism here. So while you may be sympathetic to finding a mate, and I am too, rereading the aggregate discussion and you'll see a shift in language metered from degenerate to less degenerate discussion only because of the general push back.
You can't say you're looking for a trad wife whose a virgin while simultaneously starting multiple travel threads in pursuit of a long term girlfriend you don't intend to marry.
These are hook up threads. Data sheets and dating are autistic attempts to formulate info on hooking up abroad.
This brings up a question: What makes a thread about "finding a traditional wife abroad" cross into a "hookup" thread? You wouldn't be from the culture by definition so wouldn't it entail time and consideration of the woman and her family ... in a sense, a form of dating/courting her?
Clearly that point is when posters refer to showing up in foreign countries looking for short term girlfriends, and then after receiving pushback, they switch to saying they are only looking for marriage, then asking the same questions about best places to meet girls from this foreign nation?
You have to assume their intentions are the same as before, and they are only presenting their motives differently to slide under the radar. This is pretty much the pattern that played out here.
Personally, I would prefer to see some room for threads like this, and if people will toe the line and present themselves as having wholesome motives, then I would give them the benefit of the doubt. However, they ought to at least have enough sense to present wholesome motives from the start, instead of leading with the plan to meet short term girlfriends.
I would say that if someone is wife hunting in a foreign land, I would expect to see them presenting travel arrangements that explain how they will meet, court, and marry this foreign girl, and will they move to live in the foreign country, or bring their bride back home. If the trip appears to be short term with no logistics planned for follow up, I'd still expect it is sex tourism.
What is a man's own definition of "marriageable" material during a wife hunting trip in a foreign country?
Dude that trip was ancient history it happened many years ago and has nothing to do with today.What is a man's own definition of "marriageable" material during a wife hunting trip in a foreign country?
Real life is not so black and white.
Just because you are looking for a wife most men are still only human and if on this wife hunting endeavour an attractive woman offered herself up for a night of fun how many men on this forum in all honesty would turn her down? Of course a lot of men here can be keyboard warriors and say they would never partake in a one night stand but we know it’s a lie.
Also most guys just because they are looking for a wife doesn’t mean they wouldn’t settle for a girlfriend if they can’t get a wife material woman. Again people can choose to be keyboard warriors and lie about it but how many men if they are being honest about it would choose monk mode over having a girlfriend?
In terms of my plan I would relocate to the country where the girl lives if I’m going to marry her and learn the language and maybe live their 8 months a year and 4 months a year in Australia (so I can earn some money in Australia and also if it’s a cold country escape their winter).
It comes down to the personality of certain posters. Some guys are control freaks who want to police the behavior of others even online which is a fools errand. When it’s something they don’t agree with then they police it, but if they agree then they tend to let it slip. Regardless, controlling behavior stems from insecurity. How they pile on Australia like a mob is even more concerning.
Australia needs nudges in the right direction and to find his path, not ridicule. From a practical perspective, all the mockery just seems to made him double down and keep going in his travels. So ridiculing him failed.