I think the point is that people who insist on the "Zionism" terminology act as though there was a "good talmudic Judaism" which is diametrically opposed to Christianity. And that's nonsensical.
Dialectics is for goyim. Judaism presents itself as divided exoterically, but it essentially works as a unit. Left wingers will argue for Queer theory and anti-Whiteness, Zionists will argue for vague boomer conservatism while trying to divert all money and energy towards their fake 3rd Temple mashiakh. Chabad, the most powerful cult, praises both. There is no clean, functional compromise with that religion. They hate Jesus, they believe people not born into their cult have animal souls, they think of Christianity as the enemy, and they will try to weaken Christian foundations every chance they get. It's what follows from the belief that anchors their identity. It's a belief that a Christian has to reject in any form whatsoever.
The Apostolic, Orthodox, Catholic Church is Israel. After baptism, the circumcision of the heart, you are a modern Israelite. You are continuing the tradition of the house of Abraham.
Also: dating Jewish women is cringe. Just don't do it. Ruined Alex Jones' life. There are lots of crazy women with huge breasts that you can go for instead, if that's your thing. There is never a good reason to date a yenta. It only happens when men fail to control themselves.
First quality to look for in a woman to be courted is faith in Christ, the Son of God, and Jews, by definition, can't do that without leaving their identity behind.